My parents have told me many times that my boyfriend Li Hua is not a person worth trusting for life, but I am still deceived by his sweet words.
did not listen to his parents and promoted him and helped him in his career. Now that he is in a high position, I realize that he is really not a person worth trusting.
We have been together for three years on this day. On this day, my boyfriend took me back to his house to meet his parents.
I was a little excited when I came to visit my parents for the first time, because I really like the boy’s parents.
I got up early that day and dressed up carefully. I wore decent clothes without anything inappropriate. I bought a lot of gifts when I went there.
We originally agreed that we must arrive at Li Hua's parents' house before 12 noon, but Li Hua came to pick me up at 12:30.
This made me very angry, and I said, "Since I am going to see my elders, it is a very important thing, how can I put it off?"
Li Hua smoked lazily and said helplessly, "It's not a big deal, they don't know, so let's go!"
Hearing what Li Hua said, it was useless for me to make trouble any more, so I could only get in the car and come to his house.
His family is fairly well off. He just bought a villa a year ago and his parents live here.
When we walked in, Li Hua's mother received me warmly. His father was a taciturn person, and Li Hua had mentioned it to me once before.
I didn't pay much attention, I just chatted with him occasionally. After we had a pleasant meal together, I gave the gift to Li Hua's parents.
Li Hua's mother was very happy and said that I was a beautiful and sensible girl. After receiving the gift, Li Hua's father said that he liked it very much and walked aside to smoke.
At this time, Li Hua's mother asked me, "My child, how old are you this year? Who else is there in the family?"
I politely replied: "Auntie, I am the only daughter in my family. I am 27 years old, one year older than Li Hua."
After hearing this, I was one year older than Li Hua, and I could see a hint of unhappiness on Li Hua's mother's face.
But she didn't show it, but smiled slightly to resolve the embarrassment.
At this time, Li Hua came over and handed me a cigarette. I took it. This move shocked Li Hua's mother.
asked me in disbelief, "Do you also smoke?"
I took the cigarette and pinched it in my hand, and answered honestly: "Auntie, I can smoke."
It seemed like a very ordinary answer, but it made Li Hua's mother's face completely change, and she looked at me with a livid face.
then began to say in an educational tone: "How can a girl smoke? Smoking is only for boys. This is too shameful. Smoking is not good for the body. It will also be bad for the child if I give birth to a child in the future."
After hearing her words, I didn't know where to put the cigarette in my hand.
I didn't know how to answer, but Li Hua just stood aside indifferently and didn't speak. I could only use a smile to resolve the embarrassment.
But Li Hua’s mother continued: “We girls should be gentle and considerate, don’t smoke or drink, and it’s best to stay at home to support your husband and raise your children. In the future, when you and Li Hua get married, you won’t be able to smoke, and you have to go to work, so you can stay at home peacefully. "Take care of him!"
I told Li Hua's mother: "Auntie, I am a doctor and I am in a senior position with a good salary. I will not resign."
I said what I thought. I had no intention of lying. After all, my thoughts represented my sincerity.
"You girl is really ignorant. Even though she is one year older than my son, you still smoke and you are not willing to take care of her after getting married. How come you can ride on his head even though you are one year older than him?"
Hearing her annoyed words, I smiled lightly and said, "Auntie, I don't have this idea. Modern society is very free. Girls smoking and drinking does not mean that they have bad character.
Before I finished speaking, Li Hua's mother said angrily: "What kind of woman is a girl who smokes and drinks every home? Those are men's things. How did your parents teach you?" "
When I heard this, I lost the smile on my face. I said I can do it, but my parents can't. My upbringing is related to my parents' face.
Speaking of girls smoking, I know there are very few. After all, this kind of thing is more common among boys, but I don't think it is a very shameful thing for me to smoke.
After all, I It's just that when I'm worried and depressed, I occasionally smoke one to relieve the depression in my heart.
Sometimes because your boring and stressful life is over, I will light up a cigarette after returning home and taking a shower, but this will not affect the professionalism of my work.
"Auntie, if there is nothing else, I will leave first. I suddenly remembered that the door of my house was not closed. "
After I finished speaking, I took a few bags and turned around to leave without saying a word. I couldn't stay any longer.
My boyfriend Li Hua's indifference and indifference made me feel on pins and needles. I felt like I was an outsider, fighting alone.
When I got home, I washed my face, relaxed my mood, took out my mobile phone and broke up with Li Hua.
I have also seen through Li Hua in the past three years. He has been ignoring me since he was promoted. My parents told me before that Li Hua might just be interested in my background.
I still don’t believe it, but after more than a year, I completely understand the changes in his mother. He never thought that his family would introduce me.
The hospital where I work is. It's a private hospital. All my relatives work in this hospital, and I have a very high status in the hospital.
After I proposed to break up with Li Hua, Li Hua's career did not go smoothly. He was originally lacking in ability, and sitting in this position must have made many people dissatisfied.
Later, he really left this hospital, and his salary and benefits were not as good as before. Li Hua came to see me twice after we broke up.
But I refused to get back together. Li Hua’s mother regretted it after hearing about it, saying that her son was fine just because I had caused misery.
What I really want to say to them is that gold will shine everywhere, and truly capable people will be valued wherever they are.
