At noon on November 25th, Zhang Mohan posted two consecutive Weibo responses to Zhang Peimeng’s "counter-claim of his domestic violence", and posted an earlier recording, saying that he first reported to the police for domestic violence when he was three months pregnant. , The parents-in-law arrived in time, asked himself to cancel the alarm, and in front of the parents-in-law and Zhang Peimeng to review the content of every domestic violence.
In the recording, Zhang Mohan described how Zhang Peimeng had done several domestic violence against him. Zhang Peimeng all admitted and apologized in turn. Zhang Peimeng's mother also stated in the recording that he would be fair to Zhang Mohan in the future, warning Zhang Peimeng not to have similar situations. occur. In another Weibo of Zhang Mohan,
emphasized that after this response, everything will be settled by law and will no longer occupy public resources.
November 25 is the "International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women" established by the United Nations, also known as "International Day for the Elimination of Domestic Violence." The topic of "domestic violence" has always attracted public attention, and there are still countless women who are silently suffering from domestic violence. Domestic violence, as its name implies, is to use violent means to treat people who are related to blood or legal marriage; the perpetrators and victims here are the closest people around them. There are couples, parents to children, and brothers to themselves. Sisters, and possibly parents, will impose physical punishment on their children. They feel that the children are treated as they wish. Domestic violence is by no means a way to resolve family conflicts.
According to a survey conducted by the All-China Women’s Federation, about 30% of China’s 270 million households have domestic violence, and 16% of women admitted to having suffered domestic violence by their husbands. Among them, women suffered domestic violence as high as 37.4%, while men suffered from domestic violence about 17.34%. Although it cannot be said that most of the victims of domestic violence are women, at present, from the perspective of proportion, women are still in a disadvantaged place in family life. It is not entirely accusation that men may be more violent in family life than women, but under certain conditions, they are still in a strong state. How should women who encounter domestic violence respond?
Whether it is one or multiple acts of domestic violence, if the status quo needs to be changed, it is recommended that women take a strong counterattack. Whether it is calling the police, making divorce negotiations, or intervening by the elders, the man must be shocked physically and mentally, so that he will have a deep memory, and even form a conditioned reflex-no matter how big the contradiction is, women cannot be beaten, and physical beating offends morality. The bottom line!
all say that there are only one and N times of domestic violence among men. The big reason is that women have adopted a gentle and forbearing coping style that takes care of the overall situation and takes care of others. Men did not form deep shocks and memories both physically and mentally. If you make a mistake, you will be punished and paid, and the punishment and cost must be big and heavy!
Look at this real example. There used to be a director of a refractory factory in Jiyuan City. His wife was virtuous and beautiful, and his children were lovely and smart. But no matter how beautiful and virtuous a wife is, how can she compare to a young girl in her prime. The factory director had a fierce fight with his female secretary, and the female secretary became pregnant. In order to be able to divorce his wife, he first coaxed and persuaded, but it was invalid, so he punched and kicked. Fortunately, women in those days were conservative in their thinking and would rather be beaten than divorce. Seeing that there was nothing he could do, the factory manager had evil intentions and hired murderers. In the end, the woman who had accompanied him for half a life was killed under a bridge hole not far from the entrance of the village.
bloody facts tell us that when a man starts to punch you, the love between you is already disillusioned! Don't talk about reluctance, living is the most important thing! The
family should not become a hotbed of violence, domestic violence, and not just ordinary housework. Facing the abyss of violence, we are not the perpetrators, nor the silent lambs who help the abuser. After all, tolerance cannot be exchanged for awakening. Only by taking up the weapon of law can resistance be able to win true happiness.
Faced with domestic violence, women must say no!
Faced with domestic violence, women must protect their lifeline!
