A person loves you or not, whether you care about you, whether you have planned you into your own future, in fact, you can feel all of this, if you can't feel it, it means there is no.
We are no longer young, and we have passed the age of hearing love. Now we must learn to be determined and mature, and stop being sad and sad for someone who does not love you.
If you like someone who doesn't love you so much, or doesn't have any affection for you at all, then you can take the initiative to put away your love.
A relationship, if it makes you feel tired, or it makes you feel as if he doesn't love you at all, then he really doesn't love you.
Xiao J told me that I recently talked to a boyfriend, but in this relationship, she could not feel the enthusiasm and initiative of the other party. She sent him a message in the morning, but had to wait until the afternoon to receive a reply.
Is he really that busy? Actually, no. Many people now look at their mobile phones hundreds of times a day. If he wants to reply to your message, he must have responded long ago. If he doesn't reply, he just doesn't want to reply.
What should love be like?
Love is that he clearly understands all your preferences, knows your bottom line, and has his own principles. He understands your difficulty, is willing to give you what you want, and will spoil you as a child.
In this relationship, he will give you the sense of security you want and the courage to make all decisions. Love is that everything is explained, everything is responded to, and everything is settled. It is also a preference for you.
He will not take the initiative to give you the romance you want
If you ask me: "Is there a straight man in this world?"
My answer is yes, of course, there must be straight men in this world. .
But if you ask me: "Is there a straight man in love?"
My answer is no. There is no such thing as a straight steel man in a relationship, because someone who likes you will understand everything, and will always be available to you, omnipotent, even if he was really a straight steel man before meeting him, I don't understand romance, but because he met you and fell in love with you, he will start to change for you.
Perhaps, he will not be very obvious, but in the days with him day and night, you can still feel his care and heartache for you in the small details of life.
So, if a man whose mouth is full of I love you, after he was with you, he never gave you the romance you wanted.
Even if you talk to him, he still says that he doesn't understand romance, then, he doesn't understand it, he just didn't show his true affection for you. The cost of making romance is really low at
. As long as you pay enough attention and effort, you can create a lot of romance, because girls are often easily moved by many small details in life. So, romance is not piled up with money, it depends on the mind.
He seldom contacts you actively
“It’s useless to like more, love needs to go both ways to be useful.”
If the person you like, he doesn’t feel true to you at all, then, no matter how much you like him, for No matter how much he gives, he will not appreciate you, let alone love you.
Therefore, in this relationship, he will not be so active, he will appear passive, and he will rarely contact you actively.
You may all know these, but you don't want to admit it. If you admit someone you like, he doesn't like you at all. In fact, this is not a difficult task.
Because if the other party doesn't like it, then all your likes and all your contributions are just your own wishful thinking. Unrequited love like this will never produce results.
Therefore, no matter how good his lips are, if he rarely contacts you after being with you, it means that he is really not tempted by you.
Now with the convenience of social communication, it is really easy to find someone. If you don't contact, you just don't want to contact, that's it.
He will not actively give you the sense of security you want z3What exactly is z
security?
In fact, the sense of security that girls want is also very simple, that is: everything has an explanation, everything has a response, everything has an effect, and it is also a preference for you. If
is a boy, he can do this to you in the process of getting along with you, then there is no doubt that he must love you deeply. If
does not, then, obviously, he really has no real feelings for you. Because there is not enough love, he can't give you the sense of security you want.
Of course, people who don't like you will not give you the sense of security you want. Therefore, after you are with him, you will always suffer losses and gains in this relationship.
Every day is like the cloud in life, especially unreliable and insecure, making you feel that everything is unrealistic, just like dreaming, maybe all of this will be broken when you wake up.
The sense of security is the most basic thing in a relationship. If he can't give you, then he must not love you enough. For this, girls must understand.
emotional message:
has always liked this sentence: "Love is a one-way street, and those who love you will not look around."
People who like you, he will definitely make you feel his passion for you and for you The initiative, all the tenderness and love for you.
A liking can only be a kind of liking when it is used on the right person, and persistence can only have its meaning and value when it is used on the right person.
So, if you find the person you love, he doesn’t seem to be enamored with you, then don’t make excuses for him, because all the excuses will eventually become a thorn and pierce your heart. , Makes you particularly uncomfortable.
Xin Yiwu once wrote in "The Youth To Us Lost": "This earth will not change its natural laws just because we are completely sad. The sun will still rise tomorrow, and life will continue. .Z2z
So, even if you love the wrong person in your relationship, don’t escape, be brave and face it calmly, okay?
