at the beginning:
The so-called confidant, naturally, cannot escape the word "knowing each other and cherishing each other".
There is no trade-off between each other's interests, no words are spoken, you should keep three points. You can be straightforward, honest, express your heart and understand each other...
However, in this world, if two people will integrate into each other's souls in this way, they will most likely have an emotion: ambiguity.
Many people say that confidants of the opposite sex are you, me, and memories, but there is no love. Just like that classic confession: Lover is not full, AU or above.
However, most people who have watched "Ex-3" will remember that there is a shot.
At the wedding, Luo Xi shouted to the man she played with since childhood Meng Yun : Have you ever loved me?
Meng Yun was right next to him and answered: Yes.
people seem to live a lively life, but in fact they are lonely in their hearts, so they want to find someone who can "tell their hearts and talk about their hearts".
However, many confidants of the opposite sex change as they are in the same place, because once there is no sense of boundaries between people, it will be easy to break the wall in the relationship and make the other party see the confusion and worries in their hearts. Therefore, love will be in the beginning of each other.
Especially, the following is, it is difficult for two people to do these three things too much and not feel love.
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can’t bear to say: When chatting, you can get into the other party’s “heart”
People can’t chat with each other, they are never in the word “live”, but in silence, each other is very at ease, and they can let each other see their true feelings.
Most of the time, chatting seems to be the cheapest thing, but in emotions, it is the most sincere thing. Those who can chat will definitely be the same person.
Two people will not be polite and greetings floating on the surface, but can feel from each other's words that each other has the same state of mind as themselves, have the feeling of empathizing with each other with and kindness to take care of each other's feelings.
This emotion is actually a deep affection of "unwilling to bear" that is secretly growing.
and, if you often feel this kind of "unwilling to let go" among confidants of the opposite sex, you can often speak to the other person's heart with just one sentence, and a look can touch the other person's heart, then it is very likely that this emotion will soon rise to a level: dependence.
is like, some words that have been kept in my heart for a long time and cannot be told to anyone. Only by saying to this "confidant" can you be considered to be at ease; some things that you do silently, but only by letting the "confidant" know can you be considered to be at ease.
has formed a magnetic field between each other, and has a non-oviet or exaggerated attraction.
So-called, it is enough to have a confidant in life.
Perhaps, the true meaning of this sentence is that you have found a person. From then on, in front of that person, you can put aside the naked human nature, put aside the darkness of the world, see the grass growing and the warblers flying, and feel the bright sunshine.
Between men and women, they can be called confidants, and they must come from appreciation and comfort.
Only people with similar interests can have common topics and similar interests. If they often go in the opposite direction, it is difficult to accommodate, or they are reluctant to understand, and the atmosphere is depressed, then most of them are like falling in love and cannot produce a beautiful feeling.
However, once there is a spiritual sublimation between each other, a high degree of harmony in the heart, and a deep affection of mutual attachment, the feeling of love will easily arise.
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Can't let go: when encountering trouble, it can help each other's difficulties
In fact, the oldest "confidant" in China is mostly defined in the emotion of seeing true love in times of adversity.
Many poets, celebrities, old ministers, etc., whenever they encounter some career difficulties or suffer from family difficulties, and at this time, a person who can understand his experience and his voice appears, the "faith of a confidant" will be born accordingly.
And this is even more true among confidants of the opposite sex.
I saw a story.
A pair of men and women met in an ancient town.
When the woman passed by a stone bridge, she found someone standing on the bridge head, secretly holding a paintbrush and drawing her figure. The two of them looked at each other and chatted for a few words, which was very speculative.
So-called, it is difficult for millions of people in the world to find interesting souls. Perhaps, between them, they meet the people rippling in their hearts.
A man is worried about his career setbacks, and the woman is also in a broken heart. The more he chats, the more he finds that there seems to be no stranger between them.
Just as the woman had a good impression of a man, she suddenly realized that the man was wearing a wedding ring on her hand, and her heart sank, and she silently hid this love in her heart.
However, the man did not notice the change in the woman's mind at all. He just felt that he could chat with the woman, like a "confidant" given to him by God. After the two went back, they still kept in touch with friends, women kept distance, and men kept in a state of distant relationship.
Until one day, the man's company was unable to make up for the situation, and his wife filed for divorce at this time. After the man got drunk, he suddenly remembered the woman who was on a business trip. Perhaps, he had been suppressed for a long time. After the phone was opened, he cried bitterly at the microphone.
The woman put down the phone and rushed to him that night.
Perhaps, the birth of love is inseparable from meeting the right person.
Some people don’t know that they can become another person before they meet the right person, but when they meet the right person, they will become better.
With the support of a woman, the man found another investment and re-operated the shaky company.
Life is short, but in fact, the emergence of love is not that complicated.
means that when you meet this person, suddenly, you feel that you have expectations in life. This person makes you dare to love and hate. No matter how many detours you have taken, it has become a worthwhile now.
Love has emerged among confidants, that is, I have traveled thousands of mountains, passed thousands of lights, passed many inns, met many people, but I only found a sense of happiness in front of this person.
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Can't forget: When you are separated, you have the state of "longing"
In love, once you have the word "love-sickness", most of the story between the two people will not end easily.
The relationship between confidants seems beautiful, but if the emotion of longing spreads, then the love between the two people has actually taken root in each other's hearts.
How many people, saying "It is better to forget each other than to support each other", but once you have deep lovesickness in your heart, you want to return to that person immediately;
How many people, saying that the two people are not suitable, they can't be together in this life, but they still can't resist the longing in their hearts, wanting to stay together forever and stay with them until old age.
see a story.
There is a pair of men and women, two in different cities.
Originally, they just chatted casually, but the encounter of fate is like a person who has never been masked suddenly knows each other in his heart.
They developed from confidants to couples.
However, the two of them were in a coincidence. When something happened to the man's father, he needed to pay a lot of money. So the family sold the house, which was considered to be the solution to the problem; and the woman's parents also completely disagree that the two of them were together.
At this time, the man felt that such an self would delay the woman, let alone not receive the blessing from his family, so he endured the pain and proposed to break up.
However, although the red line of marriage has been circled by the Moonlight for several times, a lovesickness will take root in the heart, and it will be like the willow branches sprouting in spring. The two of them can't forget each other at all, and in the end, they still walked together.
The woman convinced her parents, and the man moved to the woman's city.
Life is like flowing water, the best love is to fall in love with someone, choose a city from now on, and live a lifetime.
rolls in the world, and the waves wash away the sand.
Pure love is actually the emotions developed by confidants.
Because, there is only simple understanding between each other, no various material involvement, only emotional entanglement; there is no external consideration, only the warmth of each other is revealed in each other's eyes; there is no calculation and consideration of various interests, only the desire to live a good life together.
Life is said that once a person matures, he will no longer be moved.
However, among confidants, they can transcend the outside world and just want to cherish this rare fate.
Conclusion:
Wubai There is a saying: I am the wandering soul on the street, you are the one who smells me.
Perhaps, love arises among confidants of the opposite sex. That's it. They all smell each other's smell and find it.
Someone said that a confidant is the person you pulled you out in the pit.
However, true love should be equal, there is no so-called salvation, only understanding between each other; there is no so-called support, only cherishing each other.
The final result of love is actually for one part: together.
And, confidants of the opposite sex can develop into a relationship, which is because of this, when there is a deep affection between each other that they cannot bear to leave, cannot let go, and cannot forget.
True love is actually two people who are together, and they can give without paying anything in return, and during the period, they can enjoy themselves.
Finally, I hope all confidants of the opposite sex can see the confusion in love and eventually move towards the sweetness in love.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
