intimate relationships, the secret to maintaining a long-term relationship lies in loyalty. As long as you can stick to loyalty, you can continue this relationship for a long time.
Many people's intimacy starts with the value of their looks, but they can't continue their love for a long time. I used to think that marriage is the best summary of the relationship between two people, but now the high divorce rate makes it hard for us to believe in marriage. On the one hand,
stems from unilateral dislove, lost the first passion for the partner, and the boring and plain marriage life makes them feel suffocated; on the other hand, many people themselves have an extremely lack of knowledge of the marriage relationship and cannot stick to each other’s Role, chose an extramarital affair. The most embarrassing thing about
is that two people have a family. Such a special extramarital affair will surely bring double damage and leave two families torn apart at the same time.
Social burden
Marriage requires two people to work hard. When one party has infidelity, even if the other party cannot find out temporarily, the cheating party also needs to bear great psychological pressure. During the derailment, I not only enjoyed the excitement, but also experienced the anxiety of being discovered.
If there is a further "relationship" between the two, that is, the daily physical derailment, the destruction of the marriage will be even greater. Because it's hardly anyone is willing to accept their partner's physical cheating, which can cause serious disgust. In addition to the husband and wife relationship,
derailment will cause great harm to the children. Many people choose to forgive after their partner cheats on the grounds that they want to give their children a complete family, but in fact, it is difficult to get back to the past.
Many people clearly stated that after knowing that their partners had derailed physically and chose to forgive, they would feel disgusted and sick when they come into contact with each other again.
Some injuries are substantial, and it is difficult to achieve true inner reconciliation by forgiveness, and these changes between husband and wife can be clearly noticed by children. Don't think that children are young and don't understand the world of adults.
Children nowadays are generally precocious and understand that knowledge far exceeds the imagination of adults. Do not use your own cognition to measure the children's world. There is another ending to
. After discovering that their partners have cheated, some people are willing to raise them alone even if they have children because they cannot bear the infidelity, and decisively choose to end the marriage.
Although the law does not expressly stipulate that extramarital affairs are illegal, it is not accepted in social cognition and traditional morality.
Therefore, when people with families have a relationship, they will also bear a heavy social burden. The relationship between the two must be carried out carefully and always worry about the incident.
One party’s derailment brings fatal harm to the partner and even the whole family, let alone each family?
Choose to confess
After having a relationship, there is only one kind of best ending-choose confession. Instead of living a shameful life, it is better to tell your partner the fact that you are cheating.
may be difficult for many people, but as an adult, you cannot choose to cover your mistakes with lies.
Usually, when one of the partners in an intimate relationship has infidelity, out of guilt, they will treat the other half as much as possible to compensate. But in many cases, this kind of sudden kindness may not soothe suspicion.
Some sensitive wives pay more attention to the words and deeds of their husbands because of gifts, and even follow the path to find evidence of their husband's derailment.
A woman’s intuition has always been very accurate, and when she feels that her husband’s words and deeds are different from usual, she must be suspicious. Even if he escapes the investigation, he still needs to live in guilt and anxiety for a lifetime, and worry about the incident at any time. Such a marriage is meaningless. Using evasion to cover up errors by
will only cause more errors. All problems cannot be solved by evasion. They need to communicate with each other to find the key points of the problem and resolve them. It is an immoral thing to cheat on
. If you really choose to enter the marriage hall, you should check your words and deeds. This is a respect for your partner and a restraint on yourself.
