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Letters from readers:
Muzi Li:
I met my ex-boyfriend after working for half a year, and two months after establishing a romantic relationship, we lived together. After living together for a year, I proposed to get married. His attitude at the time: he still can't afford to buy a house now, wait a few years to save money before considering getting married.
Faced with his attitude, I was actually quite lost, but because I was in love, I chose to accommodate.
Since then, I discovered that his attitude towards me has changed and become indifferent. Therefore, because of his indifference, we started a frequent quarrel mode. In the end, he said: I am fed up with your bad temper, I think we are not suitable, let's break up.
Maybe, in this relationship, I also accumulated too many complaints, so I didn't do anything to retain him.
It is ridiculous that less than a month after we were separated, news of his marriage came.
According to the description of our mutual friends, his marriage partner is from his hometown, and we know each other on a blind date. The family is in good condition.
Actually, I also know that in this era, when looking for a marriage partner, everyone will weigh the pros and cons. However, I thought my ex-boyfriend and I were exceptions, because I did not dislike him for not being able to buy a house. On the contrary, he disliked me.
Maybe, he wants to find a girl with good family conditions, so that he can fight for many years.
Here, I remind all boys, don't talk about our girls material things anymore, you boys are the same.
Muzi Li after the editor:
I always feel that a relationship cannot be generalized, because everyone has different ideas.
Maybe, you broke up with your ex boyfriend because he didn't love him enough, or in other words, his expectations of marriage are not something you can fulfill.
Many times, people think that a person's life is good. However, considering the world, considering their parents, or because of loneliness, they will encounter a relationship at some point, but they do not have the mentality of marriage.
Such a person, in this relationship, will only be for fun, not for giving.
Do you think that after you break up for a month, the other party will get married. Is that true love? That is a material marriage holding hands.
It is not ruled out that after you dated for a year, your boyfriend’s indifference towards you is because he came home during the vacation and had contact with each other under the recommendation of his parents. At least, in the year you did not break up, they were just surreptitiously.
What I want to say is that when love is lost to material things, there is really nothing I can do.
Many times, we will emphasize this: When we get married, we must find someone who loves each other. However, there are many cases where love is lost to money.
So, you still have to think about marriage, but don’t think it’s too great. It’s okay to find a relatively satisfied or relatively suitable person to live with you.
True incense's law is: the stronger you are, the lower the probability of being disappointed.
