Foreword
There are countless doors in life, and each door leads to a different life. If you use happiness as the key and choose a happy state of mind, you will eventually approach a happy and happy life; if you take selfishness as a stepping stone and ignore the feelings of others, you can only taste the bitter fruits that end up in the end.
Many people owe their fate to heaven's arrangement. Happiness and unhappiness are already destined. In fact, apart from being born, we cannot choose, most things are determined by ourselves, including happiness.
As the saying goes, "satisfaction and happiness", people can have pursuits, but first they must correct their position and remember to climb higher blindly. There is a word in economics called "value", and everyone has their own value. When in order to get a better life, require the other party to meet too many conditions beyond their own value, this is not called the pursuit of happiness, this is called naked business negotiations.
For example, as the ancients said, "the door is right", it has a meaning. Only when the weights on the balance are kept equal can the future happiness be output steadily. Z1z
and blind dates can best reflect the difference in value between men and women and their attitude towards happiness. After all, the story of Cinderella and the prince only exists in fairy tales. The protagonist of
today is Yue Yue, a divorced woman with a baby. She constantly tries to pursue a new round of happiness, but she fails every time. The reason is simple. She overestimated her own value and failed to correct her position and attitude. The bitter fruit was still planted by herself.
Cause introduction
Yueyue is 27 years old this year, because she has a relationship with her ex-husband and divorced, and the child is raised by her. When
was a 27-year-old woman, it was of course impossible for Yueyue to remain single. Besides, it was not a problem to live in her natal family, so she asked the matchmaker Zhang to help her re-introduce her partner.
Although Yueyue had given birth to a child, it didn't affect her figure at all. Her face was as beautiful as ever, and her skin was fair. These were the capital for her to re-select objects. The
matchmaker Jie Zhang and Yueyue’s mother are somewhat related, so Jie Zhang often runs errands to find out about Yueyue. What's more, in her opinion, Yueyue is divorced after all with a baby, and the target should not be too picky. , Your own matchmaker fee is easy to earn. Z1z
Blind date
is not really true, nowadays there are many men and young women, let alone divorced once, even if divorced twice, they are rushing for it.
For the first time, Zhang Jie introduced Yueyue to a blind date from outside the village, named Zhang Liang, who specializes in interior decoration. The young man is 26 years old this year. He is not low in height, just a mark of pimples on his face.
When Zhang Liang led Zhang Liang to Yueyue's house, Yueyue was looking at the baby. After some simple politeness, Sister Zhang went out, leaving them two opportunities to get to know them individually.
Zhang Liang’s first impression of Yueyue was not good. He was wearing a down jacket just after the fall. He did not remember the zipper to reveal that there were a lot of white spots on the autumn clothes, especially on the face. .
The interested Yueyue first said: "Sister Zhang told you about me, right? I was divorced and brought a 4-year-old baby. My request is that the man has a full house and car, and I will I'm not going to have any more children. If you feel acceptable, let's continue talking. "
Zhang Liang nodded while listening. After Yueyue finished talking about her situation, Zhang Liang got up and said: "I'll talk to Sister Zhang Talk."
found Sister Zhang at the door, Zhang Liang asked with a bitter face why Sister Zhang hadn't told herself that she would not have a child. Other conditions are fine, but this is not acceptable. He hasn't been married yet, so it's impossible to even want his own flesh and blood.
Zhang Liang is gone. He was drawn by Sister Zhang on the way to work. He came with hope, but was scared away by the girl's request. Z1z
Blind date two
A few days later, Zhang Jie found a new blind date for Yueyue. The
guy is Tian Wei. He is 29 years old and unmarried. The conditions at home are not very good. Sister Zhang introduced to Tian Wei in detail about Yueyue's situation and proposed the conditions for Yueyue not to have another child in the future. Tian Wei said no problem.
We still met at Yueyue’s house. Tian Wei looks good, and her first impression is good. After the greeting, Yueyue said to Tian Wei: "I heard Sister Zhang say that you are 29 and have not yet settled.marriage. In fact, our age is relatively mature and realistic, and my requirements are not high. It is best to buy a house and a car in full, and then Sister Zhang will tell you that I don't want to have another child. "Z1z
Yueyue saw that Tian Wei was listening and making children laugh, and she was actually quite willing.
Tian Wei was just out of politeness. He originally thought that his family conditions were not good, so he could find a woman to marry, and the child would not have children. Not big. But just after listening to Yueyue talking about her conditions, she definitely couldn't meet the requirements for the full house and car.
More importantly, Tian Wei looked at the child in front of him and suddenly felt that having a child was pretty good. Well, he thinks of his parents who have worked hard all his life. If he has passed away in his own generation, he feels sorry for his parents.
So Tian Wei politely said to Yueyue: "My situation, Ms. Zhang may also tell you, my family's conditions Not so good, let alone the full price of the house and car, at most you can pay the down payment. Is this your child? So cute. "Z1z
Yueyue thought that Tian Wei likes her children, and she is not too stubborn, so she said to Tian Wei: "Houses and cars can be taken slowly in the future, but they must have them. The most important thing is children. I feel the pressure of life now. Big, a child is enough to worry about, so I don’t want to have another child. "Z1z
Tian Wei smiled and got up to leave. After going out, he said to the matchmaker Zhang Jie: "Sorry Zhang, I thought I could accept not having a child, but I still couldn't accept the smile of a child today. Yueyue is very good, she will find better people. "The second blind date of
failed again. The third blind date of
Zhang Jie knows that Yueyue is proud, but she has seen too many excellent girls and boys. She can't use the experience of the past to change Yueyue's thoughts. I can look for it again in order to earn matchmaking fees. The third time Zhang Jie brought me to Dong Jie, she was divorced at the age of 30. She was very good in all aspects, even with her 6-year-old daughter.
Yueyue didn’t want to at first. Those who met were forced to meet after being persuaded by Zhang’s bitter words.
Dong Jie introduced his situation. There are two supermarkets next to the school in the city, and two suites have cars. He also promised that if the blind date is successful, he promised to get married again. Buying a new house as a wedding room.
Yueyue was moved. She asked Dong Jie who took care of the children, and Dong Jie replied that it was herself.
Then Yueyue pretended to be mature and said to Dong Jie: "In fact, there are too many children. It's also very annoying. I watch children every day, and one is enough for me to make noise. You see if your child can let his grandparents see, so that the two little guys will not fight. "Z1z
Dong Jie is very puzzled. He did not expect that Yueyue would make such a request. Of course, his own child raised by herself, isn't she also raised by herself?
Dong Jie told Yueyue to talk to the matchmaker again, and then asked Sister Zhang how What happened, Zhang Jie told Dong Jieyue that she disliked his child's age, and she was afraid that she would remember, and told Dong Jie that Yueyue did not want to have another child in the future. Of course, Dong Jie could not accept it. It’s great, the blind date sister Zhang didn’t introduce it clearly, otherwise she wouldn’t come today. The third blind date of
also ended in failure. Z1z
postscript
failed three consecutive blind dates, Zhang Jie has an opinion on Yueyue, and the man’s condition I don’t like the bad ones, and the requirements are too tricky when the conditions are good. Sister Zhang persuades Yueyue to be realistic. After all, she is divorced and she has a baby. Don’t go too far even if she looks good. Z1z
and told her. I’m looking for a wife to get married and live my life. I’m not looking for a girlfriend to have a relationship with someone. I’m almost done. Finally, I also advise Yueyue to cross out the condition of not having children in the future. I have a child and don’t let others want it. This kind of lack of heart will accept.
emotional message
The pursuit of profit is a problem that every entrepreneur must consider. But for every entrepreneur, making money is not a wishful thing. It is not you who decides whether to make money or not. You are yourself, but a customer. You provide customers with value-for-money services and provide value, and you earn money.
People have the same sense of happiness as entrepreneurs, and the pursuit of happiness is the same process as the pursuit of happiness. , Provide each other with their own value sincerely, hold a sincere attitude, and then wait for the other party's final verdict.
No happiness is wishful thinking. Sometimes the happiness that you think is beyond its own value may not be the real happiness. It is very likely that the other party regards you as an investment tool, perhaps playing or teasing.
So lofty is a stumbling block to happiness, selfishness is a stumbling block to sincerity. When a person overestimates one's own value and lacks sincerity, you will never catch the happiness train, because happiness is always by your side, and your empty eyes never find it.
Author: disease scholar, thank you for reading, willing wonderful to be with you.
