A blogger in Zhengzhou is planning to divorce her husband.
Her husband's business failed and he secretly gave 200,000 yuan to his hometown behind her back to help his brother buy a house and find a wife.
She was very angry. First of all, her life was not easy. In the past two years, her business had been poor, and she was mostly losing money. Her savings had been emptied, and she still owed hundreds of thousands in materials.
Secondly, her husband didn't respect her. He gave her such a large sum of money without even discussing it. He didn't know how to respect her at all.
The husband said: " If I discuss it with you, will you agree?"
"I won't agree. I can give you 50,000 at most. You are the eldest brother, and it is the parents-in-law's business to help the younger brother start a family."
"That's right, I don't want to quarrel with you. , The money must be paid anyway, I am just a brother, I can't help him when he is in trouble."
The couple's thinking was not on the same page at all. The woman was very angry. She asked for a divorce. Thinking of her husband's insistence, she couldn't sleep all night, so she simply got up and went out for a walk.
Her home is very close to the Traditional Chinese Medicine Hospital, just across the street. The woman walked along the street lights and arrived at the gate of the Traditional Chinese Medicine Hospital. She found that the outpatient clinic was brightly lit.
A woman got out of the car, ran inside with her child in her arms, and shouted as she walked: "Doctor, help me, the child has a high fever and is convulsing, and has vomited all the milk he drank. Someone come here quickly."
A nurse ran over and led the woman into the emergency room . Their rapid pace touched the woman's heart. She would not forget that she also encountered a similar thing 2 years ago.
That time, my husband drank liquor and beer together to socialize. When he drank too much, he vomited it out. He returned to the dining table and continued drinking. He didn't take the order, but drank himself.
After receiving a call from a friend, the woman rushed to the door of the hospital, and the ambulance that happened to pick up her husband arrived. She chased the cart and kept calling her husband's name. After the doctor rescued her, he told her that fortunately, he was delivered in time. If it had been a little longer, he would not have been saved.
My husband stayed in the hospital for half a month and was transferred from ICU to the general ward. The woman was by his side all the time. He was also so anxious at night. If he couldn't sleep, he would stand at the window and watch the people coming and going in the hospital's outpatient department.
Everyone who runs into the clinic has someone they care about lying down.
At the moment of life and death, people will forget all conflicts and only care about each other's body.
While the woman was standing on the side of the road in a daze, 4 ambulances drove out and 2 ambulances drove back. In one of the ambulances was an old man, followed by a girl, who kept shouting: " Dad, Dad, you must hold on, I'm not married yet. You said you wanted to see me in a wedding dress, Dad!"
It's heart-wrenching. If you feel too tired, go to the clinic at four o'clock in the morning, and you can understand 4 truths about life.
1. In the face of disease, everyone is equal. After
was released, many friends around me became positive.
Whether you are in Beijing or Zhengzhou, or in a rural area or a city, we are all facing the same dilemma, that is, how to protect ourselves and avoid being affected by the "tsunami" of this wave of viruses and .
Some people think that people living in villa areas may be better off. After all, they have fewer contacts and have a higher safety index.
In fact, living in a villa area cannot be avoided. My boss lives in a villa. All six members of his family are sick. On the contrary, a colleague lives in an apartment and is fine for the time being.
This incident tells us that everyone is equal before disease. No matter you are a rich man or an ordinary person, your experience is the same.
If you are Yang, then the pain will be the same, and it will not be lessened just because you are rich. The host Tu Lei sent a message, with a piece of cloth covering his forehead, feebly reminding everyone not to take a bath. He took a bath and his condition worsened.
It’s really realistic. We ordinary people don’t have better conditions, but don’t be pessimistic, because everyone experiences similar situations. As long as we are stronger, we can all get through it.
2. A rich family is not as good as a glass of water from a loved one.
Some people said: "The epidemic is like looking at a demon in the mirror. If you have sex once, you will know whether your partner is a human or a demon."
A woman fell ill, and her husband left her behind and returned to her hometown with her child overnight, not forgetting to take the test. After taking away all the food in the house, when faced with questioning, the man confidently said: " Don't your children want to eat it? I am thinking about the children."
This brain circuit is really strange. Don't you know how to buy food for your children yourself? As long as he considers his wife a little, he will not take away all the food.
There is also a woman who is pregnant. Her husband returns home from a business trip and lives directly with her parents.
The woman was very lonely and hoped that her husband could come back to accompany her. The husband replied: "It's good if I bring you food. Why do you ask me to go back? It's a purely unnecessary sacrifice."
He has a strong sense of prevention, but he ignores that his wife is pregnant with your child. Is it too much to accompany her?
The most difficult thing was for a mother who became pregnant the day after giving birth.
Her father-in-law and mother-in-law were too scared to come. Her husband was also sick and lay crying on the bed. The woman had no choice but to get up and take care of her husband, who had just had a cesarean section.
The screen is full of anger. My husband is too fragile. No matter how uncomfortable the fever is, is there any pain like a cesarean section?
When you are lying on the hospital bed, you will realize that your wealth is not as good as a cup of hot water from your loved ones.
If you can have someone by your side to take care of you when you are sad, you will taste happiness even if you have a simple life.
3. We are cared for by our parents, so we must never forget to care for our parents.
A netizen left a message: "Please pay attention to the elderly."
Many elderly people do not know how to use smart phones and do not know how to buy medicine online. Just because we cannot hear their voices does not mean that they do not have problems.
On the contrary, the situation of the elderly is much more difficult than we imagined.
A friend who went home early told me that the clinic in the village was overcrowded and families went to see the doctor. Most of them had fever and cough. The elderly in rural areas did not have the habit of preparing medicine. After they fell ill, they habitually went to the village clinic to see a doctor.
The medicines in Kecun Clinic are also limited. If the medicines in stock are used up, we don’t know what we will get to treat everyone.
It is not easy for the elderly in the village, and it is also difficult for the elderly in the city.
Some elderly people live alone in old houses. They don’t like to watch the news and have no idea how serious the situation is outside. They still go to the market to buy food. They only realize how uncomfortable the illness is when they feel uncomfortable.
But what can we do? My children are out of town, want to go to the hospital but don’t have the strength, so I can only carry it at home.
These elderly people are the focus of our attention. Most of them have underlying diseases and live very frugally. When they encounter problems, they don’t know how to deal with them. At critical times, children should call their parents frequently to remind them to go out less and protect themselves. The safety of their parents is the greatest blessing for their children.
4. Cherishing the people in front of you is true wisdom.
Zhang Ailing said: " Some love gives you many opportunities, but you don't care. When you want to cherish it, the other person no longer wants to love you."
People with foresight know how to cherish the people in front of them.
Parents can accompany us in the first half of life, children can accompany us in the middle period, but only partners can accompany us in the second half.
When you are sick, the only person who can really stay by your bedside is your friend.
Therefore, please be kind to the people in front of you. Every contribution you make is like depositing savings in the bank. The more you save, the more love you will receive.
Life is full of ups and downs. No one can have smooth sailing. Don’t be discouraged when you are at a low point. Have more faith in the future. If you get through it, you will be better.
All living beings are suffering, and we can only overcome it by ourselves.
What we can really control is our own life. When our family needs it, we should do our best. This is also the power of family love. When you know that someone is loving you, no matter how much hardship you have, it doesn't matter.
encourage each other!
