Pope said: "Love is a dream, and it doesn't wake up until you get married."
But even if some love is just like a dream, but in the end even if you are awakened by reality, this dream is deeply imprinted in your mind. , Printed in the deepest part of my heart.
We often say that in love, fate comes and goes, but after all, it is nothing. But even though the love is gone, the mark is still there.
Have loved someone, how long will it take to truly forget?
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: “If you want to forget a relationship, there is always only one way: time and new love. If time and new love will not make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: time is not long enough, and new love is not good enough."
When you love someone deeply, you will love and give without reservation. But when you are hurt in this relationship, you will learn to be reserved later.
is like Gu Man said: "If that person ever appears in the world, everyone else will become a general." For some people, the inability to forget the past is not because the new love is not good enough, but because In his heart, no matter how good a person is, no one can compare to the one he once loved deeply. It is not because the time is not long enough, but because the previous love is too unforgettable and has long been integrated with itself.
used to be a part that everyone can hardly give up.
So, how long does it take for a man to forget a woman he once loved?
Mr. Wu, 40 years old: "Unforgettable in this life"
She is the first woman I fell in love with. We have been together for three years. During that time, I felt the magic of love and realized the happiness of loving someone.
It's a pity that she left me in the end because her parents didn't agree with us, and she also broke up with me after listening to their parents. When
first broke up, I was in pain. I tried everything I could to make it back, but after all, there was nothing I could do.
As time passed, I thought I could forget her. Then I got married, had children, and had an enviable family.
I love my wife and children very much, but I still can't forget the person I once loved. I can't forget it not because I still love her, but that time was too deep for me. After that relationship, I also changed a lot and matured a lot.
Maybe she used to make me unforgettable in this life, but I am calm and will not suffer anymore. I accept this fact, and I will bury her in my heart as a secret that will not be known by the second person.
Mr. Liu, 36 years old: "I want to forget, but in the end it is too difficult"
Sometimes I also hear some answers to this question. Some people will answer categorically: "I must have forgotten." When
heard such an answer, I could only laugh without saying a word, or would like to ask him how he forgot. Or maybe, he was just forcing himself to forget.
Because, as long as it is someone you love deeply, it is really hard to forget.
You can say that you don't love her, but you can't say that you forgot her. When you say such words, it is obvious that you will think of her again, and memories of you again, although there is no love, there will still be memories of her. When
was young, I also worked hard for love, paid a lot for her, and tried my best to become her favorite. It's a pity that love is really uncontrollable, and in the end it is gone if it is gone, and there is no room for negotiation. After
lost her, I thought I could forget her soon, and I worked hard for it, but finally found it was too difficult. Z2z
thought about it later, there is no way to forget it, just let it go, even if you remember it all your life, it doesn’t matter, after all, this is youth.
Mr. Jin, 45 years old: "Tried, and finally gave up"
Although that relationship has passed for many years, I even have forgotten how long we have been together, and finally separated because of what. But she has always been in my heart, and I also remember what she once looked like.
many times, I tried to forget her, forget the relationship, but finally gave up.
I thought I still loved her untilShe also came to a class reunion a few years ago. I was nervous when
knew she was coming, worried that it would be embarrassing to meet again. When she saw her, she took the initiative to greet me, and at that moment, I was relieved.
I thought I couldn't forget her as a person, but I was wrong. What I can't forget is only the wonderful years that the two experienced.
I am now, even if I always remember her in my heart, but I am very calm. After all, she has existed in my life. This is also a fate. Although there are misses and regrets, there is also a wonderful experience. Jimmy Z2z
said: “When you are in love, you will sculpt the mark of love on the tree, and then you will scrape off those faded vows when you break up.”
This is the case for many people. When you love someone, you will love and break up Later, I will forget it seriously.
However, the more you want to forget, you will only find that this is a difficult thing. Just like these three men, they tried and worked hard, and finally gave up. She can only let her stay in her heart, unable to tell or forget.
Actually, you can't forget a person, not because you still love her and have hope for her. It's because you have experienced a wonderful time together, and those have become your deepest memories, and they are engraved in your mind. It doesn’t matter if
can’t be forgotten for a lifetime, just like Romain Rowland said: “Without a deep love, life is like wasting.”
can’t forget, just keep it in your heart, because this is you Life experience.
As long as you understand that the past is over, don’t let him affect your current life.
let it be a secret that only you know.
