I am 59 years old and have 3 million yuan in savings. I want to find a second-married wife. I give him 5,000 yuan in pocket money every month, but no one is willing to marry me. I am Aunt Xiang, who is 59 years old this year. When I was young, I started a small business, made som

I am 59 years old and have 3 million yuan in savings. I want to find a second-married wife. I give him 5,000 yuan in pocket money every month, but no one is willing to marry me

I am Xiang Aunt, I am 59 years old this year. When I was young, I started a small business, made some money, and bought a few houses. Now, I have 3 houses under my name and more than 3 million yuan in deposits.

I have a son who is already married and I leave my business to my son. My wife died of illness 6 years ago.

I originally thought that after my wife retired, we would walk around together to see the beautiful mountains and rivers of the motherland. Unexpectedly, before my wife retired, she went to heaven first.

Now, I have been with my wife for more than 6 years, and my son is not around. He has his family to take care of and is busy with career. I am worried that I will not live well by myself, so I suggest that I find another wife.

I also feel that although living alone is comfortable, I am still a little lonely, especially at night, I want to find someone but I don’t even say anything in my heart.

. A few of my peers who have lost their cousins ​​have remarried. They are very happy to see that they are having a second marriage. There is also a love affair in the evening. They are full of happiness, as if they are over 10 years younger. It’s so good to have a relationship.

I just thought, I am still young, so I will find a partner too. No matter what, it is always good to have someone to be your company and take care of each other.

So, I began to accept various blind dates, hoping to find a like-minded partner, spend the rest of my life together and enjoy my old age.

I don’t have high requirements for finding a second-married wife. I don’t need him to have money or a house, nor do I need him to be tall and handsome. As long as I meet my three requirements, it’s fine.

First, he cannot be too old, it is better to be younger than me. It is acceptable between 3 years older than me and 12 years younger than me. It is better to be healthy, love sports, and be able to sing Cantonese Opera .

If I am sick in the future, he will take care of me wholeheartedly and cannot leave me, but if he is sick, I will not take care of him, so I can only let his family take him back to take care of him.

Second, before marriage, a property distribution agreement must be signed, and my property will belong to my son in the future.

After marriage, you have to live in my house and listen to me for everything. I give him 5,000 yuan in living expenses every month, and I have to cover all the expenses in living.

But I only cover our two. If his children and family have a place to use money, I will not be responsible, but he can distribute his money at will.

Three years ago, I lived a single life for more than 6 years and was used to sleeping alone. After marriage, we had to sleep in separate rooms. However, we had to take care of each other and accompany each other.

If he wants to live a married life, it is not impossible, but he has to pay it, 3,000 yuan per time. I heard that the women outside have to pay more than 1,000 yuan at a time. I am innocent, 3,000 yuan is not much.

However, I never expected that I had such good conditions, and I gave me 5,000 pocket money every month, but I went on a blind date for more than 30 people, and no one was willing to accept my request.

everyone said that I have high requirements and harsh requirements. Not only do I not need a man to give me pocket money, I also give him pocket money, but I don’t need him to bear the living expenses. Why is this harsh?

He can get 5,000 yuan without paying anything, and I am with him. What's wrong with this?

Many people work hard to work for a month, but they still receive less than 5,000 yuan. If you marry me, you don’t have to go to work and you can get 5,000 yuan by including food and accommodation. What else can you not be satisfied with?

If I were a man, if a woman with such good conditions came to me, I would definitely agree immediately, and I would wake up with a smile in my dreams.

I really don’t know what’s wrong with these men. They don’t know what’s wrong with each other. They just have three small requests, and they just think that I have high requirements.

Alas, you guys say that I have such good conditions and want to find a suitable partner, why is it so difficult? Why can't you find it?

@Muziyan Story : I heard about Aunt Xiang’s story, I was angry and funny. I said Aunt Xiang, don’t get married or find a wife. Just find a nanny at home for 5,000 yuan.

Your request is more suitable for hiring a nanny. The nanny will definitely listen to you in everything. If you ask him to cook, he will definitely not dare to make porridge, and he will not covet your property, because you are just an employment relationship.

If you want to find a partner to get married, it’s better to be sincere. Don’t make too many rules and regulations, but talk about feelings. The two must have the responsibility and obligation to take care of each other.

cannot be married yet, but think that the other party is for his own money, and even think that the other party will get sick and will drag you down.

Whether it is hiring a nanny or finding a partner, you must be sincere, if you always use the other person's ideas, or always speculate on the other person.

The wife you find may not treat you sincerely; and the nanny you hire may not do your best to take care of you.

As a person, be more sincere and less routine; sincerity can enter the heart and be exchanged for sincerity.

Friends, do you think Aunt Xiang’s requirements are high? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.