Sometimes, it feels like a girl can talk to you very well, and she will come out generously when you ask her. You guess whether she is also interesting to you, so you confessed, and you are rejected. Which part of
went wrong? The little brothers were puzzled.
This is indeed a headache, and it's quite embarrassing to accidentally misunderstand it.
So today I will give you an analysis, what kind of performance girls treat you like a brother, and what kind of behavior really likes you.
masters these 4 points, and carefully appreciate the careful thoughts of girls, maybe you will be the next one to leave the order. The status of
chatting
with friends, and with the people you like, it definitely feels different.
First of all, it is more relaxing to be with friends. If you want to say what you want to say, you can spit out and laugh together without image. Even if Ge Youtan feels nothing in front of them.
But being with the person you like is different. I am afraid that it will make her disgusted by talking too much, and I am afraid that if you don't say enough, she will miss your mind. Alas, it's really difficult. Do all
brothers have a deep understanding?
In fact, girls' minds are more delicate, so when they chat with boys, they can often see a lot of things from their state and tone.
Of course, girls have different personalities and performances will be much different, but they always have something in common.
Girls with outgoing personality may be able to play very openly in front of friends, but they will converge a lot when they see those who are truly emotional.
They are also nervous and shy. If you stare at her, she may pretend not to know, but when she says something, her brain is short-circuited and she doesn’t know what she’s talking about. In fact, they’re just shy and don’t want to let her. You find out. Do not believe you try.
But when they treat their brothers, they are careless, looking at each other for 30 seconds without flinching, and chatting without obscurity, or even exposing them without disguising. If you stare at her, she will probably give you a straight look: "What are you looking at?"
is an introverted girl, not to mention, chatting with friends will be more relaxed, not holding, but generally not Will play a very excessive joke.
is more difficult for them to let go in front of the people they like. They don't have a lot of words. At this time, they will be more shy when they talk. Even if they try to pretend to be calm, they will be more restrained, rubbing hands, picking nails, and even dare not look into your eyes. But because she likes you, it can be seen that she is still very happy.
Attitude to talk about emotional problems
Most boys and girls can't escape the topic of emotion in chat, right? Maybe it's hormones?
either seriously asked: "How many have you talked about before?" "What kind of guy do you like?"
either pretended to ask casually: "When everyone was talking about your ex just now, I felt that you were not very happy. , What's wrong, did you think of something unhappy?"
Generally speaking, if a girl treats you as a brother, she can talk freely. What unforgettable memories and unhappy things have happened? , She wouldn't mind telling you. She doesn't care what you think anyway.
However, if a girl likes you, she will not easily expose too much when faced with these problems. Because she doesn't know which sentence will leave a handle for herself, and create a gap in your heart. This is not what she wants to see.
But as for the emotional experience of boys, their minds can be said to be very contradictory. What's the matter?
If a girl likes you, on the one hand, they will be very curious about your love history, especially want to know what you have experienced with your ex, why you broke up, what kind of girl do you like, will not It would be her, who would mind blabla more about the characteristics of girls.
On the other hand, she doesn't want you to talk about other girls too much. If you really hear you talk about other girls, especially praise, you will be very jealous and feel that you still have not forgotten them.
So if you find that a girl is not in the right mood, you should have a score in your heart. She cares about you.
If girls just treat you as a brother, cough cough, know that no matter how beautiful a face is, they can't stop them from having a gossip heart.
what she will do to youWhen I started to fall in love, talked about a few paragraphs, what did I do, what thoughts, etc., etc., all of which are in full swing. Then I didn't forget to tease you mercilessly, and help you out by the way.
Reactions during physical contact
Physical contact is an important catalyst for the further development of the relationship.
Speaking of this, I heard that a man's head is not willing to be touched casually. If a boy allows you to touch his hair, it means that he likes you.
Then let me tell you that when a girl likes a person, she actually releases a signal through certain physical contact.
Of course, you have to understand what these signals mean.
If she just treats you as a brother, then her physical contact with you is limited to daily jokes. There are also some girls, if they do not like you, even if they are good friends, they will not have any physical contact.
And if girls don't like you, and you initiate physical contact, they will avoid them, even if they just touch their arms.
On the contrary, if girls like you, they will not dislike or avoid your touch, and even take the initiative to attack, such as occasionally and inadvertently touching their arms, pulling sleeves, patting the shoulders, pretending to be inadvertently led Just letting go of your hand and so on, it won't be too intimate, and it's extra ambiguous.
Secretly take a look at their expressions at this time, maybe you can feel their shyness with a little bit of joy!
Dress up when meeting
For boys and girls who have not yet determined their relationship, if they are to meet the person they like, they will definitely dress up exquisitely.
However, there are exceptions. For example, she is a very exquisite girl, and she has to put on makeup when she goes out to take out the trash, and she must dress beautifully on weekends even if there is no date. Then she is just accustomed to being refined when she sees you.
So, the little guys still have to observe girls' daily habits. When
is in place, you will find that the benefits are great. For example, a girl usually doesn't wear makeup, but when she sees you, she puts on makeup. Then you can easily judge that your meaning in her heart is different.
Then if you are the one who can come to see her without washing her hair or putting on makeup, or she treats you as a good brother, even if she exposes her ugliest appearance, she is not afraid of you dislike it. Either it really doesn't feel to you.
Sometimes, I really feel that the relationship between boys and girls is quite wonderful and interesting. Many small emotions and micro expressions imply affection.
Don’t you always say that girls don’t take the initiative? In fact, this is how people take the initiative. However, most girls are still relatively shy. It may be difficult for her to say "I like you" clearly, so when you find that girls have the above When performing these performances, you must follow the steps and take the initiative a little bit.
If you catch these hints, you can fall into a sweet relationship. If you can't catch it, the girl might mistake you for her.
So, my little brothers, learn more about the psychological analysis methods of girls, and you can really get out of the order earlier.
If you don't believe me, follow Brother Chen and see if I can help you get out of the order.
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