It is said that the world of middle-aged people is not easy. They have seniors and juniors, and they have to support their families. If the elderly at home are not in good health, it will be even worse.
My second sister’s family is a very typical example. The second sister is 57 years old and is still running for a living. She works in a restaurant, washing dishes, cleaning, wiping tables, and sweeping the floor.
Ordinarily, at the age of 57, you should not work outside the home, but do some light work at home and take care of your grandchildren.
But her family's conditions do not allow it, because her 25-year-old son is not married yet, but she has a partner. The two of them said they would talk for a year or two and see if they are suitable before talking about marriage.
My second sister was so angry that she couldn't help it. She said that her son was ignorant and didn't consider her. That was enough, so what else could he choose?
Then, my 28-year-old niece has yet to find a suitable partner. She is very selective. She not only wants to find someone with a good family background, but also a handsome and good-looking person. How can there be such a good thing in the world? You have everything. If you choose someone, why will they choose you?
came and went like this, and my niece’s marriage was delayed.
This is our heart disease, and it is also the reason why my second sister cannot calm down.
Not to mention, my second sister has to bear all the family expenses.
The monthly mortgage, water and electricity bills, and favor expenses are all paid out of the more than 2,000 yuan earned by the second sister from working in a restaurant a month.
The second sister is also in poor health. She spent more than 30,000 yuan on eye surgery last year.
I had another ear surgery this year, which cost more than 7,000 yuan. No matter how strong a person is, no one can withstand such a torment. What's more, the second sister is still a sick person!
I want to ask my second brother-in-law what he is doing and why he doesn’t help share some of the burden. He is a person who doesn’t worry about anything. My sister is responsible for everything in the house.
He just likes to shoot TikTok , visit relatives, go to the supermarket, and play with his mobile phone. Anyway, everything at home has nothing to do with him. He said: Enjoy life while you are young now.
When it comes to their children, they have to make their own decisions and work hard. If their life is good, they will live a good life, and if their life is bad, they will live a bad life.
However, he dumped all these responsibilities on my second sister.
It is very difficult for a family where the man is powerless and relies on the woman for everything.
In a family, the two husbands and wives should share the responsibilities at home, instead of the woman jumping around.
