Love is an eternal mystery. In love, all our emotions and sorrows are so similar, but each person’s story is different.
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Have you ever thought about why you are in love? Are you happy now?
My best friend often quarrels with her boyfriend, so every time they quarrel, she runs over to me and complains to me. Complaining about how immature and considerate her boyfriend is, she kept talking and couldn't help crying every time.
I asked her why her unhappy relationship didn't end sooner, and why you must wrong yourself?
Her answer surprised me!
She said that I can’t stand my emotional window period
and even dare not imagine that when love stops, I can still adapt to the single life
The moment she said these things, in fact, I felt very sad for her. I even have a little sympathy for her.
A beautiful girl in her twenties, at an age when she should have laughed, she went to talk about such an unhappy relationship, was influenced by others, and even lost in a relationship that never stopped. As a girl should Some independent appearances.
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I don’t know how many people are like her now. Love has become something that must be carried in life. Even when you ask her where she likes each other, she can’t give a reason.
was just because she wanted to fall in love, she didn't dare to face those days of being alone, and at this time such a person just appeared by her side, and the relationship began in a hurry.
We have all seen news like this, so so so so unacceptable because of the boyfriend’s abandonment, so he planned to jump off the building to commit suicide, or in a public place, two people quarreled, and then broke up in anger.
We are all people who are hurt by our parents and friends who care about, but we live so embarrassedly. Don't you feel a trace of guilt?
When we leave another person, can we really not survive?
There are many people who are eager to get out of the singles in this era of our lives, so it should be pure and beautiful love, but its original meaning has been misunderstood, and the feelings are always decayed and deteriorated slowly while being easily started.
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So I especially admire those who live like a team by themselves. Love is a multiple choice question for them, not a mandatory question, or they never need to think about it. When
fell in love, they understood seriously that they didn't procrastinate or cry when they left.
Whether it is a single day or a two-person day, they always do not lose their authenticity, but they can advance and retreat freely.
Because we are all grown-ups, we all understand that no one will stay with us forever, parents will get old, friends will leave, lovers will split up.
So if you are not strong enough or independent enough, when everyone leaves you one day, what will you do?
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A person must first love himself, cultivate his appearance and personality, and then someone will be with him, and then someone will be willing to cherish you and give you a beautiful relationship.
And all I can think of about the relationship between us and love is that when we are alone, we can live well, and when we are two, we can live better.
hope you can know what you need in your heart, know how to advance and retreat, and know how to fight in this era when everyone is busy getting out of orders.
When you are single, you should not be impatient or radiant. We have to wait for love to come. When two people live clearly and truly, enjoy the company and happiness.
