I believe that every girl in love has this idea, longing to be the white moonlight in a boy's heart, just like He Yichen did to Zhao Mosheng in "Why is the Flute Silent"? Even if they haven't seen each other for many years, they still have a crush on her.
However, reality is not a novel. Many girls have this feeling. They have paid a lot in love, but got nothing in the end. And some girls, even though they have done nothing, make men miss them for a lifetime. What is the difference between the two?
We can often see girls on the Internet complaining that their boyfriends are obsessed with their ex-girlfriends. It seems that most boys have the trait of being nostalgic, but girls are much better at this point.
After ending a relationship, most girls will gradually come out of the pain and leave their ex behind after dating their next boyfriend. Boys are different. Even if they have new girlfriends, they will still have exes from time to time, which makes many current girlfriends jealous.
Looking at the girls that boys can never forget, it is not difficult to find that they all have a common trait, that is, they no longer have it. The reason why they miss their ex is just because they once experienced the beauty of being with their ex, but now they find that they no longer have it. It's like you once tasted a special dish and now you can't have it again.
At this time, even if you encounter more delicious food, you will still feel unhappy. Human nature is like this, you no longer cherish what you get, and when you lose it, you start to miss it again. As Eason Chan said in the song: "If you don't get what you want, you will always be in commotion, and if you are favored, you will feel confident."
Many people say that men can never forget their first love, and there is indeed some truth to this statement. The reason why they miss their first love is not because of how beautiful, temperamental, gentle, and considerate their first girlfriend was... but because first love carries so many beautiful meanings. When you are with your first love, it is the first impulse in your heart and the purest love.
For the boys at that time, they had not yet grown up and had not yet put on the mask of a mature man, and the girls they met at that time were not as realistic and material as the girls they met in the future. At that time, falling in love was just falling in love, and they did not need to consider the future or reality. At that time, a lollipop or a flower was enough to make the girl happy.
It was precisely because of my immaturity at that time that my first love became my first love. Love in adulthood is mixed with too many realistic things. In fact, what men really miss is not their first love, but the youthful love. This feeling depends on the environment at that time.
In addition to first love, there is also a kind of woman that men can never forget. Perhaps it is an ex who has an unforgettable experience, or a friend who has been secretly in love for many years but can never be together. And this confirms what we often say, "What you can't get is the best."
If you find that your partner has an ex that you can't forget, don't rush to get angry with him, because it is very likely that he doesn't know who he likes. Instead of being angry about these things, it is better to live happily every day and leave more beautiful memories in each other's lives.
