When the Korean Wave swept the world and many girls dreamed of marrying Oppa and becoming authentic Korean daughters-in-law, a group of young Filipino girls not only dreamed of disillusionment, they were ruthlessly abandoned by Korean men, and even had to bear the burden of raising two people alone. The burden of the "crystallization of love" between the children will never see their biological fathers for the rest of their lives. Because of the poor economic situation and the sour words of the surrounding relatives and friends, many mothers cannot bear these external factors and send their children into orphans. The hospital accidentally attracted the attention of the local government, and some people collectively referred to these children as "Kopino".
How did Korean Obama meet and fall in love with these women, but finally turned his face and didn’t recognize his children?
thought it was love, but he just wanted to play...
, a pseudonym Chrissy Kristi’s 23-year-old Filipino girl met a South Korean man a few years ago. She thought she had found Prince Charming and could leave it to him for the rest of her life, but things did not go as expected.
Kristi said helplessly: "We two fell in love with each other at first sight, and then we dated for a few months before we found out that he was married and had children. These facts broke the world I imagined, so I Decided to leave him." However, a few months after the breakup, she realized that she was pregnant. For the future of the child, she held back her grief and went back to the Korean man. He said to Christie: "Don't worry, I won't leave you!"
One month before the due date, the man who said he was responsible disappeared without a trace, leaving Kristi to work and make money while raising this one. She was destined to have no father’s child, but she was helpless. In addition to
, another 28-year-old Filipino girl with the pseudonym Esther also had a similar experience. In an interview with South Korean media, said: "My child's dad and I are in the dating app. I met, he came on a business trip, and after we met for a while, he confessed to me that he wanted to marry me as his wife. He was really good to me during the days of dating, but one day he said he must I leave here temporarily and will come back later..." The people are not as good as the heavens. After he left, Esther found out that he was pregnant. Esther called the child’s father to share this joy. He was very He was happy and said that he would go back soon. After more than three months passed, the other party not only didn't come back, but even severed contact with her.
Esther was severely hit physically and mentally. She didn't know what the man did in Korea, and couldn't contact him. She had to endure the hardship of pregnancy alone and had to work to make ends meet. These two cases of
are not a minority in the Philippine society. There are now tens of thousands of children in the Philippines, waiting for Korean fathers to come back to find them...
cheating simple Filipino girls and leaving children as souvenirs?
Why these Filipino girls Obviously incapable, most people still choose to have children? In fact, religious beliefs account for most of the reasons for . As everyone knows, the Philippines is a Catholic-dominant country. Under the doctrinal norms, abortion is a must. Therefore Even though most of the girls are born in poverty, and "unmarried pregnancy" more or less need to endure the cold words of others, but insist on giving birth to their children. In addition, these Korean men and Filipino girls usually do not engage in sexual acts. Wearing a set of , this result is not surprising without taking safety measures.
In 2017 alone, due to factors such as cheap air tickets, frequent trade, and short flight time, Korean tourists dominated the Philippine tourism market and ranked first, which indirectly prompted more Korean men to engage in sex transactions. As the number of Koreans coming to the Philippines to buy spring, travel, and work continues to increase, there are also many Korean men who see local women as innocent and deceptive, and have a sweet and romantic relationship with them in a gentle and kind manner, cheating with sweet words Filipino woman who has not been involved in the world.
These children’s fathers came to the Philippines. In addition to business and trade, some came to study abroad. Most of these children were middle-aged men, and most of them had early families in South Korea. Therefore, the promise in the relationship was one It was deceptive in the beginning.
But of course the liar will not say that he is a liar. In the process of communication, Korean men will constantly weave a vision for the future and promise to bring theFang went back to South Korea and deceived the Filipino girl with all kinds of rhetoric. When the time came, she secretly ran back to Korea and refused to contact the other party. Everything the Filipino girl invested in this passionate love ended up being nothing...
Poor victim: Twisting the children born to foreigners
The local government called this group of Han-Filipino children "Kopino" (the collective name of Korean and Filipino) . They were destined to have no fathers when they were born, and their fathers and children live in the world The two ends are similar, but the tragic fate of these children is not over yet.
According to South Korean media reports, there are about 60 Filipino women looking for their children’s fathers. Some have attached photos of themselves and their children, their father’s names and photos, and some have no photos of their children’s fathers. Can use a short narrative to try to recall this group of "running men".
Most Filipino women and Korean men have not registered their marriage locally. Even if they were married in the Philippines, it is difficult for a father without children to become a Korean citizen. Some mothers did not give up the opportunity for the nationality of their children, and they ran to the Manila Embassy several times, but still did not get any response. Only a handful of men who returned to Korea paid for the children they abandoned, and many of them were in poor financial situation. Women can only choose to abandon their children. At present, more and more charitable organizations have appeared, reaching out to help this group of children without parents, providing them with education, and "tracking the roots" for them, teaching them Korean culture and etiquette.
If Han and the Philippines do not face this social problem squarely, I am afraid that irresponsible South Korean male scammers will only increase, and more and more Kopinos will be abandoned. In addition to setting up charitable organizations to help these children, the government must also start fundamentally. Start, strengthen sex education, and formulate policies to help these children and give them a normal living environment.
