Are you "yang"?
During this time, our emotions have been ups and downs.
At the same time, he also saw through the darkness of human nature.
Among them, the experience of a Shandong wife caused the entire network to feel distressed.
She was diagnosed as positive , started to have a high fever, and felt pain and weakness all over her body.
But the physical pain is not the most fatal.
The next morning, her mother-in-law and her husband immediately returned to their hometown with their children.
In order to prevent the child from being infected, it is understandable that the mother-in-law takes the child away.
But what about her husband?
He also evacuated quickly, leaving only his wife who had a high fever at home.
has no concern or care for the person beside him.
However, this is not the most chilling.
The woman woke up in the middle of the night and wanted to eat some fruit, but found that the food and drink at home had also been taken away.
There is only a peeled banana and a rotten pear.
is afraid of being infected and doesn’t want to stay and take care of her.
Not even a good fruit was left behind...
Seeing this scene, the woman collapsed.
She said: "We usually have a good relationship as a family. I didn't expect that they would be so heartless when I need it most."
The woman couldn't help but post a video of her complaints online.
Some people said: During the epidemic, the negative test was tested, the positive test was tested, and the human nature was also tested.
Some people also said: It is understandable for the son and mother-in-law to leave, but it is a bit unethical for the husband to leave, and it is unforgivable to take away the supplies.
Some people say: You will know the character of your mother-in-law after confinement, and you will know the character of your husband when you are sick. Human nature cannot withstand hardship.
What I didn’t expect was that there would be a follow-up to this matter.
On the third night of the woman’s illness, her husband questioned her.
First, let’s talk about their departure:
“You are pregnant, and the child is only over two years old. Shouldn’t we stay away from you? What’s more, there are children.”
Let’s talk about fruits:
"Fruits are what children like to eat. What will the children eat if I don't take them away? Do you want the children to be hungry?"
Finally, he added:
"You'd better delete the video."
Her husband didn’t care about her at all, but instead criticized her.
The woman was confused for a moment.
After 7 minutes, I replied to him aggrievedly:
"You didn't come to take care of me when I was most uncomfortable, and you still said this..."
"I need nutrition now, how can I eat this bad pear..."
There is no complete empathy in the world, but any other person can feel it:
The sadness and heartbreaking pain in the woman’s heart.
It is said that "a friend in need is a friend indeed", but in reality it is "everyone flies away when disaster strikes".
An epidemic has become a touchstone for marriage.
not only tests human nature, but also can see clearly the human heart.
corresponds to the sentence: Many things will be known when you get sick.
A person who is really good to you will always be good to you no matter when.
During this period, there was more than one similar thing.
December 20, Shangqiu, Henan.
The incident happened to a pregnant woman who was 6 months pregnant.
After her husband tested positive for the infection, she never left him.
Under her careful care, her husband recovered quickly.
At this time, she suddenly had a fever of 39.5 degrees.
At this time, her husband's behavior made her very chilled.
Her husband ignored her and left her alone at home to go out drinking.
I played until four in the morning, then went home and fell asleep.
This sounds outrageous, but it really happened.
After watching this video, the woman’s eyes are full of disappointment.
The woman said that her husband was 8 years younger than her.
When she was in love, her husband was very kind to her and she never had to worry about household chores.
Looking at her now familiar yet unfamiliar husband, she felt very uncomfortable.
Thinking about it carefully, is she really realizing her husband’s true character now?
I don’t think so.
Maybe I am just deceiving myself.
A blind tolerance and patience, just in exchange for the result of insisting on living with him.
But I didn’t expect that at a critical moment, I really saw the coldness of human nature.
A netizen put it to the point : “Even if there is no epidemic, you should still be selfish."
When facing real problems, it seems that many people have long forgotten the oath :
"Whether it is good times or bad, rich or poor, healthy or sick, I will always love you, cherish you, and be loyal to you until forever. "
This is an oath, but also a responsibility. We must take it with confidence.
As the saying goes, to see a person clearly, you must not only see how good he is when he is good to you.
It depends more on how bad he can be to you
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This is not only the bottom line of morality, but also the lowest point of human character.
In times of crisis, protecting oneself has become everyone's instinct.
This is obviously understandable.
But the most important thing is the person on my bed whom I get along with day and night.
I would like to ask, how can we remain indifferent?
From the moment they decided to get married, everyone was filled with love and expectation.
Although life is ordinary and simple.
But once an unexpected situation occurs, it will test whether a marriage is strong or not.
There are many wonders in the world.
Fortunately, some people and things did not disappoint us.
There is a hot topic on a certain platform: "Treatment after having sex".
Looking through the "positive" case video area, I found many warm stories.
Some husbands give their wives three different meals a day after they become pregnant.
“Take good care of yourself. "
On the night when she was most uncomfortable, her husband stood guard at the door.
"He said he was afraid that I wouldn't hear me calling him, so he slept at the door and guarded her. "
Some husbands don't do any protection, telling stories to their wives and massaging their legs.
"They are still the same after twelve years of marriage. ”
During an epidemic, we have witnessed too many unexpected emotional situations.
Uncle Jiang admires those who still choose to protect their other half when the test comes
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They made me see that besides fame and fortune, there are more precious things in this world.
Being in the same boat through thick and thin and sharing weal and woe is our most complete expectation for love.
does not necessarily have to be romantic, but what is required is that each other can exchange sincerity.
In a marriage relationship, pay attention to details and see the essence through phenomena.
Why do we often say: Love or not is all in the details.
Because feelings are mostly composed of trivial matters day after day.
How much your partner loves you can be clearly seen in the details.
Between husband and wife, only by exchanging hearts with each other and knowing each other can we manage a good marriage better.
Light up [Watching] and forward it so that more people can see it. I hope everyone can meet a "qualified" partner.
