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01
Mention Audrey Hepburn, we always think of a word: perfect.
Indeed, amazing beauty, extraordinary talent, temperament, kindness, eye-catching, like an angel.
The appearance of Audrey Hepburn gave birth to a group of supporters, many women aspire to be her.
Recently, I reviewed the life of Audrey Hepburn and found that Audrey Hepburn was not perfect at all.
Behind the exquisite appearance is a scarred heart and a devastated love path.
For Audrey Hepburn, she yearns for a happy family more than the halo on her head. On the road to pursuing happiness, she suffered no less than anyone else.
Hepburn’s first husband is Meir, a third- and fourth-line actor, has three marriages, several children, and is 15 years older than Hepburn.
Everyone is not optimistic about their love affair, after all, Meir's name is outside, and Hepburn at that time became popular with "Roman Holiday".
According to Hepburn's conditions, it is perfectly possible to find a man of the same age and better reputation, but she is obsessed with Meir.
After the two got married, Hepburn was immersed in the fantasy of happiness. She thought she had found a place to stay. As everyone knows, behind Meir's decent, there is a twisted heart hidden.
He has a strong desire to control Hepburn, he has to intervene in everything from food, clothing, housing to work. Hepburn could not stand such control, but it was useless to fight. Meir simply ignored Hepburn's feelings.
In those days, Hepburn was so thin that he was out of phase. What made her even more unbearable was that Meir edited her script and spoke in place of Hepburn at the event. For a while, Hepburn was not Meir's wife, but his puppet.
Not only that, Hepburn's career is booming, making Meir's heart unbalanced, and he tries to belittle Hepburn to fill the gap in his heart.
Hepburn cherishes this marriage too much. In order to make Meir feel comfortable, she gave up her career and returned to the family, eager to have children.
Indeed, Hepburn likes children very much, but she has pregnant with 4 children for Meir and 3 of them have miscarried. When she was pregnant with her fourth child, she was already an advanced mother, and the process was difficult and suffering.
But Meir didn't feel sorry for Hepburn at all, and there was an extramarital affair at this time.
After giving birth to a child, Hepburn finally wakes up. She understands that there is no possibility of happiness in this marriage.
Get divorced and go away.
02
Hepburn met Dotti with scars all over her body, and started her second marriage life. Dottie is a psychiatrist who brought a lot of enlightenment and comfort to Hepburn after the divorce.
Dotty is 9 years younger than Hepburn. He is a fan of Hepburn. When he was very young, he vowed to marry Hepburn as his wife. In the end, his dream came true. It was a dream story.
Doty understands women's hearts very well, and it only takes 15 days for Hepburn to agree to his marriage proposal.
That period of time was romantic, and Dotty was a perfect lover, which made Hepburn lose his mind.
Soon after marriage, Dotti gradually revealed his true colors.
He circulates around different women, the peach-colored news is flying all over the sky, and Hepburn is also pushed to the forefront again and again.
Over time, Hepburn could no longer stand Doty’s mercy. She filed for a divorce, but Doty refused and tried to save it. Hepburn relented and promised to give him another chance.
I thought Doty would repent, but soon he returned to his original life. What's more, Dottie brought her mistress home. Heartbroken, Hepburn ended this painful marriage.
Hepburn is the goddess in everyone's minds, but her desire for family is the same as that of ordinary women, she wants a husband to be personally posted, and a few lovely children.
If possible, she is willing to put aside her career and focus on family, but even such a simple wish has not been realized.
03
Hepburn’s bumpy love road is distressing, and countless people are asking, why? This starts with Hepburn’s native family. Hepburn is a descendant of aristocracy and has the blood of four countries.
An enviable background, but has not been stable for several years.
When he was 6 years old, his father left and the family broke up. This is why Hepburn will fall in love with Meir who is 15 years older than him. Lack of fatherly love, wanting to make up for the lover, but it is a nightmare after all.
When Hepburn was 10 years old, he was framed and killed her uncle, and his two brothers had a bad life.
At the age of 19, the ballet dancer’s dream was also broken. Hepburn's youth was drifted away and lost again and again, leaving her extremely insecure and self-confident.
These are all shown in her marriage.
Both marriages encountered scumbag men, and the fame, fortune and status of the other party were not as good as their own. Obviously, Hepburn lacks self-confidence in his heart and dare not seek upwards. It seems easier to control if he is not as good as himself.
When there is a problem in the marriage, she will always be the one who bowed her head and saved her. Meir and Dotty made mistakes time and time again, and Hepburn tried to forgive because she was too afraid of the taste of loss. After
and Meir divorced, she once reflected on herself, thinking that she spent too much time and energy on work that led to the breakdown of the marriage. You see, even if the other party makes more mistakes, she still blames all the faults on herself.
With Doty, Hepburn even gave up his career for a while in order to stop him from getting into trouble. However, Hepburn's low profile and humbleness only got hurt.
04
Everyone says Hepburn is perfect. In fact, perfection is just an illusion given to her by the public. There is no absolute perfection in this world. Behind all perfections are scars that you can't see.
Hepburn left many classic works and stories to the world, but her life was bumpy. Two marriages were cheated on several times, where did she lose?
Maybe she lost since she was born. The injuries brought by those native families and the shackles brought by the times have left countless scars on her soul.
Even if she created her own position in the entertainment industry by her own strength, she could not make up for her inner trauma.
Really don't need to envy Hepburn, the real Hepburn is not always exquisite and elegant, and she has had moments of embarrassment.
From another perspective, Hepburn does not need perfection at all. Every woman does not need perfection. Reality is more valuable than perfection.
Don’t say that Hepburn’s perfect person design collapses, let alone a country that is all over the country but suffers from marriage, What did she do wrong?
Maybe Hepburn did nothing wrong, but love and be loved are homework that each of us must learn.
The terrible thing is not falling in love, the terrible thing is that you can never get up again.
Hepburn found true love in his later years, and insisted on doing charity, and finally fulfilled his life.
Although Hepburn is not perfect, he has lived a true and wonderful life.
May you and I still feel that the world is worthwhile after a thousand sails.
END.
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