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A while ago, Ni Dahong was praised as the actor of Magnolia with the role of Su Daqiang . Netizens commented on the four words "really deserved".
Ni Dahong, who can act with just a bag of eyes, portrays this father's cowardice, vanity and selfishness to a deep impression, making people grit their teeth and inexplicably have a real and cuteness, locking in the seat of the "Internet celebrity father" of the year.
On the Father's Day just passed, many "big strong fans" are still sincerely wishing Su Daqiang a happy holiday. I guess even Su Mingyu can't understand this scene.
Su Daqiang has become the top star in the father's department, but he has also recently met a new opponent, that is, in the recently popular " Take Dad to Study Abroad ", "Huang Chengdong" played by Sun Honglei . With his cute and warm personality and profound golden sentences, he has attracted a lot of fans recently.
Huang Chengdong's son Huang Xiaodong is actually the "big-eyed boy" Zeng Shunxi, this wonderful gene.
Two internet celebrity fathers have different personalities, one is warm and the other is
Huan Dad Huang Chengdong is a character that Sun Honglei has been waiting for for three years before he got.
In order to act well, he has always claimed to be the "King of Beauty" and has gained 10KG weight. He also laughed at the expression and posture of a "greasy middle-aged man" from Huang Lei .
Because of Huang Chengdong's character, according to the director's original words: with a little mother-in-law and mother-in-law, he is a humorous Loser image.
From his exaggerated look, you can feel it one or two. The big flower T-shirt is paired with a large thick gold chain, and her body is trembling. She wants to keep up with the young people's aesthetics, but she is so awkward that she is ruthlessly disliked by her own son.
This father is not as lucky as Su Daqiang. Su Daqiang can still have a good daughter who is independent and self-reliant like Su Mingyu.
was cheated of savings by a financial management company, cheated of relationships by a nanny (almost cheated on the house)... All daughters were there to protect him one by one.
Huang Chengdong has only one son who is in adolescence and has all kinds of uneasy. For this precious son, he went to the United States to study in middle age. He had no culture and language skills, and had no way to deal with it.
Compared with Su Daqiang's selfish inaction, Huang Chengdong treated his son Huang Xiaodong appropriately, thoughtful and selflessly, as warm as the spring breeze, making the old mother as ashamed.
chasing his son at the airport to feed water and feed,
My son felt embarrassed and refused, saying that he was eighteen years old. But he responded with confidence, "You are also my son when you are twenty-eight."
In order to let his son eat authentic Chinese food, his suitcase was stuffed with various peppercorns and star anise, but he was almost suspected of carrying "illegal" items into the country and was detained.
Such a father should have gained the role of "father, kind and filial son", but he didn't expect that the situation was still constant and became the loser in his son's mouth?
software fathers have the same bug, and they can't figure out the boundaries of parent-child
Su Daqiang is a typical Chinese-style hand-off boss-type father.
Although he has objections to the way his wife disciplines her children, he chose to pretend to be deaf and dumb because he is afraid of trouble and trouble. The young Su Mingyu was treated unfairly by her mother and wanted to ask him to be fair, but he hid from afar.
such parent-child relationships are too distant, and adult children lack a deep emotional foundation with him. At this time, his wife passed away. After losing control, he wanted to re-express his father's presence.
No matter what the child’s lifestyle or financial situation is, the first thing he considers is whether he is comfortable. The result was a mess and my children were in a difficult life.
When children were young, as fathers, they were absent and their children had their own life. However, they had to interfere regardless of the situation and passed on their troubles to their children. It is an absolute negative teaching material in grasping the boundaries of parent-child.
Compared to him, Huang Chengdong is a very warm father who goes to the United States to accompany him to study and takes care of his son in every detail. Knowing that his son likes basketball, he would save money and buy him a pair of limited-edge sneakers.
But it may be true that "care is chaos", and sometimes he will not understand the difference between caring and clinging.
Huang Xiaodong originally thought that he would be free when he went abroad, but he didn't expect that Huang Chengdong would be surveillance more and more. Even on the way to school and in the grass on campus, his father's eyes would appear at any time...
romance, it was the time when he was full of passion. The old father broke into the window to guard his son's chastity and made people laugh and cry.
Hot mom Lin Sa (Xin Zhilei ornaments) joked: You are a bit like a son's illegitimate child. A "big event" that happened after
His anxiety deepened the old father:
The son was shot in the campus where he was located.
Huang Chengdong, who had always been a slutty and mother-in-law character, suddenly switched back to the " Liu Huaqiang " mode in one second, fighting against the fleeing crowd, fighting the criminals with bare hands, and saving the trapped son.
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Fortunately, Lin Sa gave him an iFLYTEK translation machine , so that his English level was limited to words, and he could finally communicate with foreigners alone.
With this translation machine, Huang Chengdong came to the office of the school director Oscar alone, hoping to get a job and not pay a salary. But Oscar asked him to give a reason to "occupy his own time."
Huang Chengdong described the horror of an old father when the shooting occurred through a translator:
When the bullet brushed by him, he was so afraid that the bullet would fall on his son, and even if he fought his life, he would protect his son.
At this moment, the audience who originally supported Huang Xiaodong all ran away and expressed their understanding of this "mother-style father": his son was worried about his father.
Finally, Huang Chengdong finally impressed Oscar with his fatherly love and successfully applied for a job. However, during his work, he still had to overcome all kinds of discomforts. Oscar, who has a serious and rigorous personality, cannot accept his carefreeness.
The two often fight for sand sculptures like "Will you wear a sweater if you want to wear a sweater in a statue of Venus?"
The whole process Huang Chengdong had to use the translation machine to communicate with the Oscars. Thanks to the sensitive response of this translation machine, he could express his Beijing-style ties clearly and save his work.
Huang Chengdong successfully stayed in the United States and was closer to his son.
But is it a good or a bad thing for a son who longs for an unrestrained college life? In a Chinese-style dear relationship, the deeper the love, the deeper the ties. How to withdraw appropriately is indeed a proposition worth discussing.
Two internet celebrity fathers summarized that parent-child relationships cannot be too close or too far
sense of boundary is the most difficult part of parent-child relationships. Absent when a child needs an intimate parent-child relationship will damage the child's natural sense of trust in his parents, leaving a gap in love in his heart, and it is difficult to make up for it as an adult.
And when children learn to face society independently, parents must also learn to let go, otherwise their children will not be able to gain true independence. Huang Chengdong gave selfless efforts to his child, but his son complained, and he accidentally made his son develop a dependency personality.
is clamoring to be independent, but many of the things I do are very immature.The two missed the interview because they went to the casino. Huang Xiaodong subconsciously reacted to complain about his father, but it was him who suggested going to the casino.
00 The boundaries between parents and children are not static. When children are unable to face the world independently, they must wait anytime and anywhere, and as their children grow up, they must leave enough space for them.
Fortunately, Huang Chengdong has a good understanding. After witnessing his child being called "Dad Bao" by his classmates, he thought about the "father-child boundary" he had never dealt with. Lin Sa criticized him for "dad strict control". He accepted it for the first time, who has always loved to talk.
He is different from Su Daqiang. He has a deep foundation of love from his children, so when he understands that "let go is for the children", even if it is difficult, he is gradually doing it.
Now that the child is in love, he still insists that the red line cannot be broken, but the young couple wants to attend the dance, and the old father is still happy to teach them how to dance ballroom dance.
drama is still on the air. With the development of the plot, it is estimated that Huang Chengdong, the "dad, is in charge of strict management", will give more space to his son.
At the same time, this warm father himself is growing up, from the beginning of his arrival in the United States because of language barriers, he has made many mistakes, and can hold a translation artifact to get a job for himself. He gradually integrated into local life and found a meaning other than "studying" in a foreign country.
In the recent plot, Oscar told him with heartfelt thought that he had passed away because of an old friend, and was sad about the scene...
In order to make Oscar's house more "popular", he invited his son to come and barbecue with him. Oscar was very interested in a bunch of Chinese seasonings, but his son only knew how to translate "salt".
or Huang Chengdong took the translator and took a photo of the Chinese label on the seasonings. All of them were translated, which made his son look at him with admiration:
Dad’s hardcore upgrade!
Although parents should learn to keep a sense of boundaries with their children, children should also understand their parents' mood of "love to the depths and letting go is too difficult". The best way to let parents go is to show that they can already be independent. A parent-child travel that shows your communication skills and adaptability may be a good opportunity.
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