Author: psychological Lo
opening four first-come, poison chicken soup.
1. The man who loves you will not care about you, and the man who cares about you must not be a man.
2, a man who loves me should coax me, otherwise he just doesn't love me.
3, women are used to coax.
4. A man who can't coax a woman is not a man.
himself also invented a poisonous chicken soup here on the spot: a woman should be offered by a man at home, otherwise this man will not love you 100%.
The above few sentences of poisonous chicken soup, if you look at it, it seems that there is a bit of truth, but if you really think that the above poisonous chicken soup is the truth, then congratulations, you have been brainwashed, your feelings will not go well, do not believe you You can try.
First of all, let's use the topic of "coaxing" to use psychological analysis.
Many women think that men should coax them. If they don’t coax, they don’t love me, or have such thoughts, you should coax me if you are my boyfriend.
or many women find boyfriends for the purpose of being spoiled and coaxed, then you are really wrong, and you are easy to meet scumbags.
why? Because the scumbag doesn't want to live with you all his life, he just wants to play with you, their logical thinking is like this.
I don’t need to reason with you. If you are angry, he will come to coax you. If you make trouble or lose your temper, he will endure it. No matter what you do or make trouble, he will follow you and make you feel this man is gentle Thoughtful and generous, it also makes you feel like you have found the right man.
is just because people want to play with you, so there is no need to reason with you, and there is no need to entangle you with the right and wrong of the problem, just coax you, and then make you accustomed to a princess disease patient, that’s where At that time, they had enough with you, and then kicked you off, whoever you love takes the plate.
Then this man continues to use the same method to find the next target, and so on, a vicious circle, facing the scumbag's obedience, many women have no resistance.
and you? After being used to princess disease by the last scumbag, when you look for the next home, if he is not a scumbag, no one can stand your princess disease, no one can stand your unreasonable troubles. After
finally quarreled with you, you blamed others for having a bad temper, not loving you enough, and not tolerant enough. At this moment, you think of the last scumbag, and you still think in your heart, if the current incumbent can coax me like the last one Up.
As a result, you kicked the incumbent and wanted to find a man who coaxed you generously, and then you were taken in by the next scumbag, and kicked you again after getting tired, a vicious circle, and then you began to not believe in love, Said that men do not have a good thing.
You start to complain, why is coaxing my men so scumbags, and good men are so small-minded?
If you think like this, you are over and you are poisoned, I suggest you go to pray for Guanyin Bodhisattva, Amen, Amitabha, I hope you can meet a man who can coax you not to be scumbag, not stingy, and doesn't care about you.
Let’s talk about the topic below. If you want to be happy and not suffering, don’t find a man who coaxes you everywhere. I say this naturally and it makes sense. Coaxing you everywhere means that something is abnormal and there must be a demon. You think it is possible ?
see clearly, it's a man coaxing you everywhere, some people don't want to go online. Why does
say that? See below.
Because the men who want to live with you all their lives, they can't coax you everywhere, because there is no man who is willing to live with a woman who has a princess disease all his life. If you are a man, would you?
Of course, the point of this article is not to say that it is wrong for a man to coax a woman, but to coax you and apologize. People are willing to grow old with such people.
Here are two important points!
Key point 1. When men reason with you and care about you, it must be because you have encountered a contradiction that cannot be solved, so their reasoning is aimed at solving the problem, because they know that only the problem is solved. You can be long, this is going for a lifetime.
and you are arrogant and unreasonable, let him coax you, even ifHe coaxed you out, but the problem is not solved. When the unsolved problems accumulate, you will definitely get a divorce or break up in the end. I believe you definitely don't want this.
Therefore, in this regard, it is recommended that women should properly put away their mentality. When facing difficult problems, they should solve contradictions based on the problem. Don't be emotional. Even a real princess can be devalued as a maid, not to mention you. Not yet a princess.
Or, when the man coaxes you, you have to take the initiative to lower your head and cooperate with the other party to solve the problem. If you can’t lower your head that you think is expensive, then if I haven’t said it, he won’t leave within three years. You, count me lose! ! !
Many times, a woman can lower her head to coax a man once, and he will cherish you desperately and be more confident to follow you. Of course, the premise is that he is not a scumbag. The core of the first article of
is that a man who wants to live with you for the rest of his life will definitely not coax you everywhere, but actively solve problems, because they know that only when the problem is solved can he go on.
Therefore, if a woman wants to be happy, she must have great wisdom and bow her head appropriately. It is not softness, but a kind of love! And if your man doesn't love you, how can he bow his head again and again, but you should not rely on him to love you and act against him, otherwise you will be asking for trouble.
Key points 2, If the other party is tolerating you everywhere, coaxing you everywhere, never reasoning with you, making you extremely comfortable, then the other party must approach you purposefully.
Because they have never considered spending a lifetime with you, they just coax you and it's over. There is no need to reason with you, no need to resolve conflicts, just bear it, but when they have enough with you, they will not hesitate Abandon you, shoot for another place, and continue to make others repeat the same mistakes.
So you have to be careful with this aspect. If this man makes you too comfortable, you have to pay attention. If something goes wrong, there will be demons. Don’t have a fluke. Think about it, everyone is different. Growing up in a family environment, everyone has different three views, how can he make you feel good everywhere?
Maybe your emotional pain is because you met such a man, that's why you are piercing your heart, and you are still thinking about them when you are dumped. So, if you want your relationship to be painless, don’t find someone to coax you everywhere. Man.
Another possibility is that if the other party is not approaching you purposefully, then it must be worse than you everywhere, income is not as good as you, family conditions are not as good as you, so you have to swallow your breath because of him. Only in this way can this relationship be retained.
But when you are out of luck, or when they are soaring, you have to be careful. They will find all the grievances that have been received within a few years, and vent them all to you.
Therefore, don’t think that coaxing you means loving you. The essence of coaxing you is to cover up the problem. You think coaxing you is true love. In fact, coaxing you is just to confuse the mud. They cover up temporary problems, but they contribute to your life’s problems. Is hurting you.
Let’s put it this way, if my girlfriend makes an irrelevant little mistake, I can just open my eyes and close my eyes and coax, but if there is a problem of principle, you must reason with me and want me to coax you. ? That does not exist.
Unless I plan to dump you, or I am not ready to marry you at the beginning, I will coax you in a short time because I don’t need to spend my whole life with you, nor do I need to reason with you. If I find the next home, you'll be bye.
said in the end, the man who coaxes you everywhere, that is not love, that is malignant tumor!
To give another example, if someone else’s child is sick, you may be indifferent to coaxing, oh, it’s okay, you don’t need an injection for a while.
But when your child has a fever of more than 40 degrees, can you coax it? I guess you have to force your child to get an injection on the ground.
This is the difference between coaxing and love. Ladies, wake up. You have to be prepared to be dumped because the other person likes you to do whatever you want. Don't think that the other person can't do without you. Maybe, when you read this article At the time, the other party has already planned to leave you.
said in the end, don't be deceived by hypocritical politeness and coaxing you everywhere, because such people are not responsible for your future life at all.
This is a high-level scum man. He has a deep ethics and makes you think he is a good man. In the end, he is dumped but feels wrong. Then he dumps you, and you payI miss the big measure of others and the feeling of holding you in the palm of my hand. I don't know that you have been ruined by the other party.
Quotations from a scumbag man: I have been in the bushes of thousands of flowers without touching my body, so that every woman who has been in contact hates him and misses him.
Alright, I will write here today. After I have 10,000 fans, I will write a set of columns. There are more than 20-30 chapters. Those about broken relationships are full of the essence, so stay tuned.
