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People who are rich in their hearts will stay sensible even if they want anything more. On the contrary, people who lack in their hearts will lack something and show off more. Whether it's making friends or falling in love, everyone hopes that the person next to him is capable and can "one person gains the way, and the chicken and dog ascend to heaven".
Especially for women, what kind of man they choose is equivalent to choosing what kind of future. Choosing a promising man, life will definitely get better and better, on the contrary, choosing a promising man, life is destined to become bleaker. So, choice is very important, sometimes more important than hard work.
In fact, it is not difficult to judge whether a man is promising. A man with no promise would desperately "show off" these three things. Has he ever shown off?
desperately to show off how many women he has played with.
The more serious a man treats his feelings, the better his character and the more promising he will be. When a man faces a woman, no matter if he is actively falling in love with him, or he is moved by his hard pursuit, but if he can't treat each other sincerely, he just wants to take advantage and leave. Such a man , Are all scumbags. Although everyone has their own ability to choose love, they must not hurt others in a way.
If a man always shows off how many women he has slept with, and how many women's feelings he has played with, he still thinks that only a man with great ability can do this. In fact, only unpromising men will have such a show-off mentality. A promising man will cherish every woman who appears in his life and respect every way of love.
desperately to show off his opportunistic behavior.
success is a very complicated thing, and the most important thing is to keep your feet on the ground. Some men do not have their own opinions on macro issues, but have their own profound drills on small matters. Only those men who are not promising will be self-defeating and complacent for a little profit.
A talented man has a higher vision and will not care about temporary gains and losses. It is precisely because the gaze is focused on the whole world, not the soil under your feet, so you have more choices. A man, if he always shows off the small advantages he once took, and feels that he is smart enough, and everyone else is stupid, then he will surely be nothing.
A loss is a blessing. You take a small advantage and you can't lose much, but you can recognize a person clearly. When everyone feels that being with him does more harm than good, the road is destined to get narrower and narrower.
desperately to show off his little achievements.
Everyone will have fond memories worthy of touching. But just keep those things in your heart, and it doesn't hurt to take out warm wine occasionally. The most important thing to judge a man's ability is not how much he has achieved, but what he will accomplish now and facing the future.
In life, the past achievements are used to cover up the shortcomings of the present. Such men are everywhere. Among them, the vast majority of them are that the status quo is unsatisfactory, but they are not willing to work hard to change, always pushing the cause of the current situation. To others. How could a man like
be considered a promising man?
A man, especially a man in his 30s and 40s, if he always desperately shows off his past small achievements and thinks that this is the pride of his life, then to put it bluntly, he can't have much success.
