Li Chengru abandoned his wife and son for 28 years and was accused of losing his artistic ethics, but he said: It is to hone their minds. As we all know, Venus has always been called a sarcastic tongue, sharp words and hit people's hearts. In the entertainment industry, countless

Li Chengru abandoned his wife and son for 28 years and was accused of losing his art. However, he said: It is to hone their minds

As we all know, Venus has always been called a poisonous tongue,

speaks sharply, hitting people's hearts . In the entertainment industry, countless people have been criticized by her.

For example, Xie Na , Hua Chenyu , Feng Gong , etc.

If the poisonous tongue has a rank,

Then, Li Chengru, who is confronting the sky, the earth, and the son, should be comparable to Venus.

is ruthless when it comes to criticizing people, is also merciless.

For example, in " Actor Please Take Place ", Li Chengru performed on Guo Jingming's group,

means that is like a needle and a thorn in the back, and his words are very sharp

For " The Legend of Zhen Huan " even said: is making up randomly and harming people a lot.

even said in the show that an actor was acting in a crying scene. used eye drops.

and Zheng Shaoqiu collaborated on filming. Because Zheng Shaoqiu's Mandarin is not standard, can only be replaced by 123,

Li Chengru immediately turned away.

even let his own son go.

There is a family named Li in Beijing who opened a silk shop and the business is very prosperous.

has 10 children, 4 girls, 6 boys, , and it can be said that the population is prosperous.

The children chatter all day long, it was very lively.

is also very wealthy and lives a very wealthy life.

One day in 1954, this family was beating drums and drums, busy organizing banquets. It turned out that another young master was added.

His father named him Li Chengru and he was particularly fond of him.

It’s a pity that the world has unexpected situations, and people have good fortune and good fortune at any time.

When Li Chengru was 2 years old, his father unfortunately passed away and his family’s business plummeted.

had no choice but to sell the property, calligraphy and paintings, tables, and chairs. They could sell them without losing any of them.

At that time, Li Chengru had gone from a rich young master to a poor boy.

So, in his childhood memory, there is only one word in - poor.

A woman is weak, but she is just a mother. In order to support her 11 children, she had to work as a coolie. On the railway, carried more than 100 kilograms of wooden pillows and smashed passers-by nails.

also worked as a kitchen assistant in a hotel and a bricklayer on the construction site. She went out early and returned late every day, which was very tired.

Li Chengru followed his brothers and sisters to carry sacks on the construction site,

to the vegetable market, picking up rotten vegetables leaves thrown away by others.

The big fish and meat used to be replaced by cabbage tofu

white flour steamed buns, and turned into corn cake .

and even, in order to grab food, is often beaten to the point of bleeding.

Later, in order to save money, my mother sent her brother and sister to the theater to learn Peking Opera .

Although life is hard, at least you won’t be hungry.

Since then, Li Chengru has lived a life of playing and singing.

Until Li Chengru was 17 years old, he entered Jingshan clothing factory to work , and his family life was a little looser.

At that time, his monthly salary was 16 yuan.

In that era, it was not easy to find a decent job.

Li Chengru is already very lucky to be able to work in a clothing factory.

However, he refused to settle for the status quo.

decided to return to the theater stage. In order to improve his professional level,

worshipped the famous actor Dong Xingji . In 1980, he successfully entered Beijing Film Academy and pursued his dreams.

At the same time, I also gained love.

's wife is Li Shirong. She is a woman who combines beauty and talent. She serves as the leader of the art troupe and has a good family background.

At that time, Li Chengru was still a poor boy and his family was poor.

can be said to be a bad match.

However, Li Shirong didn't care about these things and wanted to marry this man against his parents' wishes.

family members were helpless in their advice, so they had to let their daughter go.

After the two got the marriage certificate , Li Shirong followed Li Chengru to a small house with only 18 square meters. The furnishings in

are dilapidated and simple, and the kitchen and bathroom are still public, and the environment and sanitary are enough to describe them as dirty and messy.

Seeing such an environment, other girls will definitely turn around and leave

, but Li Shirong said this:

"Martial wife must share the same joys and sorrows, it's okay, life will be good."

Li Chengru at that time made up his mind to let his wife live a good life. After

, Li Chengru joined the crew of " Journey to the West " and became a right-hand assistant to director Yang Jie .

However, the work of recording is not easy to do.

is difficult to adjust. He is often complained and has no choice but to leave. After the broadcast of

Journey to the West, Yang Jie became famous all over the world, and the four masters and apprentices became popular

, but Li Chengru was alone.

The burden of the family depends entirely on Li Shirong to support it alone.

In 1985, his wife gave birth to a son for him and named him Li Dahai.

For the sake of milk powder money, Li Chengru chose to go into business.

, while Li Shirong became a housewife for the sake of his family. While taking care of his son, he looked forward to her husband coming back soon.

has been here for 5 years.

After Li Chengru came back, he opened a clothing store. Because of his novel and unique model, he was very popular among customers.

transformed into a big boss worth millions.

Finally, he lived a rich life and his life became more and more luxurious.

clothes must be famous brands. suits are 70,000 or 80,000 yuan, and

tie is 10,000 yuan, and all kinds of new luxury cars can be driven casually.

goes to and from hotels to socialize, others have to shout "boss".

is happy, and when you are happy, you will get hundreds or hundreds of rewards.

At the same time, he also fell into a life of rich and rich life, and became unwilling to go home.

even filed for divorce with his wife.

He did make his wife live a good life, but he failed to accompany her until the end.

faced this bolt from the blue, she did not cry or make a fuss, but only put forward one condition,

"I don't want anything else, just my son."

That night, Li Shirong took his 6-year-old son back to the small house of 18 square meters.

lived a hard life.

At that time, Li Chengru's life was not easy.

, under the instigation of his friends, started foreign exchange, and returned to the pre-liberation overnight, becoming a poor boy.

Marriage and economy are empty.

is gone, you can earn it again, but if your body collapses, you will really lose nothing.

Not long after, Li Chengru was diagnosed with cancer and once again gave him a heavy blow.

Perhaps after experiencing life and death, he suddenly realized that

decided to embark on the road of acting again and become an actor.

So he went to the hospital for surgery. After the doctor's chemotherapy, he found out that he had not had cancer.

Since then, he has embarked on the road to clearing debts and debts, and it took him a whole year.

In 1997, 41-year-old Li Chengru returned to the film and television industry.

became popular with Feng Xiaogang 's "Big Bowl" and gained popularity in the circle. In the years after

, he filmed works such as "Serious Case Group Six" and "You Are My Life".

Every character is deeply rooted in people's hearts.

It can be said that Li Chengru made a beautiful comeback.

At the same time, there has also been progress in love.

and a Peking Opera actor named Shi Yihong (18 years younger than Li Chengru), entered the palace of marriage.

It is said that Li Chengru met her for a week and then began to pursue her.

At that time, one was 43 years old, and the other was divorced, and the other was 25 years old, and had never been in a relationship. The age gap between

made Shi Yihong instinctively reject Li Chengru.

However, he did not give up, but instead tried his best to get close to Shi Yihong.

creates various romantic atmospheres, goes to the theater to support it, and sends flowers to

for 5 years to get Shi Yihong.

In 2003, the two held a wedding in Shanghai.

At the beginning, the two of them lived a sweet life. They would buy her flowers every day, accompany her to go shopping with her, and even. In order to buy her a pair of noodle faces, they would not hesitate to turn down their work and use their relationship to inquire.

can be seen that Li Chengru loves her very much.

But, one is from Beijing and the other is from Shanghai, how long can this love last?

How long can you last for life in two places? During

, Li Chengru advised his wife to come to Beijing to develop countless times. However, she couldn't let go of the career she had worked hard for many years.

At that time, one was like salt and the other was like sugar. No one could melt the other, and no one was willing to compromise.

Finally, during the Spring Festival in 2006, Li Chengru called Shi Yihong and said "divorce".

He is alone, busy filming and variety shows at work. In life, he fights crickets, plays and collects, and lives freely and freely. However, the lives of the mother and son are full of hard sweat and bitter tears.

In order to make money, Li Shirong had to send his son to a boarding school. Although the tuition fee for

is a bit expensive, fortunately, she has enough time to work.

At that time, the winter in Beijing was very cold, the wind was bitter and the pain was blowing.

rides a bicycle every day. Li Shirong, who goes to and from get off work, has frozen his feet, and has frostbite, which is painful and itchy.

After the sensible Dahai found out, he thought about using his New Year's money to buy a pair of shoes for his mother.

So, early the next morning, Dahai came to a shoe store. After asking carefully, he found that the money was not enough.

, disheartened, walked out of the shoe store silently, looking forward to when the discount will be given. After

, Dahai would go to see it every day.

Finally, it was a kind aunt who lent her membership card to Dahai before buying this pair of shoes.

Li Shirong couldn't help crying when he looked at the shoes given by his son.

When I arrived in junior high school, Dahai was ridiculed and excluded because he couldn't afford brand-name shoes. He looked depressed every day.

Li Shirong only learned the reason after asking the teacher.

When I thought that the child could not be bullied, I gritted my teeth and bought a pair for the child.

And Dahai cherishes this pair of shoes very much.

tried it, then put it back, and waited for the shoes on your feet to be worn out before changing them.

shows that although their lives are very hard, Li Shirong educated his son very well.

is sensible, filial and considerate.

So he simply dropped out of school and started to do various part-time jobs to make money, such as the waiter in the bar, who sells wine, sings in the karaoke bar, go to a pizza restaurant to make pizza, and have done all the dirty and tiring work.

The suffering of life made Li Dahai resent his father, because Li Chengru did not do his duty as a father.

Finally, it was my mother who advised Dahai not to resent his father, and even proposed to accompany his father to celebrate the New Year.

However, at that time, my father didn't want to pay attention to Li Dahai, and what he got was just a "like a man".

In 2018, Li Dahai participated in the program "I'm Not a Big Star", and other contestants were accompanied by others.

Li Dahai is alone.

Although Li Chengru did not come to the scene, he still recorded a video for his son.

Unexpectedly, embarrassed his son in public. After the

program was broadcast, Li Shirong threw a bowl in anger.

For many years of neglect, she was not angry and filed for divorce. She was not angry, but she said that her son just couldn't do it.

She had wanted to call Li Chengru to question him, but in the end she endured it for the sake of her son and father’s relationship.

can only be kept in your heart and digested silently. In the

program, Li Dahai also said that in order to improve the situation at home, borrowed money from Li Chengru and could write an IOU. After being rejected by

, he still cruelly said, "You don't have the ability to repay me." Li Dahai's life was rejected by his father before it even began.

Later, he wanted his father to help buy a piano, but was scolded and got out.

Gradually, Li Dahai gave up his obsession with his father and devoted himself to his work.

uses his own strength to support his home so that his mother can spend his old age in peace.

Now, working in Disabled Persons' Federation to help those with disabilities is a very meaningful job.

. Regarding Li Chengru's behavior of ignoring his first wife and son, was accused by the public of being ill-informed and moral

However, he said: is to hone their minds and make them independent.

Li Shirong suffered a lifetime of hardship because of him, but he used this sentence to expose it lightly, pushing all the mistakes completely. In his career, Li Chengru was definitely successful, but his relationship failed.

Nowadays, Li Chengru is 66 years old. Perhaps he is old and prone to nostalgia.

or perhaps he is a discovery of his conscience and wants to compensate his son.

bought a luxury car worth millions for his son, but his son refused.

In the eyes of outsiders, they may think that Li Dahai is sensible, and in my opinion, in front of his father, he always lives cautiously, very tired and depressed. Is this suppressive education like

right or wrong?