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The baby is now more than 8 months old. I want to go out to work. I discussed with my husband that my mother-in-law should take care of the baby at home. My mother-in-law will take care of the baby during the day and I will take care of the baby by myself at night. I give my mother-in-law 2,000 yuan for living expenses every month, and I pay for all the household expenses. However, my mother-in-law is unwilling to take care of the child and insists on going to work. My parents-in-law are working outside. When I was pregnant and had a baby last year, my mother-in-law said that she would not take care of the baby after it was born. I'm OK with giving them 2,000 as living expenses every month because their wages are paid yearly, so I pay them once a year. Now that the new year is over, they have to go out to work, and they don't mention the money.
Because my mother-in-law is from Guizhou and we are from Anhui. My mother-in-law was married and she has several sisters in her family. My husband’s grandmother is also alive.
My husband also has a brother. She is not married yet. My mother-in-law trusts her sisters very much. My mother-in-law listens to everything she says. They asked my mother-in-law to buy a house for my husband and brother in Guizhou, and they planned to let my husband and brother live in Guizhou. They did not discuss it with us when they bought a house for my husband and brother in Guizhou. What is even weirder is that when my baby was born, my husband said a few words to me. My husband's grandma was not happy, saying that my husband has changed since he got married, and he does everything to your wife. I don’t want to face them anymore, so my husband said that my mother-in-law’s treatment of me was maliciously instigated by people from Guizhou
So there was the following conversation
Some people may say that my mother-in-law should not have raised children for her daughter-in-law in the first place. Actually I think so too. So I don't blame them. But I have to make these things clear to my husband in advance, since they don’t contribute money or effort. Then I will not fulfill my filial piety to them in the future.
Alas, is there anyone weirder than my mother-in-law?
