Last summer, Uncle Zhang passed away at the age of 86.
Before his death, Uncle Zhang gave his 10,000 yuan savings to his "wife" Aunt Liu. The villagers all said that Uncle Zhang is affectionate and righteous, and it is worthwhile for Aunt Liu to take care of him for seven or eight years.
Back then, 77-year-old Zhang, with the support of his children, met Aunt Liu.
Uncle Zhang and Aunt Liu are from rural areas. Aunt Liu is ten years younger than Uncle Zhang.
Several of Uncle Zhang’s sons and daughters have succeeded in their careers. They are all working hard in the field and have no time to take care of Uncle Zhang. They are worried that Uncle Zhang is too lonely, and his children are very supportive of him. The children of
also gave Aunt Liu protection, signed an agreement, provided Aunt Liu for the elderly, and guaranteed her medical care. The living expenses of the two elderly people are solely responsible for the children of Uncle Zhang. Although
did not receive a marriage certificate, treating Aunt Liu at home is equivalent to being a stepmother of .
During their time together, Uncle Zhang and Aunt Liu live in the house bought by their son, go shopping together in the morning to buy vegetables, go for a walk in the afternoon, and watch TV and chat together in the evening.
Life in old age is full and not lonely.
Once, Uncle Zhang accidentally fell at home. Fortunately, Aunt Liu was on the sidelines without causing serious consequences. When
took Uncle Zhang to check, Aunt Liu was always with her, very nervous.
is not a couple, but also a couple.
Before uncle Zhang died of cancer, he wrote a will and left his savings to Aunt Liu. He believes that Aunt Liu has done her best to him for many years, and the two have a relationship foundation. Her recognition of her can also comfort her children. The children of
and all support the behavior of uncle Zhang of . At the funeral of
, Aunt Liu was also very sad, and the children holding Uncle Zhang cried into a ball.
The result of the love at dusk is also a good ending.
remember that year, it was Uncle Zhang’s sons and daughters who took the initiative and proposed to make an agreement to relieve Aunt Liu’s worries.
Four years ago, the wife of the big aunt , , passed away. Uncle
passed away twenty years ago. More than ten years ago, the eldest mother and her current wife were together. The wife is a fellow villager, knowing the roots and knowing the bottom. Both families are ordinary farmers.
You plow the fields and I weave, and the two old people have a good time. The daughter-in-law of
aunt's wife always regards the single father-in-law as a burden and a thorn in the eye. So, the aunt's son let the old man live in his own home.
Two people work together. They are busy in the fields of my aunt today and tomorrow in the fields of my wife.
When aunt's wife died of illness, her aunt's son spent tens of thousands, which was more than the old man's son.
" has been with my mother for ten years. Even if I don't have a marriage certificate, I should do my son's duties. " said the aunt and son. I don’t know when
started. Many people regard the evening love of the elderly as a scourge.
scolded the old ladies as Cai Genhua baby and cheated money.
scolds the old men for being greedy and disrespectful of women.
remembered some time ago, an economically free man in his 90s, after the death of his wife, his children collectively fired his nanny.
reason?
worried that his father would end up with the nanny.
So, left the old man alone at home despite his loneliness.
In the summer, the neighbor’s wife passed away. The neighbor of
is over 70 years old this year. He has no daughters but only a few sons. The
sons are now grandfathers themselves, and all the family work in the field.
The elderly are financially independent and have a monthly pension of more than 6000 yuan. In the countryside, it is already very good, and it is not bad for money. The sons of
are also very filial. They stayed at home to accompany his mother during the time he passed away.
But after a few months, people always have to live, and everyone has to leave.
He said that he is very lonely and life is very inconvenient.
"Z3z daughter-in-law also needs to take care of her family and grandchildren. The son is busy making money again. " What does
mean?
, as the name suggests, is always here.
people are getting old, there is no childhood playmates to chase and fight, no work and study need to be busy, no colleagues to eat and drink. If you don't have a wife, you will be more lonely.
wants to eat, get dressed, and accompany with . The children of
can do their best for a while, but not necessarily for a lifetime.
At this time, lonely old people think of twilight love. Two people who needed warmth came together unconsciously.
My uncle is a wife I met in her 60s. The two have been together for ten years.
usually go shopping and chat together. The children of both sides work with peace of mind as they see the old man being company.
My classmate, his mother passed away when he was 2 years old.
Her father has been single for most of his life, and he only ushered in twilight love at the age of 64.
"Welcome to my mother, happy new marriage, father!"
One day, 40-year-old she posted a circle of friends, showing her father's marriage certificate.
is a woman like this, so what about being single for most of her life.
In my hometown, children are relatively tolerant of remarriage of the elderly.
Aunt Wen and his wife, Uncle Li, were neighbours in the past. They were widowed and they worked hard to raise their children. When
was in their sixties, their sons and daughters brought them together.
On weekdays, all the children work in other places, Uncle Li lives at Aunt Wen’s house . When we go home during the Spring Festival, we all gather to have a dinner together for the New Year.
Uncle Li's son is in better condition, so he should send more living expenses. Aunt Wen’s son is on average, so he will send less living expenses.
Everyone’s point of view is that when people are old, they want to have a talking partner. If you have a headache, someone will take care of it the first time.
After the death of his wife, the neighbor planned to make do with life alone. The pension of
is good. He considers his son and daughter-in-law have concerns, and has no plans to find a wife.
Unexpectedly, the son and daughter-in-law would take the initiative to say: "Dad, if you have a suitable aunt, you can also get to know. We are also busy every day. I can’t take care of you. It’s better to have someone talk with you. Give some money to the aunt." The old
ran in tears.
has always been in charge of the outside and his wife in charge of the inside because of the times. is at a loss for cooking and laundry.
Besides, has no hobbies for entertainment. He is really alone at home alone.
I think it may be because I am in a rural area and the elderly don’t have hundreds of thousands of millions of assets. Therefore, when facing twilight love, the first thing that children think of is to accompany , not to defend against money.
This is somewhat similar to young people's love affair. If
has no money, he just married naked.
If you have money, you can't add a name to the house. Whether the gift is 188,000 yuan or 288,000 yuan is noisy.
Qianyu is a native of Sichuan and his cultural background speaks of tolerance. Faced with the elderly’s twilight love needs, the first thing children think of is that the elderly is lonely, rather than indecent, nasty, and embarrassing.
People will always get old. We will face loneliness one day.
When we are lonely, we have worked hard all our lives to pull the big children, but because of money to accuse us of "shameless" and "disrespectful for the old", how do we feel?
is worried that his parents’ twilight partner cheats money, is his young partner sure not to cheat money? It is normal for people to have concerns.
However, worry is not a reason to interfere with the parents' remarriage.
Dear children, if your parents have a wealth of money and you are worried about being deceived by someone with a heart, then care about them and care more about them, so that liars have nowhere to cheat.
You can also perform as much as you want, cheating the house and deposit from your parents.
The trend of population aging is getting more and more serious.
cityThe old people here have entertainment, park parties, and their children work in the same city, may not seem so lonely.
Maybe, this is why their children oppose remarriage.
has seen a bigger world, the female elderly in the city have relatively high requirements for choosing a spouse, and the benefits are clearly calculated.
This is also the reason why many old men and children guard against the twilight love of the elderly.
But in any case, twilight love is the solace of the old man, not a scourge.
We should not hate it, we should face it.
Dear children, if you think that the woman is Cai Genhua who cheated money, then look for your father who is not Cai Genhua's good wife!
If you think that the man is a dirty old man, then introduce a decent wife to your mother!
The ability of each old man to be alone is different. Some people have children and grandchildren around their knees and are used to being alone. Some people are afraid of being alone, and the older they are, the more afraid they are.
My uncle's wife who has been with me for over ten years was introduced by my uncle's daughter!
These are the good children in my heart who really care about the elderly and worry about the elderly!
And those children who are determined not to allow their parents to fall in love at night, shouting "I'm afraid the old man will be deceived", in fact, what they calculate in their minds is all about inheritance business!
