Whether it is a couple or a lover, when the other party no longer contacts you, no matter how much you like it, don’t do these 3 things
Everyone knows that it is not easy to meet people, so you must learn to cherish them.
But some people, some feelings, cherish and work hard, eventually become stories and the most familiar strangers!
Some people may say that it must be caused by one of the two people who does not like it.
Or, the person who once valued you very much, now, in his eyes, you are just an optional person!
may even think that your cherishment and your initiative are disturbing his life and affecting his work.
Then, the contact became sparse, and the number of times they met became less and less. Finally, the contact was broken and there was no intersection.
When a person who usually contacts you frequently, suddenly one day, he will not contact you anymore and will not reply to your message. Don’t worry, don’t ask the reason, as long as you no longer do these three things to him.
1. Don’t force it, don’t force it to leave
When a person who usually takes the initiative to contact you and no longer contacts you, don’t ask him why, as his failure to contact you will already explain the problem.
When a person insists on leaving your world, there is no room for nostalgia. Tell yourself, let him go, give him freedom, don’t force him, don’t force him, and don’t keep him in a low voice.
Because what you ask for is not love, what you force yourself to stay is not love.
As long as you cherish it and treat him well enough, you will have no regrets.
As long as you are willing to work hard and sweat, I believe that one day someone will be around you.
2. Don’t blame others, don’t blame yourself,
One-way love will never warm the other person’s heart.
Wishful efforts will never be cherished by the other party.
Good love is never a matter of one person, but a pursuit of two people.
When you take 99 steps towards a person, the other party refuses to take a step.
You choose to turn around and exit, not blame others for not cherishing, not blame others for being ruthless, and not blame yourself for being incompetent.
People who care about you, no matter what kind of person you are, will cherish you; those who love you will be full of you.
Only those who don’t have you will ignore you.
Cherish those who care about you, and give more warmth to those who love you.
The person who disregards you is not worthy of his thoughts. There is no need to pay for someone who doesn’t take you seriously, and it is not worth it for him.
Life is short, energy is limited, love is precious, you should give it to the right person!
To be precise, you must give to those who know how to cherish, your love and your efforts will be valuable.
3. Don’t expect the person who wants to leave will change his mind.
A person who wants to leave, don’t expect him to change his mind and stay with you for the rest of his life.
The old saying goes well, those who want to leave cannot be kept, and those who want to stay cannot be driven away.
When a relationship is over, no matter how hard it is to let go, you must tell yourself that it no longer belongs to you.
The person who no longer belongs to you. No matter how frequently you contact you in daily life, once you break off the connection, no matter how unwilling you are, no matter how romantic you were, you can never go back to the past. You can only face reality, accept reality, let him leave, and wish him a better life for the rest of his life.
Faced with a person's departure and accepting his dislike, you must learn to slowly get out of a relationship that cannot be continued.
In this way, you will learn to be strong, not remember the past, and not fear the future.
Believe in yourself, believe that tomorrow will be better, believe that the person who loves you, is looking for you in the crowd, and the next intersection will be thrown into your arms!
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