You must be careful of your thoughts, because it will become your language; you must be careful of your language, because it will become your actions; you must be careful of your actions, because it will become your habit; you must be careful of your habits, because it will become your destiny. Language is human. Behind the intense language is an emotional heart, behind the insulting language is an angry soul, behind the gentle language is a rich heart.
There are probably two ways for people to regret: one does not know that their original behavior was wrong, and later found that the behavior was inappropriate, so they regretted their actions very much. One is that you know that your behavior is inappropriate, but you still do it. Later, the matter was exposed and you were punished, so you regret it. The first behavior is that people are constantly working hard and making progress. Because they have new cognitions, they can only reflect on their past practices when looking back. Like Mr. Lu Xun wrote in his prose poem " Kite ". He thought it was wrong for his younger brother to secretly make kites in the small room. As an older brother, he has the obligation to educate his younger brother. He stepped on the ground with his younger brother's almost ready kite and walked out proudly. Later, he read Western books on children's games and learned that games are the right rights of children. So thinking about his actions toward his younger brother was simply a mental torture. He felt very heavy inside and wanted to apologize to his younger brother. But my brother seemed to be listening to other people's stories. This made him feel uncomfortable.
The second act of regret is just a choice to weigh the pros and cons, not a heartfelt regret. If you are not discovered, you will be lucky and even feel that you are particularly smart and can take advantage of loopholes. What a pity, man's calculation is not as good as God's calculations. If the matter is exposed, the losses after being exposed are far greater than what you have gained at the beginning. After repeated weighing and comparing, I regretted it. This opportunistic approach can easily rekindle. He knew he shouldn't do it, but he still did it, which meant that the thing tempted him a lot and made him unable to help but take risks. So human nature, most
cannot withstand the test and cannot withstand temptation.
