is always ruthlessly hurt by passion. What a woman fears the most is not to love the wrong person, but to love the wrong person and still cling to it. When I met a scumbag, I thought I had picked up a baby and found a support for the rest of my life. How does
distinguish a scumbag? The scumbags are always ignorant. When he is in love, he never pays attention, but he is good at disguising himself and pretending to be a "good old man".
A man who is indifferent and unrighteous has the following four characteristics, and women should be alert. Only by tearing off a person's "disguise" can one gain insight into a person's heart. Instead of crying and crying after marrying the wrong person, it is better to turn around and leave in time.
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always just say nothing, treat the oath as a trifle.
Someone said: "Men can be trusted, sows will go up the tree." This sentence, that is to say, a man who likes to talk bluff, say nothing is worth trusting, if a woman believes him, it is believed that "the sow will go up the tree" ". The words are hard to hear, but they are very useful and realistic.
When you are in love, when you meet a man who talks a lot, a woman should pay more attention to what he said and whether it has been fulfilled. After you say it, you forget it and won't take it seriously. After he said it, keep it in mind and act immediately. Some men at
, when two people quarrel, can vowed to say, "If I have a double heart for you, I will thunder." The woman was moved by his words, and she was really worried about him being struck by lightning. After a while, he changed his mind. The woman shed tears, but the man remained indifferent and was not struck by lightning. Reality tells us that the best oath is not to "speak under an oath", but to act actively.
My colleague Huahua, through WeChat chat, fell in love with Wu Hua who works far away in Shenzhen. The two also met three or four times.
Wu Hua said: "Huahua, you quit your job. Let's start a business in Shenzhen and live a good life together."
Huahuaxin took it seriously and resigned and went to Shenzhen. After arriving in Shenzhen, Huahua was dumbfounded. Wu Hua was a family man. Wu Hua's words are all lies, making Huahua want to cry without tears.
"Knowing people, knowing faces and not knowing heart", woman, if you don't see a man's heart clearly, don't believe his words; if you don't see his actions, don't think that he is really good to you. What is an oath? It's just a trick to deceive people.
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One set in person and one set behind the scenes.
Everyone hates "emotional liars", but there are still endless things about being deceived by others. The most incredible thing is that some women, knowing that they have met an unreliable person, still choose to trust him, thinking that he will change themselves and change their minds.
More than ten years ago, I worked as a security guard in an electronics factory in Shenzhen. There are more than 300 people in the factory, mostly women in their twenties. There is a man named Zhang Wang in the factory. He is very handsome and is 1.8 meters tall. He is from Hubei. Many women actively pursue Zhang Wang and invite Zhang Wang to go to the movies. At the beginning, Zhang Wang had been with Li Juan from the production department, and the two of them were holding hands off work, envious of others. Over time, Zhang Wang became a man of peace.
On days of rest, Zhang Wang often goes out alone and then comes back very late. When Zhang Wang returned, Li Juan was waiting for him at the factory gate.
Zhang Wang said: "Today I went to a job agency to look for a job, hoping to find a better job, so that we can live a good life in the future."
Everyone knows that Zhang Wang is going out alone, it must be love Go, not looking for a job. Zhang Wang only has a high school education, and he doesn't like to study. He is not a "working hard" person at all. Some kind people remind Li Juan not to be with Zhang Wang anymore, but Li Juan is obsessed. Later, when Zhang Wang left without saying goodbye and left the electronics factory, Li Juan suddenly realized that Zhang Wang was unreliable.
In fact, Zhang Wang carried Li Juan on his back and fell in love with Wang Mei, the personnel manager of the factory next door. Wang Mei relied on her connections and rights to arrange for Zhang Wang to be the deputy manager of the warehouse management department in the factory. For Li Juan, Zhang Wang is a liar.
often hears such a sentence: "It’s so miserable that you lied to me." In fact, anyone’s deceptive methods are not clever. He always "face to face, behind the back", which is easy to see through, but Women don't want to believe the facts, they always think they are very capable and can understand everything. Women who believe in love too much are the easiest to be deceived.
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is very "heart-hearted", and will do whatever it takes to benefit.
Some men, when they broke up, disappeared from the smoke, without a trace of sadness. If he had already found the next one, he would be particularly happy when he broke up.
A man who is truly affectionate and righteous will hold the attitude of "getting together and relaxing" and take into account the feelings of the other person. Two people can't be together for a lifetime, but the friendship is still there, and they haven't become enemies. Generous men cherish feelings more and are more tolerant of feelings.
A man who is indifferent and unjust, "heart cruel." He regards feelings as a "platform", in the name of love, hurting others again and again, and then profiting from it. For example, he loves the daughter of a boss of a large company, and with the strength of his girlfriend's father, he started his own business and soon succeeded. When he succeeded in his career, he found some unreasonable reasons and ended the relationship.
When a man treats love as a "bargaining chip for his career", he will not treat you well, and he is ready to leave you at any time. In his eyes, love is used to achieve oneself and hurt others, which is also a matter of course. He can hurt not only the people who love him, but also the friends who helped him, and even turn his face on his family.
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pays too much attention to his appearance and is a kind-hearted person. Some men at
smile every day, are very friendly to people, and leave a good impression on others on any occasion. If you are with him, you will feel that you have met a "big good person." His smile makes you feel like a spring breeze.
In fact, a man who loves to laugh is not necessarily a reliable man, but may be a "smiling tiger". Such a man cares very much about his appearance, and he gets dressed up every day before going out. He tried every means to broaden his network, and then make full use of his network to achieve his own career. When you fall in love with him, you are actually his network, not his lover.
As a woman, don't really be fooled by a man's appearance.
As the saying goes: "You look good, and you can't eat it." A man with connotation, a man who looks the same, is reliable.
Most of the men who are indifferent and unjust have the above four characteristics, and women must see clearly. To love someone, you must love him with your heart and observe him with your heart. On the road of love, you must learn to protect yourself. There is certainly nothing wrong with it.
Author: commoner coarse food.
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