Wen丨Liang Xiaoli
Zhang Ailing said: “For people after the age of 30, ten or eight years is nothing more than a matter of time between fingers, while for young people, three or five years can be a lifetime.”
When you can read this sentence, I believe that you are already a person of no doubt.
people's life is very long, but it is also very short. If you live, you will get old, and you will die when you are old.
In fact, life is not long in Japan. Life is just a subtraction. When you meet, you will lose your face.
01
Goodbye in life, sometimes it’s goodbye next time, sometimes it’s never seen again. Uncle
was critically ill, we went back to see him, really overwhelmed with grief and weeped.
The uncle who is ill, he has hemiplegia, is bony, has a yellowish face, loses his hair, and cannot speak well.
There are mixed flavors in this situation.
's eyes could not help showing the handsome look before his uncle. He was one-meter-tall tall, gentle, gentle, never lost his temper, and respectful to others.
I only met at the beginning of this year, and now goodbye is a matter of fact.
When I was young, I always liked to say goodbye today, see you next time. Z4z
only knew when he grew up, it turns out that "goodbye" has another meaning, that is, never see again.
When we were children, the future of those years was really far and out of shape, and we were so simple that there were no worries.
is a blink of an eye. We have passed a little and a half of our lives. We got married and got married and had children. The innocent and innocent girls became handsome women; the vigorous teenagers became greasy uncles.
Time is too thin, and the fingers are too wide. Once you turn around, summer becomes a story, and once you turn around, autumn becomes a landscape. Fall and winter come, and the years go back and forth.
It turns out that a person's life is very short, too short to look back, and some people gradually disappear.
02
An inch of time is an inch of gold, and time is hard to buy an inch of time.
, the father of a friend of
, did not wake up in the morning, died suddenly, and fell asleep forever. The unexpected accident made the family of friends heartbroken and unacceptable. A friend of
said that the night before, my father looked peaceful and sound and everything was fine, but he didn't wake up in the morning.
He is heartbroken, because the biggest wish of his 60-year-old father in this life is to watch him get married, get married and have children, and be able to hold his grandson.
At the age of thirty, he has always refused to get married because he is greedy for all the good things of being single.
If everything can be done again, he would rather do it according to his father's wishes.
, but there is no if in the world, without pressing the button again, you can't redial it once.
When I was young, I always stubbornly felt that a person's life is very long, and many things can be taken slowly and squandered slowly, but sometimes a person’s turn is a lifetime.
We always like to say, tomorrow, next time, and later.
But, which day will be the next time, which time will it be next, and how long will it be afterwards. There are many things in
. One push is one month, one delay is one year, and one set is a lifetime.
While your parents are still alive, those who should be filial should be filial, those who should be company should be with them, and those who should be taken care of should be taken care of. Don't wait until the parents are gone to regret.
With parents, there is still a place in life; without parents, there is only a way back in life.
Cherish time and cherish family affection is the best way to live.
03
People's hearts are sunny, but there are always cloudy days. The more
grows up, the closer it is to the truth of death, accepting the birth, aging, sickness and death of relatives.
used to be very taboo to talk about death in life, and was also afraid of seeing these two words, and was always uneasy in his heart.
but I live to this age, but calmMany people have experienced so many times because of human conditions. If they can see clearly, they can live to understand. Birth, old age, sickness and death are the normal life.
When I was young, watching Wu Chengen's "Journey to the West", all the fairies tried their best to eat Tang Seng, and eating Tang Seng meat would be immortal forever.
But in the real life, there is no immortality, after all, wealth is in the sky, life and death are destined.
A colorful flower has a day of withering; a bus has a terminal moment; a serial drama has an episode of the end.
Everyone must accept the vacancy in life that is caused by someone's departure.
Even if this is the case, don’t be pessimistic. What we have to do is to accept it, learn to get used to it, and let it go, so that we can live better for the rest of our lives.
04
What is life?
To experience what must be experienced, troubles must be troubled, what must be passed through, what must be experienced, the inevitable to be lost, what is unbearable, what cannot be supported, what must be shouldered, is a lifetime.
Our life is very long, so long as we want to see it through; our life is so short, so short that it passed in a flash. When
people are there, they think that everyone in Japan will have a chance, but in fact, life is a subtraction. When you meet, you lose one.
There are many things in life that cannot be waited, love cannot wait, affection cannot wait, and struggle cannot wait. What
should do, such as if today waits for tomorrow, the person you want to see, if today drags tomorrow, some people have been pleaded and lost, some people come and go, and if you don’t see you tomorrow, your love will end and you will be far away.
Our short life will eventually be lost, we might as well be bold, love someone, climb a mountain, and chase a dream.
If you should eat and drink, you can eat, drink and have fun. If you are in love, you should be bold in love. If you should be filial, you can be filial.
From now on, cherish every inch of time, every inch of gold, and live life more fulfilling and quality.
