There are some things, you don’t have to ask too clearly, it’s not a good thing to be confused. A woman’s greatest wisdom is to just ask her husband’s "privacy":
just ask a man about his past feelings. He will naturally tell you when he wants to say it.
Women are naturally curious, especially about their own men’s past, they want to find out more clearly, but when they know about it, they will feel a little jealous. Maybe there was nothing at the time, and maybe they will find this thing later. Say.
If this is the case, why do you ask? It only increases the troubles, and may also make him feel unhappy. After all, who does not have a past, who does not have a few predecessors, and some emotional pain, maybe he does not want to mention it again, and you But repeatedly asked him, this will only make him unhappy.
Maybe you asked him to tell you, but it is likely that this is his privacy, if it is not important, then there is no need to ask him to confess everything, as long as he is sincere enough to you now, that's fine.
only asks a man about the secrets in his cell phone and gives him independent space.
In the movie "Call Frenzy", because a cell phone involves so many secrets and a lot of pain, everyone hears their phone ringing, They will be very worried;
doesn't know what will happen again this time. Even if it is a couple or a couple, they don't know the secrets of each other's mobile phones. Through this time together, I discovered that everyone has so many things hidden in their hearts.
Now everyone has a lot of secrets hidden in their mobile phones. Women are always curious about men’s phones. They always want to know who he chats with every day, what software is in his phone, and what he usually does on his phone. So I will secretly look.
In fact, once such an approach is let the other party know, it will inevitably have a quarrel, why bother? So don't be too persistent. Everyone should have an independent space. Think about it if he treats you like this, will you be angry too?
only asks about a man’s money, which makes him feel respected
every family has its own way of distributing money, some think that it is necessary to split the money, and the family expenses are shared, some think that he must control his money;
or he takes it The money still doesn’t know what to do, no matter what kind of money, as long as both parties feel that there is no problem.
But in this society, even if there is no cash, there are still many ways to find money, so it is not very useful for you to manage his money forcibly; the key to
is to be self-conscious. The more you control him, the more he will feel disrespected. Finally, The result may become the one you don’t want.
A smart woman gives him respect and rights, so that he will be willing to let you manage the money, and will also consciously contribute to the family.
In short, marriage is a big subject, and getting along with husband and wife is a matter of learning. If you want to live a happy life, you must learn to operate.
And the greatest wisdom of a woman is probably to just ask her husband’s privacy, let him be respected, let him have his own independent space, and let him keep his own past. This will make him thank you very much and make him more love you.
Don't control a person just because you love him. The more you control, the more he wants to escape, and the relationship between the two will become weaker and weaker. In the end, you can only break up.
Learn to love and learn to handle the relationship between two people correctly, so that your marriage will get better and better.
