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A woman is the feng shui of the family, and if a woman is in peace, she will have a family, a family will be prosperous, and a prosperous family will be a blessing.
The second half of a man's life is good and bad, half is in his own hands, and the other half is in the hands of the person next to his pillow. A good woman has a huge impact on the family. There used to be a saying that "a good wife will benefit three generations."
The famous American "family therapy master" Satya believes: "A person and his native family are inextricably linked, and this connection may affect his life." The
native family has a deep-rooted influence on a person. Yes, when we grow up, our behaviors and values are all influenced by our family.
If a man wants to marry a good woman, he must first see the woman's original family situation. Li Jian (a pseudonym), a man who just divorced last year, is deeply moved by this truth.
Li Jian said that because he was too sloppy at the beginning, he did not see clearly the original family environment of his ex-wife, which caused him to make mistakes again and again. Married back home the ex-wife who had no sense of responsibility and worshipped money and vanity.
As a result, the three years of marriage life made him exhausted, and he couldn't make it anymore, so he ended up in divorce. "Try not to marry the daughters of these three families, you will live very tiredly." This is the sigh of a divorced man.
The daughter of a maiden slave family.
After a woman gets married, her focus should be shifted from her natal family to her own small family. Only when the family is small and then everyone can live a good life
If it is a woman’s family that allows her daughter to subsidize her family’s family, then Only men suffer in the end. A woman in a maiden slave family only thinks about her maiden family, and it hurts the interests of men. A daughter who grew up in a family like
was brainwashed by her parents since she was a child: "You are just such a younger brother. In the future, you must treat him well and take good care of him." Because of this patriarchal family concept,
has penetrated into him. In her thoughts, after getting married, she couldn't tell the difference between everyone and Xiaojia. Even if she married someone, she still couldn't let go of subsidizing her parents, and asked her to refuse her parents' request. She would feel a sense of guilt and guilt.
Li Jian said that as a divorced man, he would like to remind everyone: I would rather get married later than marry the daughters of these three families.
Parents have no sense of responsibility for the daughter of a family.
When we were children, our most direct learning and imitating objects were our parents. The learning content of
is not only how to communicate with others and how to get along with couples, but more importantly, our values and beliefs are often inseparable from our native family. The
family is the child's first school, and the parents are the child's first teacher. Many children’s behaviors are learned from their parents, and parents have a subtle influence on their children’s behaviors.
Parents love to play mahjong, children may like to gamble; parents like to swear, children may be rude and love to fight. Parents have no sense of responsibility for the family, and after such children get married, they will also have no sense of post-family responsibility.
Li Jian said, this is the black one near the ink, and the red one near the Zhu. His ex-wife is the best example. Therefore, men must never marry the daughters of these three families, otherwise life will be difficult. Z1z
Wheat message: Marry a wife to marry a virtuous person.
Good women prosper for three generations, bad women ruin three generations.
A woman plays multiple roles in the family, not only the husband’s wife, but also the child’s mother and in-law’s daughter-in-law. Therefore, to marry a wife, you must find a good woman.
Li Jian said, what kind of woman a man marries, also heralds the direction of his future life. Only by seeing clearly can I not let myself live hard.
Marriage events should not be too casual, and the life after marriage is already doomed before marriage. A reminder from a divorced man: I would rather marry later than marry the daughters of these three families.
has always said that "marry a wife should marry a virtuous man". Behind a successful man, there must be a more virtuous wife. Conversely, behind a failed man, there must also be a prodigal woman holding back.
What a man is most proud of in his life is not how successful his career is and that he has a good wife. Therefore, in choosing a wife, we must keep our eyes open and be cautious.Treat it with caution.
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