A 9-year-old sister brought a 5-year-old brother to find a mother in a video. What is even more worrying is in the comment area.
A short video of a 9-year-old sister who took a 5-year-old brother to find a mother is popular on the Internet. These two children are like two emotionless reading machines. The same way I called my mother home to the camera (it was probably forced), the line was: "Other children have mothers by their side, do you want us? Mom, my brother and I miss you very much."
The video was taken by the child’s father, hoping to retrieve the child’s mother. However, the netizens' reaction to the incident was uncharacteristic. Not only were they not moved, they also told their mothers never to come back.
Why is the reaction of netizens uncharacteristically? This starts from why the mother of the child runs. According to the child's grandfather, he himself is currently unable to contact his daughter, nor does he know where she is. The reason why his daughter ran away was because his son-in-law Liu had beaten her daughter many times. His daughter also filed a divorce in the court last year, but was not approved. In this regard, Liu said that he had beaten his wife because of some family matters before, but he has changed now. As long as the wife can come back, he can write a letter of guarantee; the two children are still young and have always missed her, hoping that his wife can come back. Accompany your children to grow up.
The mother of the child was forced to run away because of her husband’s domestic violence and wanted to divorce but couldn’t leave. The reason why netizens hate domestic violence so deeply is probably because similar incidents often happen around them, but there is no better solution, and they feel that running is the best policy. How many domestic violence incidents are there in
? In the comment area, many netizens talked about the experience of domestic violence by people around them, which is really worrying.
has been subjected to domestic violence but can only choose to endure silently:
@深深的斤体: I met a girl before, and she married her baby when she was 16 years old. She was often beaten up with a black nose and swollen face. She asked her why she didn’t leave. Said that because every time after finishing the fight, the man would kneel down to admit his mistake and write the guarantee, hehe. She also ran by, but the man was cheeky and blocked her work unit, and would block her every day without going home.
@Work hard to make money and become a little rich woman: My aunt was abused by his husband, and she escaped to work, applied for a divorce, and couldn't leave. Then the man asked an intermediary to go to my grandfather's house and promised that he would not commit the crime again in the future. , My aunt went back, it was useless, nothing at all. The last time I went to my aunt’s house, I obviously felt that my aunt was afraid of her husband’s death. She took care of the two children alone at home and couldn’t leave.
has been run away directly by domestic violence:
@ messing around Liushen baby: My mother, a girlfriend, has been domestically abused for many years, her nose and swollen face are commonplace. Once her ribs were interrupted and she dragged her hair upstairs. She dragged her up, and had the injury report. She went to the court to sue for a divorce and called for half a year. Then the aunt just hid everywhere and didn't dare to let the man know where she lived.
also ran away and was persuaded to come back and was beaten harder:
@柳同学’s small composition: My neighbor’s woman ran and was persuaded by relatives to come back, but the beat was even harder and the humbler and humbler person who admitted his mistake made a mistake. The less hesitate, the more ruthless.
@幽谷笑佳人: We had a domestic violence derailed. The woman got divorced until the child got married. Her husband beat him to death and couldn’t leave. She ran away in the early morning and ran to ask relatives to drive her. When I went to the station, my relatives felt that the couple was fighting, and they persuaded her to go back without sending her. She said that I beg you and I was killed when I went back. The relatives refused to let her go, and they secretly called his husband. She went to a relative's house and took her away, but was beaten to death that night.
It’s no wonder that some netizens say that a child really can’t live without a mother, so this woman hurried to hide when she saw the news, otherwise the child might really have no mother at all.
Why do domestic violence incidents continue? In the past, Internet celebrity Yuya was domestically assaulted by his ex-boyfriend. Later, Ram was domestically assaulted. After the divorce, he was retaliated and burned to death. The above two are not ordinary people, but Internet celebrities, people with great influence on the Internet, the domestic violence incidents were exposed. And those housewives who are unknown? In particular, rural housewives who have no source of income are the group that suffers domestic violence but can only endure silently.
Because in many rural areas, many people persuade peace and do not persuade to leave, and even regard husbands beating their wives as a normal thing. One of my neighbours aunt, in her 50s, about the same age as my mother, is a grandmother, but she just ran away, and she didn’t want to return.Family. why? Because for a long time, she often suffered domestic violence from her drunk husband. Her face was bruised and her nose was swollen every other time, and once her husband used a knife to slash her, but the neighbors stopped her in time. After that time, she ran away, even if everyone persuaded her to come back, she would not return. She said that she didn't want anything on her face, and that life was the most important thing.
Why do men commit domestic violence to their wives? Probably it is to treat his wife as his own possession and appendage, rather than treat his wife as an independent person to respect. They vented their dissatisfaction and pressure on their wives, punching and kicking their wives like falling a water glass and kicking a table. Especially male chauvinists, they feel that their wives should listen to them. If their wives disobey them, no matter who is right or wrong, they can speak directly with their fists. Such domestic violence men are really terrifying.
Why do we need to be cautious about getting married, and more importantly, look at character, especially whether this person is kind or not? Because marrying the right person is heaven, and marrying a domestic violence man is hell. If you can't tell, for safety's sake, it is recommended that women practice fighting well before getting married.
