Qian Zhongshu says marriage is like a besieged city. People in the city want to go out, and people outside the city want to come in. When every single dog has no partner, everyone will ask him the same question is what kind of wife you want to find. So the single dogs have the same answer, find a woman who can live a good life!
However, there is a type of people who do not cheat in the relationship, do not have domestic violence, and have no bad habits. The husband works outside and the wife does housework at home, which looks simple and beautiful. Isn’t this the life that most people want?
The following chat record between couples is worth pondering after reading it, especially the married mother
Seven years of itch. This is the most ridiculous one among all the reasons for divorce. A man pursues freshness and never thought that every new person will not experience an ordinary life in the end. I wonder if this man will regret it in the end?
. In the real marriage now, I feel that it has been less than 7 years. It may be a hurdle for two or three years, because society is developing too fast now. If we were at the beginning, everyone’s attraction lies in appearance, but what is the important point that our long-term attraction can make our relationship last for a long time? In fact, what is more important is that the two people grow up simultaneously, and life is a mess. Many people can survive the vows, but they can’t survive the trivialities of life.
07 itch often has several reasons,
aesthetic fatigue, humans are a very strange animal, they all like fresh things, it is human nature to like new things, and it is human nature to be lazy and hate labor. Sometimes they may experience emotional aesthetic fatigue in two or three years. It’s just that you see you today, and you are all you every day. If a better person appears during this period, she will not have the shadow of you. She is young, beautiful and talented. At this time, a person with aesthetic fatigue in her marriage life will resist. Such a temptation is actually far from enough to rely on morality. There is another very strange phenomenon, that is, many middle-aged couples can endure hardships together, but they part ways after they become successful. Can anyone tell me where the problem is?
I want to manage a good relationship much more difficult than we imagined, and it takes more effort and more mind than we imagined. If love depends on our feelings, then managing a good relationship depends on our wisdom. I hope everyone has a happy marriage and a happy intimate relationship.
