I’m not a bad woman, but most people won’t forgive what I do. Instead of blaming me, my husband pleases me everywhere. Even so, I still want to divorce him...
I’m 32 years old, dance coach, husband 35 years old, sales director, we have been married for 7 years and our son is 5 years old. We have been married for 7 years. Since last year, my husband’s career has entered a period of rapid growth, and his annual income has increased by about 30 times. Almost all of his energy has been spent on work.
He is busy with his career and earning money for his family, but I have been with others behind his back. I think I have met the love of my life, a man who understands and loves me very much, and I want to divorce my husband. In fact, that man looks average and doesn't earn as much money as his husband, but I just like him. In exchange for my heart, my husband bought me gifts and a sports car to make me happy, but I didn't want to leave that man, and my husband firmly did not agree to divorce. Teacher Xu Chuan, what should I do?
Xu Chuan: Lady
, I can understand your current mood. My husband is busy with his career every day, and neglecting you makes you not feel his love. At this time, there is a man who can meet your needs. That's why you will plunge into his arms without hesitation. Since you don't know what to do, let's analyze and see what happened to your marriage together, and then we can know what to do.
First of all, from your narrative, you can see that your husband is a responsible man. He has been busy with his career to make money for the family, but he has ignored your needs. In fact, although the material basis of adult marriage is the material foundation, feelings and married life are the superstructure. In addition to money, your emptiness and loneliness are cold. He didn't realize that adult marriages are about satisfying each other. Your husband did not satisfy your feelings of love and sexual needs. The sense of gap made you show negative emotions and opposites. His disapproval. At this time, if someone who understands you care about you appears, you will fall into the sweetness and happiness that the other person gives.
Secondly, you want to divorce your husband. In order to keep you, he will not speak sweet words, but will use material to make you happy. He mistakenly regards you as a material woman, and he does not know that, in fact, your external feelings, It is caused by the unsatisfied needs of some marriages. At the same time, he will not look for problems to solve the problems. Instead, he mistakenly thinks that earning more money and providing you with material satisfaction can make up for everything, and it can save you and save you. Feelings, he went further and further on the wrong path of salvation.
But your husband has been working hard for the family, and you became a traitor halfway through, giving your husband a victim mentality. As a middle-aged man, he should not be reduced to a money-making machine, but should make you feel that he is flesh and blood. Man. Live your life happily, romantically and happily. And you should also take the initiative to book a high-end hotel to make appointments with your husband to enjoy the private and romantic world of two, so that he understands what life is, so that he can change his lifestyle.
Finally, to be honest, such a husband is really hard to find. Although he does not understand romance, he is really dedicated to this family. And that man, you think he is romantic, you are probably in passion In the future, if you really get married, those firewood, rice, oil and salt may not be any better than your current husband. Since your husband wants to redeem the love you once had, it’s better to give him a step down. Besides, you still have children, which one do you think? Would men love their children like your husband? So you should now understand how to choose. If you don’t know how to reverse the marital crisis, you can tell me about your confusion. I will help you formulate a couple rules and family rules that deeply save your relationship based on the situation of you and your husband, so that you can solve the problem, no Depressed and painful again!
