Women love "scumbags", men love "scumbags", and the remaining "straight guys" and "straight girls" don't look down on each other, and stay where they are. This is the current state of the emotional world.
Some male friends will ask me, why do women like "scumbags" so much? Can't they see that this man is not reliable at all? The answer to
is: of course you can see it! It's just that "Scumbag" is too fragrant. When asking this question, thought about his own situation in turn. Isn't it a "scumbag" who can talk and dress up that he likes?
In fact, whether "scumbags" or "scumbags", what everyone likes is not the "scum" that the public thinks, but the characteristics of them that attract themselves. For men, the four characteristics of "scum girls" are much better than "straight girls".
The first trait: the "sense of the past" after experiencing many things.
Men like women with connotations. This connotation is not necessarily just knowledge, but also represents the person's experience. Zhang Ailing wrote in "Love in the Fallen City": "Your temperament hides the path you have walked, the books you have read and the people you love."
scum girls can do "a life in the bushes "It's not unreasonable. They can not only read books, but also know how to improve their temperament. There are some scumbags, as long as they sit there without saying anything, they have a sense of "story" that they have experienced many things. People can't help but want to get closer and learn more about her past.
"Senior scumbags" often don't chat like little girls, and they don't ask for warmth. She will use her temperament and storytelling to attract others to care for her.
They are usually over 25 years old, intellectually mature, relatively stable, and do not have too much impetuous temperament. The calmness of comes from self-confidence, but also from experience routines: I have experienced more emotions, and of course I can bear little attention to the big and small things in the relationship.
is also this kind of faint temperament, which arouses the "desire to conquer" of men : If such a woman can fall in love with herself, it is undoubtedly a success. But the result is often that these men fell one by one and were "raided" by the reverse. The second trait of
: knows the psychology of men well, knows when to say what to say
scum girls, and usually knows the psychology of men very well. They understand what men want to do at certain moments, and they know how to protect their own interests to agree or refuse.
They will not let men "roll" directly, and then delete a set of procedures. They will change the subject in a very clever way, and at the same time set their own views for the man in their hearts: they can try to be together, or never have a chance.
Scum women can stay together unless they meet men. They are quite good at choosing. If the other party does not meet their own standards, they will not even have the chance to be "scum". The same goes for
. If scumbags fall in love with a man, she will catch it more easily than "straight girls". They will not chase each other to the point where they have no self, and they usually don't pay any monetary sacrifices.
They are better at starting from the psychological, speaking to relieve him when he needs to be comforted, showing up when he needs company, and not making noise or participating directly when he is playing games.
The third characteristic: pay attention to your own image, can dress up
interesting soul is important, but the reality is that if you do not have a good-looking skin, few people are willing to touch your interesting soul. The straight girls of
are also cute girls, but compared to "scum girls", they are not so good at dressing themselves, and they are not very good at matching with men's preferences. Z8z straight women prefer to wear clothes according to their own style, loose-fitting sweaters or masculine shirts with short sleeves. Z9z
scum girls may not be as fashionable as straight girls, but it must be the style that men like . Or clean and elegant, or the girl next door. Regardless of these clothes, there is one common feature: feminine.
The fourth trait: Appropriately weak and appropriately strong
They don’t make the relationship between themselves and others too stiff, the real "scum girls" are not onlyPopular among men, but also popular among women.
and their emotional intelligence will generally be higher, is not blindly pretending to be weak in front of men, this is out of date. They know when to show weakness and when to show their own strength, so as to leave enough face for men without making them annoying.
These qualities are easier said than done, so to satisfy all the ideas of men, you have to sacrifice specificity. When chasing a "good" woman, think about your position. I'm so good, can I catch such a good girl? If
doesn't have one, be prepared to be dumped. On the contrary, if you are good enough, you will not care much about each other's conditions, but turn to seek a soul mate. If there is, it is good. If not, I will not force it. Instead of going to various social platforms to find the love of "excellent scumbags".
