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When a boy is not with you, what does his indifference mean?
The mutual attraction between boys and girls is sometimes in an instant; if you like someone, it’s too simple, maybe the other person’s appearance matches your aesthetics, maybe the other person’s voice is good, or the other person’s character is good . The reason
likes someone is very simple, and it's also very simple to like someone.
But what is the difficulty? The hard part is two-way liking.
In many cases, when a boy takes the initiative to approach you, it is very likely that he has a good impression of you; but the good impression will change over time.
Some good feelings will become likes, and then from likes to love; there are also some good feelings, which will gradually disappear, because they meet people they like more.
Recently, a female reader left a message to me. She said that she had been chatting with a boy for about half a month, and she liked the boy a little bit; however, the boy’s attitude towards her became more and more alienated. At the beginning of
, the boys took the initiative to approach her, take the initiative to chat with her, and take the initiative to imply their affection for her.
But in only half a month, boys have become cold and slow to reply to news, sometimes they don’t even reply, which makes female readers confused.
In fact, at this time, girls must put their positions in the right position: you are not together yet, and there is no definite relationship.
While he is chatting with you, he may also be chatting with other girls; he may be taking the initiative to you, or he may be taking the initiative to another girl.
At this time, his indifference may be suggesting you: I don't like you anymore because I met a girl who I like more.
And if this guy really likes you, he will be indifferent to you for no more than 24 hours; if he ignores you after this time, and his attitude towards you becomes more and more indifferent, it can only mean that he doesn't like you enough .
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The boy in love is indifferent to you, it may be that he is "emotional holiday"
has a saying in love psychology called "the cave period."
What is the "cave period"? Similar to a tree hole, when a person has troubles and difficulties that are difficult to solve, he will often find a hidden place to protect himself.
has something on his mind, only willing to tell the tree hole no one knows.
And in this cave period, the boy's emotions are like a menstrual holiday; he will become struggling, and he will be a little alienated and indifferent to you.
Don't worry, it's not that he doesn't love you, but he is too tired at this stage.
The pressure of work, the pressure of life, the pressure of interpersonal relationships, and all the trivial things when you get along with you, all accumulate. The boy will feel tired. He wants to find a quieter place to make himself feel better. Facing you.
For example:
most married men, the most relaxing every day, their own time, is to get home from get off work, park the car in the parking space; then, sit quietly in the car, listening to the music, and close The ten minutes of resting your eyes.
Because the moment he opens the door when he returns home, he will pick up his troubles, and he must continue to be a husband, a good father.
and the sudden indifference of boys in love is similar.
It’s not that he doesn’t love you anymore, maybe he just has some emotional fluctuations and he needs to digest it by himself; but in the process of digesting, he didn’t correct his posture, which caused you to think too much and mistakenly think that your relationship has a problem .
What kind of indifference shows that boys really don’t love you?
When a man doesn't love you anymore, his indifference to you is deep inside and outside.
His language always hurts you, his behavior is always far away from you, his attitude towards you is getting worse and worse, and his sense of responsibility disappears completely; if he doesn't take the initiative, he is irresponsible, just his indifference when he doesn't love you.
A man who doesn't love you, likes to use cold violence, silence and coldness, forcing you to take the initiative to break up.
and the mood came up on a period, just want toThe man I adjusted will soon face you with a new attitude.
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What should a girl do when she encounters a boy’s indifference?
First: Stabilize your emotions and find out the reasons.
must calm down, and you must lose your temper at the boy indiscriminately; if you lose your temper, it will only make him more anxious.
The first thing you have to do is to calm down, and then through communication with him, to find the reason for his indifference; he is too tired at work, is he dissatisfied with you in any aspect, or other reasons?
can find the corresponding solution only after finding the reason.
Second: More accompany, face difficulties together
There is a vulgar love saying: Accompanying is the longest love confession.
The essence of love is companionship; whether it is happy or sad, rich or poor, whether it is smooth sailing or full of difficulties, choosing each other firmly and staying with each other is the essence of love.
If your boy encounters a problem, his mood falls to the bottom, and his state is very bad; then what you need to do is to accompany him out of the trough, accompany him to face the difficulties and solve the problem.
If you can accompany him through the difficulties, he will love you even more when he recovers.
Third: evaluate your relationship objectively, and be more patient
If the girl is still unable to determine the boy's feelings for herself, then you might as well let yourself calm down and calmly analyze and evaluate your relationship status.
Do you love him enough? Are you willing to stick to it for him? For him, can you temporarily lay down your dignity?
If you are sure that you love him enough, then love is your reason to stick to it.
have more patience. If your boy is a brave and determined person, he will definitely work hard to overcome difficulties and stand in front of you with a better posture.
Today’s topic:
Will there be a "trough" in your relationship?
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