The story tells the story of Li Ping'er. Sichuan University graduated and is currently a foreign company employee, self-media person, etc.
Many friends asked me: Li Ping'er, why are you looking for a foreigner?
Many times I just laughed it off and refused to answer. Because no matter what you say, they cannot change their conclusion: they are greedy for vanity, for money.
Actually, my husband’s salary is not high, and my salary is about the same as his. He has one advantage: he loves sports and has a good physical fitness.
I always believe that the attraction between the opposite sex is first of all the attraction of appearance and figure, and then the connection between the other person's views and qualities. This is not a high-level or shallow problem, it is caused by human nature. If you don’t admit it, you can only say that you don’t have the courage to face your true self.
When I was in college in Sichuan, I also had a boyfriend. He said that after junior high school, he had no concept of exercise. One is because of the reason for his studies, and the other is because he developed the habit of laziness.
Sometimes the elevator breaks down and he gets panting after climbing a few floors. How can such a man bring you physical pleasure? How can you live with you healthily until you grow old?
After graduating from university, I naturally broke up with him because of the different whereabouts.
After working, I got to have another boyfriend, who is a workaholic. I admire his dedication very much, but he is so desperate, but he doesn't care much about his body. He can't quit many bad habits of smoking and drinking. Due to the high work pressure, his whole body's emotions are unstable. I often advise him to exercise to relieve stress, but he turns a deaf ear.
Finally, unfortunately, I got cerebral hemorrhage at a young age... From then on, I decided that the first criterion for finding a boyfriend is to love exercise and be healthy.
So, my foreign boyfriend Paul appeared in my world.
Paul and I are colleagues. At first, we climbed the mountain together, but later we were more in love with each other as we talked about it.
Paul is different from the two boyfriends I have had before. They also know that exercise is good for the body, but they just can't do it. Paul is a person who knows that it must do it as much as possible.
He likes Chinese culture very much. He said: You have a famous saying here: "More than a hundred people hear the Tao, only fifty people realize the Tao, and only few people practice the Tao." I just want to be the one who "does a good job"...
I often lament that our culture can influence and change foreigners, but cannot change our own people. This is really regrettable. Friends, after listening to what I said, can you know the reason why I found a foreigner to be my boyfriend? ?
