is a kind of beauty, like a small city facing the night, reflecting the splendor of the sunset.
all know that falling in love is not the same as getting married. Some people say that when falling in love is always sweet, the other party will satisfy you whatever you want, will spoil you like a princess, and even rely on you for everything, and will not happen to you A little quarrel.
His gentleness will make you think how there are such good men in the world, and it will make you feel like you don't want to leave him for the rest of your life. But when you get married, all this seems to have changed. He starts to be lukewarm to you, and he won't even say a few words when he comes home, completely different from when he was in love.
Actually, this is not a so-called marriage. When a man really falls in love with someone, he should be as usual. He will not talk sweetly to you at the beginning, but will be indifferent to you after getting married.
If a man loves you so much that he wants to marry you, then he must have these behaviors: First, he will give all his deposits to you for safekeeping, and he dare to give you the deposits before marriage. You are afraid that he will be Are you okay? The second reason is that he will refuse to party because of you, that is, he can only have you in his heart, and will never provoke others; the third reason is that you become a "nanny" and will spoil you like a princess, and he will do everything about you. I can think ahead for you, and even arrange three meals a day.
So, when a man wants to marry you, he will be different from the beginning, he will be more serious than ever.
The performance of a man who wants to marry you
give you all the deposits
Men are very rational groups, they are not like women. Women generally do things with sensibility. When they like something, they don’t think for too long, especially when buying something, they always like it at first sight, and then they place an order without hesitation and buy it back. I found that I didn't like it, and then I wasted money to buy useless things. So on Double Eleven, girls always buy a lot of things.
is different from men. Men are very rational. They take a long time to buy something if they like it, and for men, they won't spend a cent on useless things.
loves the same. If a man doesn't like you and doesn't plan to marry you, then he won't spend money on you, let alone leave the deposit to you.
So, cherish the man who is willing to hand over the deposit to you for safekeeping. He has recognized you from his heart and wants to live with you for the rest of his life.
refused to meet up
Dating is a thing that adults like, whether it is a man or a woman, when the person you like very much asks yourself, no matter how busy your work is, no matter how tired you are, even if you have a big reason Will attend the appointment.
In fact, when he was young, he liked not only dating but also parties, because if you are lucky at the party, you can meet the opposite sex you like. If you hold it well, the other person will become your partner. Even if
does not have this mindset, the opposite sexes are attracted to each other. It is a very happy thing for everyone to chat together, drink, and eat barbecue. Therefore, as long as they are adults and have no girlfriends, most boys like to go to parties.
When a man is about to marry a woman, he will take care of him and refuse many parties for her because he is afraid that the woman he likes will be jealous.
became a "nanny" for you
In relationships, the word nanny is usually used to describe women. It is said that a poorly married woman is a princess in her natal family and becomes a "nanny" when she arrives at her in-laws.
In fact, this is a very true sentence. Before I got married, I knew nothing, I never cooked a meal, and I didn't have any hardships. After getting married, I ran into a husband who didn’t know how to care for me. He didn’t care about everything in the family. No matter what the housework, he would always do it by himself. He also felt that a woman would not do anything when she was idle at home and would just ask. He wants money. A woman like
often doesn't live well after getting married, because her husband doesn't care for her at all, so she really makes her marriage a nanny life.
This is not the case for men who really want to give women a home. Men who really want to get married tend to love their spouse very much. When they are not married, they have already contracted all the housework and acted as a "nanny". As long as I am here, I won’t make my girlfriend a bit of hardship and will take good care of her.
Conclusion:
is not marriage that makes women unhappy, but the person who gave you marriage makes you unhappy.
Everything has a cause, there will be an effect. People who don’t love you won’t be very attached to you at the beginning. You may not even know how much savings he has before you get married. Even if he has you, you will often Go to a party and never cook a meal for you. How can you still yearn for a relationship like
how good he will be to you after getting married? In fact, he may not want to marry you from the beginning, but he chose you in the end because you are suitable.
