In the original work "Do You Know", Mrs. Liu married her concubine Sheng Changfeng because of her ex-fiancé's fault. In the final analysis, if a woman wants to live a high-class life in marriage, no matter who she marries, she does not have to fight for her husband, because her o

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Regarding marriage, if you don’t try to manage it well, no matter how good the relationship is, it may slowly deteriorate.

In the original book "Do you know ", Mrs. Liu married the concubine Sheng Changfeng because of her ex-fiancé's fault. In her married life, she kept a clear mind, was ruthless when necessary, and gentle when necessary, and earned herself a good future.

In the final analysis, if a woman wants to live a high-class life in marriage, no matter who she marries, she does not need to fight for her husband, because her own aura is the scenery.

1. Marriage brings helplessness to women.

Although Liu's father is not as official as Sheng Hong, the Liu family is a prominent family that has lasted for one or two hundred years. With such a background, the Liu family was deceived by her fiancé, Mr. Jiang.

The two were originally going to get married, but Master Jiang's father passed away and he had to observe mourning for three years. But during this period, Mr. Jiang actually got the girl pregnant.

It can be seen that Mr. Jiang is an unknown person and his character is not good. When something like this happened, the Jiang family just apologized and were willing to pay more as a betrothal gift. There was no other theory at all. Of course Liu's mother didn't want her daughter to marry.

The marriage cannot be completed, and Mr. Jiang's ridiculous behavior cannot be told to the outside world, otherwise Mr. Jiang's future will be ruined, but if he does not tell it, Mrs. Liu will have to suffer the loss of being dumb, and the marriage will not be so easy.

So Liu's father asked his friend Sheng Hong to marry him. Old lady Sheng and Sheng Hong both thought it was a good match, but Chang Feng was very depressed.

Because the Sheng family and the Liu family often interacted with each other, everyone knew that the Liu family was not good-looking, but Chang Feng was a man who cared about his appearance. His mother was good-looking, his sister was also good-looking, and even the maids around him were pretty. But when they finally got married, they were given an ugly daughter-in-law, and he couldn't tell the story of his pain.

Therefore, after marriage, Chang Feng did not like Liu at all and always stayed in the Tongfang and refused to go back to the room.

This made Mrs. Liu very aggrieved. With her status, she should have been married to her legitimate son as the head wife, just like her sister-in-law Haishi. Unexpectedly, she ended up marrying a concubine because of her ex-fiancé.

In this helpless marriage, Liu did not give up on herself. Since bad things had happened, it was better to control the future, at least she would have time to plan for the rest of her life.

2. Liu’s first plan: keep a clear head.

Mrs. Sheng was very optimistic about Liu. She said to Minglan :

“Your third brother is not a bad person, but he just doesn’t have a backbone. I listened to Lin’s words. , Now listen to your daughter-in-law. Fortunately, your third sister-in-law is much better than Mrs. Lin."

Mrs. Liu is very aware of her situation when she marries Chang Feng: her mother-in-law Wang is not happy, and her husband is greedy for women and does nothing. With her head clear, she took advantage of retreat to defeat the Wang family.

Changfeng is just a concubine, and he has a legitimate mother, Wang. However, Wang doesn't like Changfeng and doesn't care about his marriage. However, Sheng Hong and Mrs. Sheng found him a wife with a high family like Liu. After the marriage, Wang naturally targeted Liu.

Regarding Wang’s difficulties, Liu had nothing to say and would suffer by herself no matter what. Stand when asked to stand, kneel when asked to kneel, and never say anything back no matter how unpleasant the words are.

Unexpectedly, Wang was still dissatisfied and deducted the food and clothing expenses of Liu's yard. Mrs. Liu still didn't say a word, but worked hard to serve Mrs. Wang.

Sheng Hong was already on good terms with Liu's father. Wang's being so mean to Liu undoubtedly slapped Sheng Hong in the face, and the two had a heated argument. Finally, Sheng Hong and the old lady decided that from now on, the Liu family would have the final say, and all food and clothing expenses would go directly to the general ledger.

Faced with Wang’s unreasonable troubles, Liu endured it with purpose. Her submissive behavior prevented others from finding any fault, so it was Wang who was at fault.

With the support of Sheng Hong and Mrs. Sheng, Liu seemed to be at a disadvantage, but in fact he had the last laugh. When Wang was sent back to her hometown and Hai took office with Changbai , the housekeeping power fell on Liu, and she became the powerful mistress of the Sheng family.

3. Liu's second plan: to urge her husband to make progress.

After Sheng Changfeng failed, he indulged in women and became very depraved. Mrs. Liu knew that this would not work. Only when Chang Feng grew up could this house have a future. Ms. Liu knew that her husband was disappointed with her appearance, so she could only find other ways to win her husband's heart.

On the fifth day after their marriage, Changfeng left Mrs. Liu and stayed with Tongfang, but Mrs. Liu didn't care.

However, when Sheng Hong and Mrs. Sheng found out, they reprimanded Chang Feng, and the old lady dismissed Chang Feng's four wives on the grounds that "Sheng's eldest son must be his legitimate daughter."

Changfeng was isolated and helpless, and suddenly felt so lonely and desolate. Liu took the opportunity to comfort her husband, no longer keeping a straight face, and spoke gently. After that, Chang Feng and Liu were as good as honey. Liu also took on the important task of supervising Chang Feng's study.

Mrs. Liu is not only aware of her own weaknesses, but also her husband's weaknesses and pain points. She slowly makes herself the backbone of her husband by showing weakness and showing kindness, making him willing to trust her, and finally makes her husband obey her words.

Therefore, after Chang Feng devoted his attention to reading, he realized the benefits of his wife more and more, and he listened to his wife's opinions more and more. Fortunately, in the end he passed the scientific examination and became an official.

Judging from the marriage between Liu and Changfeng, appearance is indeed very important. However, compared with appearance, it is more difficult for men to refuse a woman because she is capable of having affairs and being distracted.

4. Liu’s second plan: eliminate the unfavorable factors

For Chang Feng and Liu, Aunt Lin is a potential hidden danger. Therefore, Mrs. Liu never gave in on the issue of Aunt Lin. When Mo Lan encouraged Chang Feng, Mrs. Liu decisively protected her husband.

After Mrs. Liu married into the Sheng family, she visited Aunt Lin, Chang Feng’s biological mother, several times. However, Aunt Lin is really not a worry-free person and wants to return to the Sheng family.

How could Mrs. Liu not know what Aunt Lin was thinking? Not to mention whether Old Mrs. Sheng could pass the test, just because of Aunt Lin's trouble-making style, Mrs. Liu didn't want Chang Feng to be led astray by her again.

When Mo Lan asked him to bring Aunt Lin back, Chang Feng was undecided and turned to Liu for help. Mrs. Liu spoke directly for him, and spoke so confidently that Mo Lan had nothing to say. However, in order not to appear unfilial, Mrs. Liu did not say anything in front of Chang Feng.

Mrs. Liu had already discussed it with Chang Feng. Now that the old lady, Sheng Hong and Mrs. Wang are all still there, Aunt Lin cannot come back. If the family is separated in the future, the two of them will take Aunt Lin home to fulfill their filial piety.

After that, when Mrs. Liu went to see Aunt Lin again, she was scolded by her again. Even so, Mrs. Liu showed her position mercilessly and rejected her request.

Changfeng has become more motivated, and the house is well taken care of by Mrs. Liu. How can Aunt Lin ruin all of this. For the sake of family harmony, this disadvantage can only be eliminated.

Conclusion

Life is like an adverse journey, if you don’t advance, you will retreat. Liu lived a thorough life and won a relatively good future on her own.

On the contrary, there are some women who do not know what they should really do, and are accustomed to basing their happiness on the foundation of others and giving blindly.

In marriage, no matter whether you love or not, whether you are happy or not, a woman must always understand one thing: life is to be lived, and in the midst of a pile of chicken feathers and a sigh, you must have the courage to clean up your own mess, and you will eventually succeed on your own. Have your own happiness.

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