really likes a man, instead of doing a lot for him, it is better to learn to express love, even if you simply say like, this is the best gift for him.
The love that men want most often is not how gentle a woman is, how considerate, or how caring he is, but how good at expressing his inner appreciation and admiration.
A man loves face, in any case, it exists.
Even if he does not like you, you are good at expressing your obsession and admiration for him, as well as admiration and admiration, which can make him happy, even extremely proud inside. Men like to be appreciated and recognized by others. At this point, often A little more obvious than women.
Although women also like love words, they are not like men. They will be rejoiced by the confession of the opposite sex, and they will not be full of enthusiasm and motivation because of a few love words. Women are perceptual, but they also have the most basic discernment. Men are rational, but they lack the perceptual conditions. After all, women who take the initiative to express love to them are really rare. Women who express their love will most likely become men’s minds. A flame burned their love flames all at once.
Therefore, in the face of a man you like, instead of trying to be considerate or paying a lot for him, it is better to think about what he loves to listen to, express some love words occasionally, or talk about appreciation, and he will be captured by you and feel at ease. .
Many people will regard girls as chasing boys backwards. In fact, when high-ranking girls love boys, they are not chasing backwards, they are going backwards. When
talks about "pull up", generally speaking, you have to talk upside down. The most needed skill is not how beautiful or capable you are, but clever, witty, flexible, interesting and good at being a man. Shuttle through their thoughts, using their attitude towards things, attracting men’s appreciation and obsession.
So, how do you express it?
First, seize the right time, and don’t make random expressions regardless of occasion, time and place; second, it depends on the person, that is, you must understand him, and generally know his likes and dislikes. Be targeted, don’t express casually under unfamiliar premises; third, it’s good to stop, don’t talk too often, or be too long-winded, simple is best, as long as he is not stupid, everyone you talk about understands. That's it.
To express affection, you must be serious, frank, heart-warming, and understandable. That's enough. People who like you, if you say the moonlight is so beautiful tonight, he can read his affection; don't like you People, even if you tell him that I like you, he will "cut" and despise you.
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Finding the right time
Love also requires the right time and place to be in harmony with people.
expresses his love for men, what time, place and occasion should he choose?
First, he is not emotionally ups and downs or busy with something, it is generally feasible;
second, don’t be in front of many people, this will make him very embarrassed, men and women are not the same, women Very much like to be blessed or booed by others, and then twist and be with the admiring people, but men don’t seem to like this kind of public admiration. They prefer serious and sensible expressions, or in daily chats, Or with the convenience of work, etc., it is all possible.
Third, don’t express love in the morning and noon, because a person is very busy during these times. Unless he was born with a golden spoon, everyone is struggling for bread and has no intention of caring about love. It's true that the best time is after get off work, around dinner, and the best time should be between 9 pm and 11 pm.
In this period of time, people are exhausted all day, finally calm down, completely relax, enjoy the pleasure of leisure, and also have a leisurely mind. Then you can express love to him at this time, and it will undoubtedly be the most effective.
seize favorable opportunities to do things, and often get twice the result with half the effort.
【02】
know yourself and your enemy, so you can survive all battles.
Since you like a man and want to show love to him, then you must know him. At least you should know his likes and dislikes. Let him cater to your liking, it's impossible to justify.
Actually, the understanding mentioned here is notIt means that you need to master everything about him, but you only need to understand his answer. If you want to admire him, then you must at least understand what he is good at. You can't just slap horseshoes indiscriminately. Admire him, so at least you should observe his advantages more sideways.
As long as you don’t know him, you are irrational, obsessed, and admired. Even if the other person is attracted by you, if you get together someday and you find that you love the wrong person, he is not what you imagined. Isn’t this a headache?
understands his process, in fact, you reconfirm whether your love is worthwhile, neither let yourself regret it, nor make your expression of love too embarrassing.
Know yourself and the enemy before you can survive a hundred battles.
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is concise and concise, do not love
After expressing like to a man you like, don't wait for his response anymore, you can completely withdraw quietly.
Some people may say, how can you be willing? How could it be so hastily? Since I have been preparing for so long, why can't you wait for him to say something pleasant? Whether it is successful or not, it all depends on his words, shouldn't you wait for it? The answer to
is, you cannot wait. Why is
?
First, don’t give a man a feeling of being forced, that means you love him and he is free. No matter how you love him, he has the freedom to choose. Whether he loves you or not depends on He decides by himself, so you don't want to participate. After expressing your love, your task will be fulfilled. Don't procrastinate. This is not a good sign.
Once you stay frequently, waiting for his response, men will only think that you are indispensable, and a sense of pride arises spontaneously, do you say irritating? And it will appear that you are humble or not reserved enough.
Second, what a man doesn’t like is being hunted and conquered. When you wait by his side, it is tantamount to giving him a sense of intimidation. This is not good. Instead of doing bad things with good intentions, it’s better to learn to let go. Just wait quietly to close the net.
Anyway, you have already said what you should say, and what should be expressed has been expressed. There is basically nothing to regret. The rest is your quiet change. If he is interested in you, he will naturally pounce on you, he If it's not interesting, you can relax your mind and fulfill others' freedom.
pesters a man and tries to move him. This is not a good way to love a man. The love of a man is there or not, basically there is no such thing as moving, so your expression has the effect of a probe.
If you still don’t understand what a man’s love is, you might as well think about the process of burying mines and clearing mines. A man’s heart is like a mine, and you want to clear mines. Then the best way is not to step on it blindly. , But to find a suitable tool, that is, a probe, a little bit of trial and measurement, after finding the correct location, then take the next action.
As long as your detection is correct, all subsequent work is considered effective. Therefore, if you want to love a man, you may learn to detect, investigate, find out where his heart is, and then start all other interactions, which is considered thoughtful.
