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What does a truly powerful person look like? In the eyes of many people, a person with a truly strong heart usually has certain fixed labels. For example, they have a certain status or have a certain wealth. In short, in the eyes of many people, if a person lacks these labels, It is unlikely that his heart will be really strong. It is precisely because of this that many of us will tirelessly pursue money and wealth.
Obviously, we cannot say that after a person has wealth and status, his heart will not become stronger, but that even if a person has wealth and status, he may not really become stronger. To be honest, there are too many such cases.
For example, some time ago, Simba, who was criticized by netizens for selling fakes, before the accident, I believe most people would think this person is very powerful. But after the accident, the seemingly aggressive internet celebrity didn't seem to be that powerful, because he didn't even have the courage to admit his mistakes.
Obviously, such a person cannot be strong. His so-called strongness is only disguised with money. So what exactly should a person do to make his heart really strong?
1. Facing failure
It depends on whether a person's heart is really strong, in fact, it only needs to look at his performance when he fails. In this regard, Luo Yonghao is undoubtedly a person with an extremely strong heart. In the face of entrepreneurial failure and owed hundreds of millions of dollars, Luo Yonghao did not choose to back down, but chose a positive response and was able to let go With his body, as long as he can make money and don't violate the law, he will choose to do it without hesitation.
Obviously, for a person like Luo Yonghao, we may have thought he was an internet celebrity who only knew bragging.But never realized that such a person can be so calm in the face of failure.
So why is he so strong? Obviously, the most crucial point is that he is not an absolute peanutist, and because of this, when he has nothing, he will not think that he has really failed. And from another perspective, failure may be just a life experience for people like them, and it is an indispensable life experience!
So for an ordinary person, if you want to become stronger, what should you do? In fact, the way is very simple, that is, when you are pursuing your dream, you must prepare for the worst. For example, if you want to start a business, you must plan for bankruptcy, and you must think about what kind of life you will face after the business fails and bankruptcy. Such a life may be very miserable, and it may even be impossible for basic food and clothing. Be guaranteed. If you dare not face this and still choose to start a business, then there is no doubt that even though you finally get what you want, it is impossible to really become strong enough. The reason is simple. Even if such a person has a wealth of wealth, he may still live in anxiety about losing all day long. Such a person is absolutely disguised even though he looks very powerful.
So if you really want to become strong enough, you have to face the question, that is, if one day, you become nothing and even betray your relatives, do you still have enough Face it with courage, whether you can still bravely shoulder the responsibilities you should bear.
if you can! Then there is no doubt that you will be a strong enough person.
2. Facing mistakes
A person with a truly strong heart will never conceal his faults. When facing their own mistakes, they are often able to admit it bravely and will be very sincere Say sorry to others, and then actively correct.
After the price of Simba was revealed, what I thought of was not to immediately admit his fault, nor to actively compensate fans who like and trust him, but to do everything possible to cover up, and even push all the responsibilities To the brand side. This is actually why he has become a shame in the live webcasting industry in such a short period of time.
There is no doubt that for a person like Simba, why would he choose to cover up and refuse to apologize and compensate after he has made a mistake? Obviously, the most critical reason is that he takes money too importantly. He is afraid that once he loses the trust of fans, it will be difficult to get the attention of the platform and it will be difficult to get enough traffic again. Obviously, such a person's heart must not be strong or even very fragile, so he will make many ridiculous and incredible choices when facing his own faults, because the fear of losing money has been Let him mess up.
When the same thing happened to Luo Yonghao, Luo Yonghao's performance was not only recognized by fans, but also allowed him to gain more attention. There is no doubt that for consumers, they will definitely like such a webcasting host who knows the wrong and dares to take responsibility. Even, many people said that when buying things from Luo Yonghao, they never need to worry about buying fakes. If you really buy fakes, then congratulations on your wealth, because Luo Yonghao will definitely pay according to relevant regulations.
So, in the same thing, why is Luo Yonghao's performance completely different from Simba? The reason is that Luo Yonghao knows that the reason why consumers place orders with him is based on trust in him, so he knows that as long as consumers suffer, he must bear certain responsibilities.
Obviously for Luo Yonghao, it is impossible not to know that if he easily admits his mistakes, it is easy for consumers to think that he has a big problem in the quality of the product, and even lose a large part of loyal customers. But even so, he still chose to proactively admit his mistakes and actively make compensation.
Why? the reason is simple,Because he has prepared for the worst and is willing to accept such a result.
So a truly strong person must be a person who admits mistakes and is willing to take responsibility. If you want to be such a person, please learn to face yourself from now on, even in the face of mistakes. Otherwise, no matter how smooth your previous life is, what is waiting for you will eventually be misfortune. Such a person is certainly unlikely to be a truly powerful person.
3. Facing doubt
There is no doubt that for us living in this era, if you want to succeed, you must face other people’s criticism, especially when you plan to be on the Internet When the domain is looking for food, if you cannot allow others to slander you and not allow others to question you, then there is no doubt that the Internet domain is unlikely to have your place.
We can actually learn from Luo Yonghao on this point. The reason is very simple, because such a person has suffered a lot of slander and humiliation, but he has never given up because of this, and never because The slander of others affects one's emotions and state!
However, Simba did not do this. When faced with other people’s doubts, the first method he used was to intimidate the other party and wield the stick of rights protection at every turn. Of course, this does not mean that we We can’t defend our rights when our rights are harmed. Instead, as a public figure, if we don’t allow others to question, we can only show one problem, that is, this is a person with extremely fragile heart and an extreme fear of being A person who is denied by others, such a person's heart, certainly cannot be strong.
So from now on, if you really want to become a person with a strong heart, you must learn to accept the doubts of others calmly, because others have such a right.
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