No one is perfect. Everyone will encounter problems that they are difficult to solve, so they will inevitably ask for help from others. Some people have good business abilities, but it is difficult to achieve anything. This is very likely because they encounter some problems when asking for help.
There are many methods and techniques for asking people to do things. If you are not sure, you will often suffer losses. When asking for help, it is not enough to just give gifts. Experts will do these four things well and expand their network of contacts.
1. Master the art of speaking in praise
People with high emotional intelligence are often particularly good at praising others. Praise itself is a very high art. To praise it with sincerity and characteristics, it must also make people feel comfortable when listening. If you just praise it randomly, you will lose interest and will not make people happy.
If you flatter and praise others too clearly when seeking help from others, it will often arouse others' disgust and suspicion, making them be wary of you, which will often make the result backfire.
If you can master the art of speaking in praise, you will be much more relaxed in the process of asking for help.
2. Move it with emotion and play the emotional card
When asking someone to do things, if you want others to help you, you must be good at playing the emotional card. For example, inspire the other party's sympathy, empathy with or other emotions, because most people pay attention to "emotion". As long as the relationship is in place and impress others, it will be much easier for you to ask for help from others.
3. Make preparations and preparations
If you want to ask someone to do things, you must have enough understanding of the other party, understand the other party’s personality and some basic situations, and then prepare for speech or strategy based on these situations.
Therefore, during the exchange between the two parties, we should not go straight to the topic in any case. This requires us to prepare in advance, and lay the foundation between each topic to make the communication between the two parties more comfortable.
is to be prepared to be targeted and not fight unprepared battles. In this way, the success rate of asking for help will be much higher, because only by preparing can we take the initiative.
4. Insight into human feelings and be good at putting yourself in the shoes of others
As the saying goes: "Essence in the world is knowledge, and understanding human feelings is article." Asking for others and doing things is inseparable from insight into human feelings. If you use human feelings well, things will go much smoother. The key to using human feelings is to put yourself in the shoes of others
Asking for others is not a unilateral personal behavior, but also an attitude of putting yourself in the shoes of others and putting your heart in it.
In the process of asking for help, think more from the perspective of others and think about the situation that you would agree or refuse, so that you can control the overall situation.
If you master the skills of asking for help, it will be much easier to ask for help. Of course, even if we know how to ask others for help, our requests may be rejected by others.
When we are rejected, we don’t have to pursue the reason too much. Indeed, being rejected is a very uncomfortable thing, but if you keep chasing the other party, it will often easily destroy the relationship between the two parties. This approach will not be worth the loss.
When seeking help from others, as long as we try our best, we don’t have to pay too much attention to the results. As the saying goes, "Planning depends on people, and success depends on heaven." In any case, it is still very important to maintain a normal mind.
