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It’s the Chinese New Year, and everything has slowed down. There is no need to rush as usual. No matter how busy the surroundings are and how beautiful the scenery is next to them, I can’t even take a look.
When you get rid of your exhaustion, you can finally take a break, look back at the road you have traveled, the bitterness you have eaten, and the tears you have shed... Actually you will find that everything is worth it, the fatigue and Tired and wronged make today's beauty.
The thing worth remembering is happiness.
Recently, an enthusiastic netizen edited Chen Kun and Zhou Xun's love video about the sadomasochistic relationship between the three generations.
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Everyone knows that although Chen Kun has a child, he never knows who the child's biological mother is. Chen Kun has never been married. And Zhou Xun just announced his divorce not long ago.
On that day, Chen Kun dressed plainly, wearing a sweater, with his head cut, and he looked like a male college student with a sense of ceremony.
As soon as he saw the clips of him and Zhou Xun in "Painted Skin" edited by netizens, he couldn't help feeling that they were very young back then and praised Zhou Xun for being so beautiful and beautiful.
When seeing the sadomasochistic scenes of Xiaowei and Wang Sheng behind, Chen Kun also followed the characters' lines and said that no one would dislike Zhou Xun, his expression was sad for a second, and after reading it he said he was a little bit crying.
Chen Kun is 45 years old. Looking at the images of the past, it is really full of memories.
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Once in a variety show, Zhou Xun and Chen Kun sat opposite each other, the host asked: "What is the other party to you?"
Zhou Xun answered: family-like affection .
And Chen Kun only returned two words: existence.
Zhou Xun and Chen Kun have known each other for 20 years. They have collaborated on more than ten film and television works from "Like Fog, Like Rain and Like Wind" in 2000 to "The Order of the God of Servant" which will be released on New Year’s Day.
Since the opening of the blog in November 2009, Chen Kun has given his birthday greetings on time on Zhou Xun’s birthday. They have never been absent for 11 consecutive years, showing the depth of their feelings.
Whenever Zhou Xun has new activities or new works online, Chen Kun always promotes it as soon as possible.
When Zhou Xun got married, Chen Kun was the witness; when emotionally frustrated, Chen Kun did not interfere, but accompanied him quietly, "You fell into the pit, and you have to face it yourself. I will be there when you need it. Like family members."
As the saying goes, "the heights are never cold." The more outstanding people are, the fewer friends there will be, because there are not many people who can be like-minded and empathize with them. Therefore, Mr. Lu Xun, a great literary master, exclaimed: "It is enough to know oneself in life, and the whole world should treat it with the same heart."
The happiest thing about a person is that he is a long time old and has a friend who has not lost his way.
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The famous poet Nalan Xingde of the Qing Dynasty has a famous poem: If life is just like first sight, what is the autumn wind and sad picture fan? Waiting for leisure to change but the old people's mind, but the old people's mind is easy to change.
Most of us get lost when we walk, and never go back.
I saw a video posted by a girl on social media with a photo from the past.
She wants to find a friend in 2008.
In 2008, she was working in Guangdong. When the New Year was about to go home, she was about to go home, but when she arrived at the train station, she lost her wallet.
Later, I met a worker who was about to go home. He bought her a train ticket and took her home.
She has never been to Guangdong again and never contacted him again.
More than ten years passed and they were lost.
Now she is married, has children, has a house and a car. She wants to repay her benefactor, but she can't find him again.
But what if I find it? After so much,Both will change, and not disturbing each other may be the best way to get along.
I didn't think about contact when I was poor, but now I think about being grateful when I am rich, which is actually an embarrassment.
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Those who get lost always have a reason.
A friend talked about a boyfriend before, and got along for a while, but he was always noisy, and finally broke up.
After a few years, they are still unmarried, and they meet again. So the two felt that this was the fate of this life.
So got married and had children.
I got divorced within a few years. The reason was that the two of them had different personalities and were difficult to get along with.
In a WeChat group of a native of my hometown, I actually found a familiar name, he was a classmate of mine in elementary school.
should be at the same table with him at the beginning, the relationship is still relatively good, someone bullies me, he often protects me.
I wanted to contact him. It can be seen that he has spoken in the group several times, but I finally gave up. Now he is full of foul-speaking, bragging, showing off his wealth... He has become like a person I hate.
In the movie "Passing by Your World", Xiao Rong and Chen Mo are partners of the university radio station.
After a long time getting along, the two have a good relationship with each other and formally start dating.
However, after a show, Xiao Rong suddenly broke up with Chen Mo.
It turns out that Xiao Rong is eager to stand higher and farther, but Chen Mo is content with the status quo.
The ways are different.
Xiao Rong said to Chen Mo: "I gave my youth to love, but I haven't been young again. It's good for you to love each other, but I think it's most important to fit." , The two who once fell in love with each other parted ways.
So those who are lost can stay in their memory. Even if they find it back, they will not be happy.
We cannot go back to the past,Only cherish what you have now!
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