On the afternoon of September 30, 2017, the setting sun was warm and the wind was irritating. Tang Xiaolin Standing in the afterglow of the sunset, her face was sad and her eyes were cold...
Suddenly, she breathed a sigh of relief, climbed up the railing quickly, and jumped, like a kite with a broken string, rushing straight to the embrace of the sea.
She is only 32 years old and is known as a "beautiful academic master". She is studying in the top American university. Why did she commit suicide by jumping into the bridge?
1985, Tang Xiaolin was born in an ordinary family in Yantai, Shandong. As the only daughter in the family, she devoted all her love and didn't know what worries were.
When Tang Xiaolin was in elementary school, she often heard her parents say, "As long as she goes to , Peking University, , she will have a bright future." She secretly made up her mind to be admitted to Peking University in the future.
After that, in class, Tang Xiaolin listened carefully and thought actively; when she got home, she was just doing her homework, but reading books. When she was playing with her friends, the most talked about was learning.
Therefore, Tang Xiaolin's grades have always been among the best in the class, with golden certificates filling the walls of her house. Especially in a final exam in her second year of high school, her total score was the first in the grade, and her physics score was one of the streets.
The reason why Tang Xiaolin loves physics is because she has had a dream of aerospace since she was a child.
Hard work pays off.
In the summer of 2004, Tang Xiaolin received an admission letter from Peking University’s Space Physics major as she wished. After receiving the notice, my father immediately went to buy firecrackers and lit them, telling the neighbors the good news of the day; my mother happily made a large table of good dishes to celebrate, and the whole family ate and chatted, and imagined the future.
You should know that the chance of going to Peking University is 1/2000, which shows how outstanding Tang Xiaolin is.
Not long after, the parents had a big banquet for guests, and the relatives and neighbors were amazed at Tang Xiaolin. They all wanted to get along with her joy, and the scene was very lively.
At the same time, Tang Xiaolin's high school where she was located gave her a prize and even put up a banner to advertise at the school. She became a celebrity in the school. After going to Peking University, Tang Xiaolin still shines.
Space physics major is the most difficult major in the physics discipline, and it has extremely high requirements for people's understanding and computing ability. As we all know, there are very few girls studying science, and there are even fewer girls studying space physics majoring.
Even in the space physics major, where geniuses gather, Tang Xiaolin is still firmly in the position of top academics.
In addition to having good academic performance, she is also tall and beautiful. She loves to wear skirts and nail polish on her usual days, and is called a "beautiful academic master".
Tang Xiaolin is both wise and beautiful. The boy chasing her behind her naturally lined up, and the love letters flew over like snowflakes. Whenever she receives a love letter, she never takes it apart, but puts it safely. In her heart, there is only study.
A teacher once said to Tang Xiaolin, "I just understand the basics of aerospace science in undergraduate studies." Therefore, she decided to study abroad and make some contributions to the aerospace industry in the future.
so, after searching and thinking carefully, Tang Xiaolin targeted the University of Utah in the United States.
Utah is the world's top public research university. Its spatial physics major ranks among the top three in the world and enjoys the title of "the palace". It is worth mentioning that this major only recruits 20 people worldwide every year, which is even more difficult than taking the Peking University entrance exam.
In order to prepare for the exam, Tang Xiaolin did a lot of exercises, searched for mountain information, and forgot to eat and sleep...
Finally, Tang Xiaolin passed five passes and killed six generals, and received an admission letter from the University of Utah. The family was ecstatic and went out for the first time to have a big meal.
Tang Xiaolin would never have dreamed that the University of Utah would be the last stop in her life.
In the autumn of 2008, Tang Xiaolin flew to the University of Utah in the United States with full confidence with her parents' earnest instructions and eager expectations.
In order to reduce the burden on her parents, she chose direct blog for 4 years.
Two years later, Tang Xiaolin obtained her master's degree and was full of energy.
However, in order to challenge herself, Tang Xiaolin chose the more difficult biophysics major to study the most difficult viral RNA. The re-selected
is the beginning of her nightmare.
Tang Xiaolin's mentor Saviz Saffarian is a native of the United States and an authoritative study of viral physics. smile tiger one. He looked down on the Chinese and had a very arrogant attitude.
Once, Tang Xiaolin humbly asked Safarian for advice. Not only did he not answer, he called her stupid as a pig.
Tang Xiaolin looked at Safarian in disbelief, tears flowing down her face, and she suddenly felt that she had arrived at another planet.
Once, twice, three times...
She was so miserable that she complained to her friends helplessly: "My mentor is a picky old uncle."
This is not counting, there are even more embarrassing things to come.
One day, Tang Xiaolin hurried into the laboratory and met Safarian head-on.
He looked angry and picked up Tang Xiaolin's plan, yelling while tearing: "You are late! You are as stupid as a pig and are not worthy of doing an experiment at all, so you should drop out of school!" After that, he threw all the torn plan on her.
Tang Xiaolin watched her hard work over the past 5 days turn into pieces of paper, and her heart seemed to be typhoon. She held back her tears, bit her lips tightly, and slowly bent down to pick it up, like picking up her broken heart.
That night, while having dinner with friends, Tang Xiaolin cried to her friend with grievance: "I was scolded by the tutor again today." Then, she told her bad situation in the laboratory, and she burst into tears after saying that.
After dinner, it was already ten o'clock in the evening. Tang Xiaolin wiped her tears and dragged her tired body to the laboratory again.
In a blink of an eye, when Tang Xiaolin was originally scheduled to return to China, her parents frequently called to ask when she would return to China.
However, Safarian has been slow to let Tang Xiaolin do the mid-term assessment. If you cannot perform the mid-term assessment, it means there is no hope of upgrading to a profession. She was extremely anxious, but she had no choice.
During that time, she was very afraid of receiving a call from her parents. Even if she answered, she would just make excuses.
parents could not notice Tang Xiaolin's abnormal behavior, but they understood that their daughter was under too much pressure and did not think too much about it.
A year has passed;
Another year has passed;
Another year has passed...
Safarian dragged it again and again, first tearing Tang Xiaolin's eager heart to the elder, then pierced it into pieces, and finally crushed it to pieces... She was depressed.
In December 2015, Tang Xiaolin's visa expired and could not be renewed, which means that her more than ten years of efforts will be wasted.
So, for half a year, Tang Xiaolin was busy applying for a visa and doing experiments, day and night, and was in a state of anxiety. depression became even worse. She often cried and thought about death repeatedly. She even believed that she was stupid and suspected that the scenery of the past was fake, so she collapsed and cried in front of her friends: "I'm very bad, I should die. I want to go to Golden Gate Bridge to commit suicide."
Is Tang Xiaolin really as stupid as Safarian said?
not! In 7 years, she has published 6 high-level papers and has also studied new animal virus results with Safarian. This result is of great significance to the research on Ebola virus and rabies virus .
Obviously, Safarian deliberately refused to let Tang Xiaolin graduate.
The mentor's long-term humiliation and scolding, the heavy experimental tasks all day long, and her depression was like a shadow, and she was completely lost.
HD On September 30, Tang Xiaolin went to San Francisco to attend an academic research meeting. It was already 12 noon after the meeting. She bought a Taihu pancake in the sunset area and walked straight to the Kinmen Bridge.
The Golden Gate Bridge at this time is the most beautiful time in the day.
Tang Xiaolin slowly walked towards the middle of the bridge, the blue sky stared at her, the sun was chasing her, the wind twitched her long black hair, pulled her beautiful long skirt, and patted her proud yellow cheeks, as if she was anxiously telling her: Girl, you can't do stupid things!
Regrettably, Tang Xiaolin's heart was already filled with snow, cooling every pore...
In the early morning of National Parents' Day, Tang Xiaolin completely lost contact. Her friend immediately issued a missing person notice and called the police in Yancheng Lake and San Francisco.
6 days later, Tang Xiaolin's body was found under the Golden Gate Bridge.
In China, my father called my daughter several times and failed to get through, and he was in a hurry.
At this time, Tang Xiaolin's friend called and said she had jumped into the bridge and committed suicide.
Hearing the bad news, my parents felt dizzy and heartbroken, and my mother was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment due to a heart attack. After the news spread, Tang Xiaolin's classmates all exclaimed: "What a pity, she is very smart!"
A few days later, her parents hurried to the United States and saw her daughter whom she was looking forward to day and night. She lay quietly, covered with white cloth, never laughed again, and did not call her parents, and she fell asleep. My father beat his chest and stamped his feet, and my mother rolled on the ground crying, fainting several times.
When the white-haired parents came home with their daughter's ashes, everyone burst into tears and sighed.
After Tang Xiaolin's death, Safarian quickly deleted all information about her online, as if she had never existed.
This move angered Chinese students. They protested strongly to the school and demanded a thorough investigation of the reason why Tang Xiaolin had not graduated in seven years. Under pressure, the school specially hired someone to conduct an investigation. After in-depth visits, it obtained a 6-page report. It finally admitted that Safarian used Tang Xiaolin as a free labor force and delayed her doctoral qualification examination for four years. Until her death, she had not yet arranged a paper plan for her. The school decided to suspend Safarian's admissions.
According to another investigation, Safarian and his wife both teach in the school. They are "couples and couples" and are often stuck in foreign students. Some students who have not graduated and chose to drop out.
What is ridiculous is that the University of Utah decided to posthumously teach Tang Xiaolin as a Ph.D. This man has passed away, what is the point of being a doctor?
Tang Xiaolin was determined to go to Peking University since she was a child; after graduating from Peking University, she went to the University of Utah in the United States for further studies; after obtaining her master's degree, she changed from a space physics major to a more difficult biophysics major. This all shows that she is a person who pursues the ultimate.
Psychology explains that anyone who pursues the ultimate usually has three characteristics: they like to set goals; they are prone to self-denial; and they care too much about the results.
In fact, Tang Xiaolin once changed her mentor once, and she had every reason to change her mentor again, but she didn't. She forgot to take a step back and the sky was wide open. She was like a person who refused to let go of the big fish after catching a big fish, but was brought into the water and drowned. My parents worked hard for decades, but they ended up giving birth to a black-haired man, which was extremely miserable.
Looking at Safarian's behavior, it is very similar to "PUA" (Pick-upArtist). PUA refers to making the operator doubt his own value by deliberately distorting the facts and using continuous suppression, denial, misleading and deception. This means that the operator doubts his own value, and thus has to obey the operator. He is the culprit who killed Tang Xiaolin.
Tang Xiaolin is dead, and there is still a lot of reflection left for us. Does the smart Tang Xiaolin know that she was PUA? When she jumped into the bridge, can she remember the past, her parents, and the future...
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Author: Fengrui
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