What does it feel like to fall in love with someone? What's the taste like?
No one can tell clearly.
Because in everyone has his own ideal love in his heart.
But one thing is for sure.
When we really fall in love with someone, we will review his or her appearance in our hearts from time to time, stroke by stroke, and outline it carefully, but we always cannot grasp the intensity of it, because when we fall in love with someone, our hearts are filled with nervous joy.
When you are not sure whether you have fallen in love with the other person, think back to see if you have the following symptoms.
If there is, it means you have fallen in love with him.
1. I will always miss him (her) unconsciously
I will miss you unconsciously. When I can’t see you, all I think about is you. When I see you, I am as happy as a child.
When a person finds that he is thinking about the other person all day long, it is him when he is eating, it is him when he is sleeping, he has no interest in doing anything, he only thinks about him, and even his shadow is in his dreams.
Then, you have fallen in love with him (her).
The sign of falling in love with someone is actually very simple, that is, missing him/her when you can't see the other person. Once you can't contact the other person, you feel like you have lost something in your life.
2. Showing low self-esteem in front of him/her, always trying to show the best of yourself
There is a line in "The Normal Heart" that accurately says "Because Because I like you, I feel inferior." This line means: "Because you are so perfect, it took a lot of effort for me to meet you, and I am afraid that I am not good enough for you."
When we like someone, something similar to p-picture software will appear in our minds.
And the person you like in your eyes is what he looks like after a filter. His advantages will be magnified to infinity, and his shortcomings will have been smoothed away until they are invisible.
Because our love gives that person the halo of the protagonist.
Therefore, when we fall in love with someone, we will always feel that this person is perfect, and we will even weigh ourselves over and over again in our hearts, fearing that we are not worthy of such a good person, and then we will become very inferior.
Every time I go to see him (her), I dress myself up carefully, always wanting to show my most perfect side.
3. Have a strong possessiveness and like to be jealous for him (her)
There is a particularly wonderful emotion in relationships, that is, being jealous for the person you love.
Because you love someone, you get jealous.
Jealous because he (she) talks to the opposite sex, and jealous because he (she) looks at other members of the opposite sex.
When you fall in love with someone, you will treat him (her) as your own in your heart. As long as someone of the opposite sex talks to him (her), you will feel jealous for no reason.
You are disgusted that he is too close to other people of the opposite sex, and you are extremely eager to get all his or her attention.
Obviously, you have fallen in love with him (her).
4. I like to inquire about everything about him (her), and I also like to share my own things with him (her) as soon as possible.
You will pay attention to all his (her) dynamics, secretly save every photo of him (her), and even every post he (she) posts in the circle of friends. You will like the things he (she) likes and see the scenery he (she) has seen.
In addition to paying attention to him (her), you prefer to share your story with him (her), hoping to deepen the relationship with each other through communication.
is like: From the first moment I saw you, I already regarded you as a part of my life.
If you have these symptoms, it means that you have fallen in love with the other person.
If you love someone, you must tell him/her.
is not to get him (her), nor to impress him (her).
But in the most beautiful years, don’t let yourself have any regrets.
Just in case, the person I like happens to like me too!
Go ahead and tell him (her) that I fall in love with you.
I want to accompany you for the rest of my life.
Author: Xiao Xiao
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