Nowadays, the ratio of men and women is more than men. Men are worried about finding a partner, and women should have many choices. But a 34-year-old woman cried: I don’t want a house, a car, or a bride price. There are only three requirements, why can’t I get married? Let's take a look at this lady's emotional puzzle.
Ms. Wang/34 years old
I am an unmarried single mother. Although I already have children, I have never felt that I am worse than others. I am the department head of the unit, and my monthly income is over 10,000 yuan, and my financial conditions instantly kill many young girls. I am 34 years old and have no advantage over young girls in age, but I am mature and can take care of my family. I am not as beautiful as young girls, but women will age. Wouldn't everyone be the same then?
I was deeply hurt by my ex-boyfriend. I used to no longer believe in love and naively thought that I could live a good life with my child. Later I found out that the child needed a father, and it didn't matter even if he was not a biological child. And I, I need the care and support of men. No matter how strong a woman is, she will be tired after being strong for a long time.
I had the idea of getting married two years ago. My blind date journey was so rich that it could be made into a TV series. I don’t choose a spouse like those superficial women who require men to have a house, a car and a car. I don’t want a house, a car and a bride price. There are only five requirements. I think these three requirements are not high, so why is no one willing to marry me?
Now let’s talk about my five requirements. Marriage is related to a woman’s lifelong happiness. It is indeed too hypocritical to say that there is no requirement. The first requirement is that men can be unmarried or divorced, but they cannot have children. I think having a daughter is enough. If the man can't accept it, we can have another one. If you each have one child, the family relationship will be too complicated and it will be difficult to get along with each other in the future.
The second requirement is that men must have a stable job, be motivated, and their income shall not be lower than mine. I can not have a room, a car, or a bride price. It can be said that I was actively reducing the conditions and reducing the burden on the man, but it does not mean that I have no requirements for the man’s financial conditions. I have requirements for the quality of life. The man’s financial strength must be comparable to mine so that he can live a quality life in the future.
The third requirement is that the man is sincere to me, knows how to appreciate my unruly soul, cannot dislike my past, and affirms my value. My experience is different for girls in average, and it may be too alternative for some traditional people. Who has no past and who has no story? I hope that my future lover will be someone who truly understands me and loves me, and will not laugh at me with my past and look down on me.
These are my three requirements for future partners. To be honest, I think they are just talking about the facts. The requirements I put forward are not very high. Why do the men who I went on blind date turn around and leave after hearing this? I once asked a blind date partner who was about to accomplish something, and the other party's answer was that I was too arrogant and too alternative. He was just an ordinary person and wanted to find an ordinary woman to get married and have children, so he could not appreciate my unique soul.
I am really helpless, and I can't do it by lowering my requirements. If you just find a man to live a life, what's the point? It’s better to be better than to live with your daughter. I really long to meet someone who is in love. Are all men nowadays too realistic and there are no good men? Netizens, you all tell me whether my request is reasonable, because those men are too selfish. What should I do to find my favorite partner?
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