During the growth process, instinct will make us unconsciously and try every means to please the people around us to gain recognition. In the background, I often receive a lot of congratulations from girls, who feel that they always have a relatively low status in the relationship. They are afraid of losing their lover, and they think they are a thankless and good old man and don’t like their current self.
Some people don’t love themselves enough when getting along with their lovers or friends, and they put their postures very low. They think that everything is bad for themselves, which will affect the attitude of the people around them towards you. If you don’t love yourself, others will not love you even more.
So, most people's misfortunes are their own ignorance.
The most rare thing in life is to be yourself, don’t blame the injustice of fate, don’t be able to get out of the past love, don’t blame yourself for not being good enough, from now on, you can truly love yourself, Pleasing yourself from the bottom of your heart, you will find that luck is quietly approaching you.
Learn to love yourself, love life
Follow yourself more and follow yourself to please yourself.
People live this life, and each person is an independent individual. Everyone will have their own ideas and pursuits. Don’t suppress their hearts too much, don’t care too much about other people’s opinions, and ignore their own hearts. Pay more attention to their needs and do what they should do.
Love yourself is a very important thing. Learn to love yourself, be more tolerant of your life, do what you want to do, do what you think is right, and don’t trap yourself in the rules that others give you.
Life is short, so it’s better to please yourself. As we grow older, it is not difficult to find that our lives have begun to be subtracted. There is no need to please anyone. If you are comfortable with someone, you will be with whom you are. Whether it is your relatives, lovers or friends, you will stay away when you are tired. When you start to please yourself and follow your heart, you will find that your body and mind become more comfortable, your life begins to become unique, and your sense of happiness will be significantly enhanced.
Live like you like and stay in a good state.
Nowadays, life pressure is getting greater and greater, and most people have become insensitive in the face of daily repetitions. The primary task of loving yourself and loving life is to cherish your body and live the way you like. Whether you are bare-faced or exquisite makeup, whether you wear ripped jeans or high-end custom suits, you can have your own charm. Although time always leaves traces of time on our faces, it still cannot stop us from maintaining a young mindset.
Beauty has never been a so-called standard. Maintaining self-discipline, maintaining health, maintaining wisdom, maintaining a good state, and living the way you want is your beauty. The person who truly loves himself is always someone who is willing to treat himself well and can try his best to live the best.
Learn to accept your true self and be yourself better.
Nothing is perfect in a long life. No one is perfect. We must all let go of our obsession with perfection. Those who love themselves can clearly perceive their true thoughts and external realizations, honestly admit their current situation, and bravely accept their true and imperfect selves.
Then what is the real self? Just like in "No Questions about the West", Mei Yiqi said: "What is the truth? What do you see, hear, do, and who you are with, if there is a kind of overflowing from the depths of your heart, without regret or shame, peace and joy, that is the truth."
Understand what is the real self, and then insist on being the real self, and not changed by the eyes of outsiders and public opinion, that is confidence. Sometimes, you can also use your own temperament to be more presumptuous.You may not be so outstanding, you may have small shortcomings, don’t blame yourself too much, don’t put too much moral pressure on yourself, don’t have to make yourself nervous and do anything.
Learn to accept your true self, be able to face yourself calmly, and follow your inner thoughts, you can become yourself better and your life begins to have meaning.
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Written at the end
Be kind to yourself, satisfy your inner thoughts, find yourself, respect yourself, and be yourself, then your life will be romantic and beautiful.
Be sure to love yourself well, the world will turn around and love you.
