According to rural people, after the daughter-in-law married into her in-laws' family, she will be a family, and the family will not speak two words. Everyone should get along as close as their relatives.
However, there is also a saying in rural areas: "If the father-in-law does not enter the daughter-in-law's room, the uncle will not sit on the sister-in-law's bed."
means that no matter how good the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the father-in-law is, even if the father-in-law is as close as a father-in-law, the father-in-law must not enter the daughter-in-law's room. Because the two are the opposite sex and have no blood relationship. If my father-in-law goes to his wife's room, it will easily cause criticism.
And in the eyes of adults, the bedroom is a private place, and other opposite sexes are never allowed to step in except for couples and their own children.
htmlOn October 14, a woman in Jiangsu shared a video of "My parents-in-law coming to live at home, and the couple gave up their master bedroom for the elderly to live in" aroused many people's attention and heated discussion. Some netizens said that they could not understand the behavior of their father-in-law sleeping in their daughter-in-law's bed.
The daughter-in-law said that the home is a duplex building, the master bedroom is on the first floor, and the other bedrooms are on the second floor.
In-laws came to live in their homes. The two old men are old, their legs are not flexible, and it is inconvenient to go up and downstairs. After the couple discussed, they would give the master bedroom they slept with to their elders.
Two old people are kind and treat their daughter-in-law like their own daughter. The daughter-in-law also regards the two elders as biological parents as filial piety. Seeing that the father-in-law's legs were inconvenient, the woman couldn't bear to climb up and down, so she took the initiative to give up the master bedroom for them to live in.
Before going to bed that night, my husband accompanied my parents-in-law in the master bedroom and had not gone upstairs to sleep for a long time. The woman was a little curious and secretly went downstairs to the master bedroom to see what they were doing.
Push open the door of the master bedroom and the woman saw her husband, who had always been unfamiliar with talking, was washing his father-in-law's feet. I saw my father-in-law sitting by the bed, and my husband rubbed his feet. The two of them chatted about home while washing. The scene was warm and they couldn't bear to come forward to disturb them after watching it. The woman was very pleased to see her husband being so filial to her parents-in-law.
A man loves his parents deeply, which means he is very loving, kind-hearted and filial. A kind-hearted person will definitely not be wrong with his wife and children.
is indeed the case. According to the woman, her husband is a father who loves his children and a husband who loves his wife at home. Except for work, I spend the rest of my time around my family. When I have time, I will make delicious food to make my wife and children happy, and I have never had any other thoughts. Follow him, you can never be distracted.
The woman originally wanted to show off her husband's filial piety through the video and her peaceful days. Unexpectedly, netizens' comments were heartbreaking.
Some netizens believe that they cannot understand the behavior of their father-in-law living in their daughter-in-law's bedroom. The first time I heard that my parents-in-law sleeps in his daughter-in-law's bed. Even if the parents-in-law have poor legs and feet, they can set up a bed for them in the living room on the first floor. It is unheard of for parents-in-law's bed to sleep in.
Another old netizen said that as a father-in-law, I cannot accept going to my daughter-in-law’s room, let alone sleep in her bed, don’t criticize me!
There are even netizens who think that this in-laws is ignorant and the wife asks you to live in the master bedroom, so you can live there. Don't consider issues for your son and daughter-in-law. This incident has spread, where will the daughter-in-law put her face?
However, some netizens praised this approach. I don’t envy those who show off their cars and houses, but those who show off their parents’ feet, I’ll give you a thumbs up! For those who accuse the couple of this practice, there are physical and mental problems in themselves.
What happened to the parents-in-law sleeping in the bed of their daughter-in-law? Not sleeping in the same bed at the same time.
There is a saying: "If the mind is nothing, all things will not arise, and the mind will be mysterious. How can dust stand?" In other words, people in the world are always easily trapped by troubles. Only by thinking about it carefully can they discover that in the final analysis, it comes from people's hearts.
Regarding netizens' comments, the woman said that when you treat your in-laws as your parents, you will not feel inappropriate.
In her eyes, as long as two elderly people live comfortably and happily, everything else can be accepted. As long as you are open-minded, you are not afraid of what outsiders say. It is natural to respect your parents.
As Yu Hua In " Living ", there is a passage that says, "Life is the feeling of everyone, not the opinion of others."
The world is so big, there are always people who disagree with us. If you always want to live as others expect, you will eventually lose yourself.
Don’t let other people’s opinions drown out your inner voice, and don’t judge your life with the eyes of others. After all, life is your own, and only by following your true heart can you live a comfortable life.
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