* Title source: Question 4 of this issue of Micro Q&A:
Introduction to New Fans
Question 1
Keywords: Mild polyoma
Hello, baby sister~
I 92, 165cm49kg, z6 independent points There are 3 suites in the first-tier cities, especially loved by parents, with an annual income of about 20 and self-confident high pu.
He is 92, 168cm78kg, is not alone, 6 points, cut stone, family conditions are not very good, parents and younger brother need him to make money subsidies, independent from childhood to large, the economic pressure is very great, the annual income is about 20 ( But very potential stock)
We have been together for a year and a half, has been living together, I have reached the age of marriage, but he has always said that with his current financial situation, he has no support from the family (no house) but he can’t Accept that you have nothing to enter into marriage. My parents and I don't actually care if he has no money. His family treats me very well. His double quotient is super high, and his life and work can satisfy everyone. The only thing I can’t accept is that has many friends of the opposite sex. (he said they might help him at work in the future)
, is this a sign of slight polygamy? I don’t know if such a boy is a good marriage partner. Now the two are deadlocked, will either get married or break up. would like to listen to Wawa sister’s opinion, thank you~
answered
"But he never said that with his current financial situation and no support from the family (no room), he can’t accept that he would enter into marriage with nothing." He is not necessarily a long choice for you.
You two currently have the same appearance. The appearance is supposed to be a girl’s strength, but you are similar to him. This shows that you have a high level of the other’s appearance, but fortunately, both of you are about the same height. Strengths, but he is about the same as you, so he climbed your height, and overall, you are the same. But in the long run, his MV will surely surpass you gradually, so he doesn't want to let himself be trapped on you alone, which is understandable.
Want to know the secret to growing old together? It's very simple, just find someone you can hold in the future.
Question 2
Keywords: To your friend's generous boyfriend
Hello, I hope you can get help from my sister.
I was 98 years old, is 160 in height and 100 in weight, is not alone, and I am still a student. The man of
was 93 years old, 174, 120, and are not independent, and the monthly income of is about 6000.
mv I am a little taller than him, and have been together for two months and have a stable relationship. Z6z’s current appeal is that his boyfriend is too good to his friends. He basically pays when goes out with friends. The frequency of ’s outings is about twice a week, with a minimum of 500 each time. When I asked him, he said that because his two friends were fresh graduates, they didn't have much money. He also often lends money to his various friends, borrowing about 100,000, sometimes borrows money from his friends, and he does not have enough money and even asks me to lend his friends.
Although he usually spends money generously on me, , I think he should save up that money to prepare for the future, rather than sacrifice his girlfriend's interests and lend money to friends. How can I tactfully persuade him to go out with those friends less, pay them less, and lend less money to friends?
Answer
To solve your confusion, you might as well ask yourself the following questions:
1. What did he get from them?
2. Why don't you change a boy who is willing to pay you?
3. What did you get from him that you refused to give up? The answer of
is ready to come out. After knowing what you are greedy for, all this can be understood.
Question 3
Keywords: Unexpected pregnancy
I have a bachelor's degree in 1995, and my monthly income is 5000. My hometown is in the county seat, has a brotherBrother lives in his hometown in the county. My sister and my parents are currently renting and working together in Suzhou. The family is not well-off but there is love and harmony.
His 92 high school. monthly income is 7000. My hometown is in the town. I sold my hometown house in 16 years and bought a house in Suzhou with a down payment of 400,000 yuan and a mortgage of 300,000 yuan. His sister is married. His parents are 15 years old, and they sleep in separate rooms and are noisy all year round. My father is not responsible for the family and is sick. My mother has a back disease, so I can only make money for myself.
His family's mortgage, utilities and gas property fees, and daily necessities are all supported by her boyfriend. In addition to the mortgage, boyfriend owes 90,000 yuan for renovations and medical treatment for his mother. We started dating in June last year and soon moved in together. Z6z got pregnant unexpectedly in February of this year, and now the child has been killed.
I was pregnant at the time, and he proposed to get married, both parents met for the first time to discuss the betrothal gift, my parents proposed 120,000 (including 3 gold, wedding photo, etc., also including honoring my parents) he gave me that night The answer is 60,000 (including three golds, wedding photo, etc.). And told me that ’s rule is that the bride price will not be used to honor the woman’s parents. At , we get married outside. Normally, the man gives the bride price and the woman gives the dowry. But their family doesn't want a dowry, so let me accept 60,000.
I didn't agree, I had a fetus after we had a big fight. boyfriend thinks that my family forced him to threaten him with abortion, for tens of thousands of dollars. And I feel that my boyfriend takes advantage of my shortcomings of unmarried pregnancy and is unwilling to borrow more money to marry me. I don't want to break up now, but I can't get past this hurdle. What should the doll do?
