The older you are, the more you need to be aware of your attitude. Don’t stop talking and tell others whatever you want. You should know that it is not unreasonable to bring disasters from your mouth. The more you are at this time, the older you should cultivate your mind and morality, set a good example for your children and younger generations, and also allow yourself to get good reviews in front of your peers. Instead of often saying the following meaningless words to people:
First, spreading things,
Speaking can often reflect a person's cultivation . When you don't want to cause trouble for yourself, don't talk about other people's shortcomings everywhere. Now everyone is closed and goes through their own ways, inquiring about other people's privacy everywhere, which will have bad effects on others. Maybe you think these words are leisure talk. In fact, the person who listens to you is echoing you on the surface, but behind it is actually laughing at you. When people hear it, you can tell that you are a person with no cultivation and extremely poor character. You reveal this vulgarity all over, like a rural gossip. does not have an airtight wall , not to mention that everyone has a mouth, one passes to ten, ten passes to hundreds, and it passes to the person being told. It will not only be embarrassing, but also leave a bad reputation and reach the ears of their children, which will embarrass them and make them unable to raise their heads. Therefore, when a person is old, he should do what he should do, say what he should say, and think about it before speaking, and be an old man worthy of respect.
Second, the savings at home
Some elderly people like to compare with their peers how much or less their pensions are. When they learn that the other party’s pension is less than theirs, they will be complacent and even proud, constantly show off that they have more pensions, and the savings saved are enough for their retirement, etc. If they know that others have more pensions than theirs, they will be depressed, and when they return home, they will be in a downturn. After a long time, they will still be suffocated. It is really a loss. In fact, no matter how much money is, First, don’t compare, second, don’t be jealous of . Money can make many people enemies. If they are heard by some people with bad intentions, it will bring unnecessary disasters to themselves. I regret it at that time.
Third, conflicts at home
people are emotional, and they will inevitably have some quarrels over time. As the saying goes: "Every family has a difficult sutra" . Talking about conflicts at home with outsiders is the stupidest and most meaningless thing. When you get home, you still have to face your family. It is better to spend the time complaining to others to resolve conflicts, conflicts between husband and wife, quarrel at the bedside and the bedside, the feelings between parents and children, breaking bones and connecting tendons. Smart elderly people will only live their lives in the closed doors. No matter how big the family conflicts are, they will not tell outsiders. Most people know that if they say that others will only look down on you, and feel that their family affairs cannot be solved well, it will become the topic of conversation and laughing stock for others. If you frequently tell the conflicts at home to outsiders, let the affairs of your family spread, and add fuel to the fire of some people who don’t care about the big things when watching the fun, and make small conflicts into big conflicts, resulting in your family unwilling to forgive you, and even leaving you forever, even if you wake up afterwards, it’s too late to regret it.
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