would like to ask if you dare to be crazy about love like me, and love me like you said, what would you think? —— "Crazy for Love"
People who have a family cannot focus on marriage if their hearts cannot settle. Sometimes when I fall in love with someone outside of marriage, I thought I would stay with each other until the end, but the ending is probably not good. There are families who are still sad about the so-called love troubles, knowing that they can't be together, but still insist on going their own way. In the end, it is themselves who are injured.
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I only married my husband at the age of 28. I was in love for almost 4 years before getting married. I became pregnant soon after marriage. Due to physical reasons, I have been raising babies at home, and my husband is responsible Make money to support the family. After the baby was born, our lives have changed dramatically. There is no sense of romance and ritual in the past. I take care of the baby every day. He comes back late every day for overtime pay. The life of
lasted until the child was 3 years old, and after going to kindergarten, he picked up the child every day to take care of his food. In the eyes of others, I was a role model for a full-time mother. It was not until the child went to junior high school to live. . It may be that I have been busy these years and don't know what to do for a while. It was then that I realized that I hadn't been in contact with society for a long time, and my husband was no longer so caring about himself.
decided to change during that time, went to the gym to get a card, and took a little time every day to go to the gym. I met a man there who not only grew up in spirit, but also often helped people adjust their machines. I admired him very much. After contacting him, I learned that he also has a family. Later we became friends. Suddenly someone sent me a message telling me that he was moved by me. After receiving that text message, my heart couldn't calm down for a long time.
My heart beats violently when I think of him, but thinking of my family is a bit lost, I hesitate to know what to do, but I can be sure that I am also moved by him. After expressing my feelings, I pay attention to appearance. Not only do I learn to dress up, but I also feel more cheerful. In the gym, we work out and chat together, and eat together afterwards. This kind of day is very happy. And my life has a new direction.
Just when we were addicted to each other's tenderness, he had a problem. His wife seemed to be aware of something, so he took the initiative to cut contact with me and returned to the family. He said that he could not get a divorce because he wanted to give the child a complete home. I respected his decision, but since then, my mood has fallen to the bottom and I am depressed all day long.
Extramarital affairs are really good, but they are very painful when they are lost. Serious people often lose miserably. Sometimes looking at the chat records on the mobile phone will make you cry. My change caught the attention of my husband. Faced with the facts of extramarital affairs, I did not deny it. After a quarrel, we decided to divorce.
I moved out after the divorce, and it was also at this time that a physical problem was detected. Later I learned that because of my long-term anxiety and depression, my condition was very serious, and these bad emotions all came from that unbearable extramarital relationship. If you don't meet him, I believe that life is still good now, but there is no regret medicine in the world, and the consequences you have caused can only be borne silently.
After I got sick, I completely repented: an unbearable "extramarital relationship" not only ruined my 15-year marriage, but also overdrafted my health. The man who loved me back then returns to his family and lives in peace. How can he care about the rest of my life? If the relationship was rejected at that time, and the reason was let go and no longer entangled with each other, it would not be reduced to this point now.
In fact, extramarital love itself is a product of selfishness. When a person's vanity is satisfied, he will open his mouth like a lion and want to get more. If you don't control it at this time, you are likely to fall into it wholeheartedly and unable to extricate yourself. When you betray your feelings and accept another relationship, how can you ask the other person to give you true love?
Women who have a family really don’t blindly believe in love, there are really very few people who can promise and honor outside marriage. Marriage is not easy, cherish the current life, and the old age will not be too bleak.
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