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Text: Shili
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Many men think that their parents are not easy, but this is a matter of reason. After all, parents have worked hard for a lifetime, and finally they can pull their children together. , And then they have to worry about the life-long events of their children.
In fact, their lives are really not easy. Through this, everyone should understand one thing, that is, as children, you should really be filial to your parents. This is not a son of man.
But some people are very strange. They know that their parents are not easy, and they want to be filial, but they do not want to be filial by themselves, but want to be filial through others. This is an incredible thing. .
Parents are not easy, and the parents are not easy to be caused by their children, so this matter should be borne by the children themselves, not the children of others.
Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Everyone living in this world should be a filial person, but at some point, everyone should also understand some simple principles.
For example, filial piety is your business. You should do filial piety. You should be good to your parents. You should return them accordingly. These are all you should do, but in the whole process, everyone has to do it yourself Do it instead of asking others to do it.
But there are some false filial sons in life. They keep saying that it is not easy for their parents, but they will not work hard to repay, but ask their wives to respond accordingly. Men like this are not only unfilial, And it is full of calculations, and the character is particularly problematic.
Yang Tao is twenty-nine years old this year and has been married for three years. When he married his wife, everyone expressed their blessings, and some of his friends were particularly envious because they had two houses in total.
The wedding house where Yang Tao and his wife live is bought by their parents.The full amount is said to have spent 1.5 million yuan, and the wife also has a set of pre-marital property before marriage, which is more than 1.1 million yuan.
Their combination can be regarded as a good match to a large extent, not to mention that two people have a house, so that the future will be relatively easier. The most important thing is that everyone feels that their children will not need to be a house from now on Worry about things.
Yang Tao’s parents have suffered hard to buy him a house. They work overtime to allow their son to have their own wedding house, and they have been living in the old house.
Yang Tao now feels more and more sorry for his parents. He thinks about what he should do for his parents, so he discussed with his wife, hoping to buy a new house for his parents.
Parents have been in retirement over the years. Except for pensions, they have no other income, but they have enough money to spend, but they don’t have much savings. Yang Tao’s wife says they don’t have much money at all. .
Although there is no pressure in their lives, they have spent a lot of their marriage in the past few years. The total amount in their hands is only 100,000, which is not enough to pay the down payment for a house.
But at this time, Yang Tao gave his own plan. He wanted his wife to sell the pre-marital property and then help his parents buy a new house.
Regarding such a request, I believe that 80% of women in the world will not agree to it. If you change to a man, I believe that everyone will not agree to it, because it is an unreasonable request.
The wife directly refused without even thinking about it. This is her pre-marital property, which is a woman's sense of security, not to mention that this house was actually bought by her parents.
Seeing that his wife was unwilling to sell the house, Yang Tao felt very angry. He believed that his wife was a very selfish person with no filial piety at all and did not understand his parents at all, and his parents were originally not easy.
He said to his wife: "We are all married and we are a family. It is not easy for my parents to sell the house or give them a new house. You are not willing.Are you really too much? "_Strong16strong
He said so, and he thought so in his heart. In his mind, his parents are not easy. They spent all their savings on him and bought him a house and a car. He helped him with the wedding again.
In the past few years, he has not done his filial piety, so he hopes to buy a house for his parents to express his responsibility as children, but because they don’t have enough money. , So he started the idea of his wife’s pre-marital real estate.
In his opinion, this matter is not against morals at all, but instead he thinks it is a very normal thing. In his eyes, since his wife has married him, then His wife’s house is his house, so it’s reasonable to sell the house and buy a new one for his parents.
This is just his idea, and the wife naturally disagrees. Faced with his question, the wife also said Out of my own thoughts.
She said: "Thank you to figure it out. It is not easy for your parents, nor is it easy for my parents. My house was bought by my parents. You let me take my parents' blood and sweat. Money goes to help your parents change houses, how can there be such a thing in the world? _Strong16strong
Because of this, they had a very fierce quarrel, and his wife refused to give in. Yang Tao believed that he had done nothing wrong from beginning to end, if they hadn’t spoken for a long time now.
Yang Tao put I told my colleagues about this matter, and I hope everyone can think about it from his perspective. In fact, he just wants to talk about it, because he is very angry at the moment, but when he tells the matter, everyone blames him.
Yes, in a situation like this, it is reasonable for everyone to blame him. After all, he made a big mistake, he was too selfish, and he didn’t know how to think for others.
He just knew It is not easy for one's own parents to honor their parents, but never thought that a wife also has parents, and it is not easy for father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Filial piety is never an aspect.If you want to do it, you must do everything, not only to be filial to your parents, but also to your father-in-law.
Take the house that father-in-law bought for his wife to change to a better house for his parents. I am afraid that there are not many men like this in the world. After all, people who can do this kind of thing really make people. Feel a bit weird.
Please stay away from the man who makes his wife filial Very secure.
There is one thing that everyone must understand. There is a distinction between filial piety. If he is filial through his own efforts, he is a true filial son. If he wants others to help him, the result will be completely different. Up.
A man who asks his wife to do his filial piety is mostly selfish and irresponsible. With such a person, everyone will never be happy.
There are many cases of this kind in real life. For example, some men think that their girlfriends should help him be filial to their parents, especially when they take their girlfriends home for the first time, even asking them to help wash them. bowl.
This kind of thing is really very rare in real life, which is also a bit unbelievable, but many men actually think that girlfriends don’t help to wash the dishes because they are ignorant. In fact, this little thing can tell one thing Three correct views of men.
Girls must not be sloppy in the matter of marriage. Marriage is a life-long event, and must not be casual. Everyone should find someone who respects their parents, because a man doesn’t even love his parents, so he is not. He may love anyone, no matter how good he behaves, it is pretended.
But if a man asks others to help him with filial piety, then he is not really good to his parents. He just admires vanity and wants others to help him. Then he is acting as a filial son. This kind of person is actually very hateful ,They are by no means a good match, and I hope all women can see through this when choosing a spouse.
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